Katara

Was this meant to be funny?

Sora is just so kind-hearted, sweet, and caring. He is the most like able character in the franchise in my opinion. I would love to play as other characters, but Sora is my main man.

I finally told him how I felt. I told him how concerned I was for him. I confronted him last night. Here's how it went down: I was nice and blunt- that didn't work. I then stood right in front of him, and he kissed my cheek saying "Love you." he then added "Ok.....Can you move?" Hearing that from him angered me. I stood there, giving him a stare. "Babe....I'm in the middle of something. Please stop with the games" he said. A few moments later he was trying to move me out of the way so he could keep playing! That was the last straw. I remembered what some people ( including Flaming Lea ) had told me. I snatched his controller, and started yelling. ( No, I will not go into detail of what I said ) we yelled for a long time. Me being the sensitive one as I am, cried. I finally was fed up with it, and walked out the door. A few minutes later he came out of the room, and was trying to cheer me up. He promised to stop his ws, and limit his time. After that, he offered to take me out. We did, and as soon as we got home, he began playing again. -_- This might sound bad, but I then went to the basement and shut off his console. I'm not going to lie, that actually felt great! When he confronted me, he smiled, kissed me and almost went back down to turn it back on. When I asked him about it, and why he's been skipping church, work, etc. he simply told me he wanted to "unwind" and just felt like doing it. He promised to go to work, and church and to spend more time with me. He still plays a lot more than he used to, but at least now, when I come in and demand he stops, he presses that off button as quick as he can. Thank you all for the help, love, and support It really warms my heart to see so many helpful people by my side. I want to thank all of you, but more so for Flaming Lea, Amber Cole, and Cxkj. Please add me I may need your guys help in the future. Until more drama, this is Katara saying farewell

THANK YOU! This is exactly what I needed to hear I want to stand up and show him my true feelings but I just feel like it will only cause more tension. He usually NEVER acts like this. I don't know what the exact cause for this is. He makes excuses.

:rolleyes: Leave that to me.

Yes. His friend works with him. But I don't talk with him much. I've tried to talk to him about it several times. Sweet talk won't work. That is why I am trying to put my foot down.

Ok,, I'm going to confront him about this today. This needs to stop. You guys are so supportive and nice Hopefully this works. PS. Please do NOT send him hate mail for this. He is a sweet guy and this isn't the real him.

This seems like the right thing to do. I just want to avoid as must confrontation as possible.

He's been doing this for around a week now, and he seems to be getting worse. What do you recommend? He's 23.

haha, I've tried that. The guilt trip. Doesn't work

Thank you for your concern I've tried multiple times but he wont listen. That's the thing- he hasn't really seen many people since he's started this. But anyone who's had a talk with him can know this. He is virtually unapproachable. His friend is just like him, but not as bad, I know he's addicted, and he wont tell me why.

Hey everyone! My fiance Josh, AKA Aang ( on these forums ) and his friend have recently had a fetish for Horror Games. I have NO idea why, but all of the sudden he decided to lock himself in his room, and play horror games. This has been going on for days now. He is showing little affection or attention towards me. When I ask him he says "I'm....busy right now" or "Not now" He's been a lot less compassionate, and caring. he's also been very aggressive lately. He's not his usual self. He usually sticks to his work, church, and is always with me. Him and his friend have played Outlast, ( scariest game out there ) Amnesia, Slender: The Eight Pages, Resident Evil games, and more. He's been playing them from dusk to dawn, and only shares a brief look at me before returning to his game. He usually goes to Church every Sunday and Wednesdays- he wouldn't skip it for anything, but he has skipped four services. Also, he's been missing his work for the last few days. He is starting to scare me. I don't know what I should do. How can I confront him about this? What can I do to help him? Please, anyone? I'm here because this is a very good community and you are gamers, and besides Kingdom Hearts I don't game much else. -Katara

Regardless, just know that your love life is not over, and it has just begun. Love is a delicate feeling, and is only felt between two people who share a passion with each other. Real love will come to you in time, and you'll know it