Women....

[Queen Tery 4,591]

Yeah, I agree. Although it probably doesn't come across too well cause of how lame I worded my post, I actually don't blame her for being mad or yelling at him, I wasn't there, so anything she did that doesn't sound like she's going overboard, I can't blame her for it in the least. It's just...the spit, I mean...*cringe*

 

I definitely understand. The spitting sounds like it went too far. But maybe he called her like a selfish, crazy, clingy disgustingly sadistic whore-bitch. (No disrespect, not saying she is these things and not saying he said these things.) If he called her all that then you know I'd pretty pissed in her situation too

[Aang 649]

The victim always blames themselves.

 

I still don't believe that warrants a spit in the face. If she wants to yell and if you want to yell fine, it's what couples do but spitting is abuse and that is not ok. Is she going to spit on your kids because they didn't do their homework on time? I wouldn't call her coming back to you a miracle either, she's not going to leave you because you noticed some women were beautiful (especially while shopping which is pretty much the most boring thing you can do) and if she was then she's ridiculously egotistical and not worth your time. I do apologise if I'm causing offense by saying this stuff about her but honestly.

 

 

I definitely agree that the spitting was wrong. It sounds like both sides dun firetrucked up. But at the same time we weren't there. We can only hear his side of the story and not hers. 

 

 

Yeah, I agree. Although it probably doesn't come across too well cause of how lame I worded my post, I actually don't blame her for being mad or yelling at him, I wasn't there, so anything she did that doesn't sound like she's going overboard, I can't blame her for it in the least. It's just...the spit, I mean...*cringe*

 

 

I definitely understand. The spitting sounds like it went too far. But maybe he called her like a selfish, crazy, clingy disgustingly sadistic whore-bitch. (No disrespect, not saying she is these things and not saying he said these things.) If he called her all that then you know I'd pretty pissed in her situation too 

This is the line of events in which it took place:

1. Walked in the store, and walked together. 

2. I went to use the bathroom, I walked out, and was distracted by this beautiful women. 

3. We talked for a good 10 minutes, and I said some things.

4. She heard those things.

5. I saw her, and walked by her side. We began to walk. 

6. She started rambling about a wedding dress, and I lingered my eyes at that one women. She bent over.

7. I grinned ( idiotically )

8. She then was talking about how I've been giving more attention to other women more than I was to her.

9. I said, "Were not married yet" Which was again, idiotic, and I STRONGLY regret it.

10. She began to question the wedding at all.

11. We argued, and it escalated to the point that we were shouting.

12. We were directed outside by the manager.

13. I said some more horrible things, it went a bit like Queen Terry said.

14. She started to ignore me, and was walking away. I knew I was in deep waters, so I tried to calm it.

15. Some more ugly  words, and she spit on me, and stormed off. I drove home, called some folks, and posted this article.

 

Now you all should have a better understanding of what went down.

[Aang 649]

That's good, hopefully you two don't face any issues like this again. And if something bad does come up, you should have a better idea of how to handle it now

Best of luck to you two :]

Many thanks.