I need some advice from the ladies

[Neptune Vasilias 340]

*Ok so background is my Ex is the prettiest white girl in my grade and my new girlfriend is prettiest black girl in the grade and we recently just started dating also if this comes off as offensive to any females here I am sorry*

 

My question is why is my Ex so nice to me now all of a sudden? Like before she would avoid eye-contact and just be kinda aloof(We both have the same group of friends) but now since I have a new girlfriend(Who's a top student,athlete, and Bleach/Anime fan and Gamer) lately my Ex has been all nice like compliments, asking me to text her later, and saying things are a Robin(old couple name) or US thing. I'm sorry if this seems sporadic. I'm just surprised at how nice she's being to me. I just need some help sorting through this. Lol I'm pretty clueless  :tongue:

 

MY questions is why is my Ex being so nice to me all of a sudden? Is it because I have a new Gf or something else?

[Taeyeon 1,137]

She wants the D.

[Green Sparrow 795]

I don't see how either of their races has anything to do with it, but whatever.I have advice, but I'm a dude, so from one bro to another I'll just say GOOD LUCK!

[Neptune Vasilias 340]

I don't see how either of their races has anything to do with it, but whatever.I have advice, but I'm a dude, so from one bro to another I'll just say GOOD LUCK!

Sorry I thought maybe there was something to do with the race. I'm trying to think of all the angles  :lol: and thank you

Edited March 15, 2014 by Kaiser SilverSun

[x0xKairix0x 82]

From a girl point of view, she's jealous that you have a new girlfriend and she's going to try to steal you back by giving you sweet compliments because she realizes the mistake she made of not paying attention to you. She wants the attention now. I really hope I helped! (:

[Neptune Vasilias 340]

From a girl point of view, she's jealous that you have a new girlfriend and she's going to try to steal you back by giving you sweet compliments because she realizes the mistake she made of not paying attention to you. She wants the attention now. I really hope I helped! (:

More than you know,thank you

[Ghost 1,857]

Hmmm. I don't know honestly. I mean if I were her id just be trying to be your friend cause it aint worth it losing a person over a failed relationship. But you never know other peoples' motives, so...yeah.

 

Idk, don't worry about your ex. Worry about your CURRENT gf and make sure she doesn't feel inadequate or jealous of your ex, imo. All girls want is to be reassured, haha :B

[Cucco 1,907]

she wants to be in a biracial threesome

[Ghost 1,857]

she wants to be in a biracial threesome

[Nick Sideris 1,551]

I really don't know and I really don't want to know .

[Javelin434 3,164]

There is a psychological reasoning for this, but I haven't been able to research that subject yet

Something to do with the mentality of "Hey! Some other girl likes him. Maybe he has a desirable attribute/quality that I overlooked, and I can't let others get that." It would explain why singles are avoided like the plague, but those in relationships attract more of the opposite gender.

[LeYenrz 276]

two possibilities i can think of:

 

1. She's trying to win you back because she's either jealous or realizes that she had passed up a pretty good guy.

 

2. She's happy that you've gotten together with someone else better for you and is trying to become friends with you again.

 

i'm a girl, so i guess these are viable statements.

[Tigerruss 576]

two possibilities i can think of:

 

1. She's trying to win you back because she's either jealous or realizes that she had passed up a pretty good guy. 

2. She's happy that you've gotten together with someone else better for you and is trying to become friends with you again.

 

i'm a girl, so i guess these are viable statements.

Wouldn't a variation on 2 be for his situation be: She still liked you as a friend after you two broke up, but she didn't know how to be your friend without being drawn back into going out with you. Though since you are dating someone else, the risk for that is substantially lower so she is trying to act like a friend.

[Think Pink 1,967]

tbh I don't think it's because she likes you again. In my experience, it's usually a relief when an ex finds a new boyfriend/girlfriend, because then you can talk to them etc. without it being awkward or, as Tigerruss pointed out, making it less likely to slide into an uncomfortable "are you back together"/get together again situation.

[LeYenrz 276]

Wouldn't a variation on 2 be for his situation be: She still liked you as a friend after you two broke up, but she didn't know how to be your friend without being drawn back into going out with you. Though since you are dating someone else, the risk for that is substantially lower so she is trying to act like a friend.

pretty much the same  thing