Scared

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

Hey guys, I just needed to talk about something.

 

I have been just...scared about a couple of things lately.

 

One- I have a REALLY bad ulcer in my mouth, and my parents think because I get these often and they are usually really bad that I might have something seriously wrong with me like stomach ulcers. My mom is going to take me to the doctor on Thursday. This ulcer is so bad I can hardly open my mouth, and if I talk, I have to use this numbing prescription my dentist gave me. I can really only eat pudding and popsicles...And drink from a straw. It is really painful and what scares me is going back to a big gastrointestinal doctor. I've had a lot of scary test and stuff done on me when I was younger to see why I was so skinny, and I don't want a whole bunch of test done on me to see why I have these terrible ulcers.

 

Two- I start school again on Tuesday. I am really nervous because my ex is in one of my classes. And I am really scared of him. The teacher in the class however loves me and acts like my mom, but I still am really scared. Also math class is getting harder and I failed my finals so I'm doomed.

 

Three- My older sister (J) has her boyfriend Darin over at our house. He has been living with us since October.

Since October, my sister has become very rude to me, and Darin is really an asshole. In fact, the other week, Darin tried spanking me.And I am just really afraid of both of them.

[Amber Cole 1,557]

Im sorry. I wish I could give advice and say I understand how you feel, but I don't. however, for the ulcer, have you gone to the doctor? You might want to go to a doctor. Either way, I'll be praying for you!

[Soul Eater Evans 4,045]

This probably doesn't mean much, but I'm here for you.

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

Im sorry. I wish I could give advice and say I understand how you feel, but I don't. however, for the ulcer, have you gone to the doctor? You might want to go to a doctor. Either way, I'll be praying for you!

Thanks Amber.My mom and me when to the pharmacist and they sent me to the dentist and the dentist just took a look at it and called in a prescription for numbing.And I know SoUl, you're always someone who can be there for me. Edited January 3, 2015 by Neko-chan

[Amber Cole 1,557]

it might just be some inflammation due to unknown allergies, but keep a close eye on it

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

it might just be some inflammation due to unknown allergies, but keep a close eye on it

I actually have Celiac disease and that triggers them

[Drones 58]

One- I have a REALLY bad ulcer in my mouth, and my parents think because I get these often and they are usually really bad that I might have something seriously wrong with me like stomach ulcers. My mom is going to take me to the doctor on Thursday. This ulcer is so bad I can hardly open my mouth, and if I talk, I have to use this numbing prescription my dentist gave me. I can really only eat pudding and popsicles...And drink from a straw. It is really painful and what scares me is going back to a big gastrointestinal doctor. I've had a lot of scary test and stuff done on me when I was younger to see why I was so skinny, and I don't want a whole bunch of test done on me to see why I have these terrible ulcers.

 

Ulcers should not last very long at all, the best you can do is endure the pain until their run is up. I have personal experience.

 

Two- I start school again on Tuesday. I am really nervous because my ex is in one of my classes. And I am really scared of him. The teacher in the class however loves me and acts like my mom, but I still am really scared. Also math class is getting harder and I failed my finals so I'm doomed.

 

Why would you be scared of him? If your ulcer is taking away your ability to speak, why can't you stay home with a doctor's note? For math, I recommend studying.

 

Three- My older sister (J) has her boyfriend Darin over at our house. He has been living with us since October.Since October, my sister has become very rude to me, and Darin is really an asshole. In fact, the other week, Darin tried spanking me.And I am just really afraid of both of them.

 

 If you live with your mother, you should try telling her your sister is being very very mean to you. If Darin is an asshole then just cut him off completely, treat him the way he treats you. You should not show them that you are afraid, otherwise they will come back to taunt you even more and eventually devour you. Why would Darin try to spank you? If he actually did this then it is a legal offense.

 

Best of luck!

Edited January 3, 2015 by Drones

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

My school is extremely strict about attendance and will end up sending my parents to court. So that's why I can't stay home.

And math has always been my flaw, my counselor is trying to get me into a tutoring program.

Also my mom and dad are planning to make Darin leave soon because he is only causing us trouble.

Also my sister does have mental problems and my mom wants me to stay away from her and Darin which is mainly why I'm in my room a lot.

[Drones 58]

My school is extremely strict about attendance and will end up sending my parents to court. So that's why I can't stay home.And math has always been my flaw, my counselor is trying to get me into a tutoring program.Also my mom and dad are planning to make Darin leave soon because he is only causing us trouble.Also my sister does have mental problems and my mom wants me to stay away from her and Darin which is mainly why I'm in my room a lot.

 

Well if your sister has mental problems, you should remember this when she annoys you, because her annoyance definitely has something to do with it! 

 

Darin may also have mental problems as well, it is good to hear his departure is near!

[WakingDawn96 1,166]

Poor Neko, I don't know what good I can do, but if you need another supporter, I'm here for you. And I'll try whatever I can to help if there is a way.

[Aqua7KH 5,395]

I'm really sorry about that Neko. I don't really know what to say other than the fact that I'm here for you! But like Soul said; that probably doesn't mean much. ^^'

With the whole ex thing, just let your teacher know. Tell her that you're afraid of your ex, and I'm sure she'll do something for you or maybe even change your class to another period if you can. In fact, tell her everything you told us. She sounds like she's the best person who you could tell right now, and you can trust her a lot with this information.

As with the whole sister boyfriend thing, the best thing I could say is to just tough it out I'm just going by experience with this. But if he assaults you, call the police or let your teacher know.

And with the ulcers, I'm sure everything will be fine in the end! I'll pray for you, and just know that it'll pass eventually. Right now, the best you can do is to try to relax and do things that make you happy.

I'm really sorry this is happening to you... I wish I could do more to help.

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

@Drones- Darin actually does have mental issues.

 

@Dawn- Thanks

 

@Aqua- Sadly that is the only period that class is taught, so I kinda gotta be in there.

And they are supposed to be leaving in April, so I think I will be able to wait. And I know what to do it he assaults me.

And hopefully this ulcer will go away cause it's horrible.

[AuraAce 1,126]

I'm really sorry Neko.. I dunno how I could help you.

[Key Sharkz 69]

As far as the ulcers go, let a medical professional decide. I have a friend who gets them all the time, and it just happens to be that he is prone to them, no further medical problems. Some people just get them very commonly. Medical knowledge is actually very poor these days among the common man, for example most people don't realize that STDs are less likely than they think (for example catching HIV is a 1 in a 1000 chance). Often times people panic over little things that are not in fact that dire. You're seeing a doctor soon, chances are you just happen to have a disposition to get ulcers commonly, and they will come up with a treatment plan.

 

As far as your boyfriend and your sister/her boyfriend. I guess it would help to ask why you are afraid of them? If they are speaking to you in a threatening manner or making advances that are seeming hostile or inappropriate contact the authority available (a teacher at school, or your parents) if you honestly feel your life is in danger, or they have made threats to you, then contact the police right away. If you are merely afraid simply because of their demeanor, you can always avoid those people and remember that you are in a safe environment at school where the staff is obligated by law to ensure your safety.

 

However as I said before, if you feel your life is threatened, dial 911 without hesitation.

 

Edit: As far as him spanking you, that could be seen as sexual harassment.

Edited January 4, 2015 by Mist Skye

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

It's my ex boyfriend, and I understand.

 

It could been seen as sexual harassment too