Since your my first friend on here and are very knowlegable about things I figured you could help me.
I have a lot gay and bisexual friends who I love very much(their some of my best pals ) and I guess you could say we are very popular in our school. About six months ago i got a new neighbor Catherine she seemed nice and I befriended her. We grew really close and shared everything (we even had our first kiss) she never had a problem with
the fact that a lot of my friends were gay although she remained adamant that she only liked men and had never liked anything else. I then began to incorporate her into my circle of friends, though they excepted her they never were as close to her as they were with me. Once she started hanging out with us her social life began to improve greatly, then she had a fight with one of my friends who admitted she had a crush on her.
After that my other friends began to slowly push away from her, as expected her popularity began to decline. Then out of nowhere one of my friends told me that she just came out as bisexual. I also noticed that my other friends were all now cozy cozy with her. When I asked her about it she denied it but later that same day I heard her telling my best friend (who is bisexual) that she had alway's been bisexual. Then here's the real kicker the next day a guy walks up to me and asks if it was true that Catherine is bisexual as she had told him the other day that it wasn't true and that she wanted to be with him.
I don't want to seem unaccepting but why does it seem that Catherine is only using being bisexual to be in with the popular crowd. If she is doing this how could she use something that others have struggled with their entire life as a tool do such a thing. I'm really confused on how to handle the situation so please post your advice.