Question for the ladies part 3

[MasterRoxas13 340]

Why do girls get mad when you see them with nothing but their bra and underwear on, but when they go to the beach, women have nothing on but a bikini ?

Edited February 3, 2014 by MasterRoxas13

[xxClouDxxmoon 901]

There is a time and place for things.

[MasterXemnas 2,285]

Fool. Women are usually prepared to be seen in a bikini. They shave and all that stuff. They're ready. Usually if you are in a position where you are looking at a girl with just underwear and bra, they weren't ready.

[MasterRoxas13 340]

I know but I had to  ask the question after I seen a meme about it on Facebook.  

[xxClouDxxmoon 901]

I know but I had to  ask the question after I seen a meme about it on Facebook.

But I thought YOU found a loophole, not a meme?

[MasterRoxas13 340]

I thought about it, then sometime after figuring out, I saw a meme about it on Facebook. Which led me to ask the question.

[demy1077 56]

heck i'm a chick and i'll agree why do we do that?

[Think Pink 1,967]

These "question for the ladies" things always come off as sexist and I'm actually kind of annoyed by it at this point 

 

There's no "loophole in the female logic", and the way you phrased it sounded really dang sexist. Guys don't mind being seen in speedos at the beach, but imagine if you caught a boy with nothing but his underwear on--he'd be annoyed and embarrassed, right? People see it as an invasion of privacy, and if you see someone like that and they don't like it, you've obviously caught them off guard. 

 

edit: also I'd say the majority of women I see aren't wearing bikinis at the beach anyway???

Edited February 3, 2014 by Think Pink

[King Demise 2,359]

What are you talking about the last time I went to the beach half the women were naked or topless

[MasterRoxas13 340]

Sorry Think Pink if this comes off sexiest, I really didn't mean it to be that way

 

I am asking this because I find it to be a interesting/funny question.

 

but every guy I know won't get mad if somebody  of the opposite sex ( not related to him)  walked in on him when he is changing his shirt ( he will more then likely laugh it off), but if it was a girl, she might attempt to kill the guy lol. Even through she is wearing the same pieces of clothing that she would wear at the beach.

 

For example if a girl walked into a locker room full of guys with their shirts off. No guy is going to throw a fit over seeing them with their shirts off.

 

But if it was a another way around and a guy walks into the girl's locker room. That guy will get crucified. Despite the fact that the girls/women would be wearing pretty much the same thing they would wear at the beach.  

Edited February 3, 2014 by MasterRoxas13

[Shulk 8,623]

People, both boys and girls, are probably okay wearing swim equipment at a beach because they're surrounded by other people who are. Saying that "No guy will throw a fit" over girls seeing them shirtless or in their underwear is quite the generalization. I'm a guy, and I feel nervous in public without wearing a shirt, even if it's swimming while surrounded by other people in swim equipment. It's a personal matter, not "All guys are okay with it, all girls hate it."

[Shana09 5,769]

If I saw you in a speedo at the beach it would be expected.

If I saw you in a speedo at your house when you could be wearing clothes, and you don't want to be seen, you would be embarrassed.

 

Same concept, both male and females deal with this.

[MasterRoxas13 340]

okay for the most part it is like that. Guys for the most part don't care and girls for the most part, do care. I used to be in JROTC and they made sure no girls came in the room when the guys were changing, but those few times when the girls did come in the room when the guys were changing, on multiply occasions  nobody made a big deal about it

 

when this happen to the girls ( when most of the guys were trying to come in the room while they were changing).They were freaking out and pissed off ( I was trying to get a peak since I am a pervert lolololol). They were wearing the same thing they would wear at the beach.

 

this is not a generalization but reality for me.  

[Godot 513]

thats very sexist and gross

 

it's a consent thing; if someone is wearing a bikini in public, thats something they've chosen to be seen in. if a guy walks into a girls' locker room and sees them in their underwear, they're not giving their consent.

 

( I was trying to get a peak since I am a pervert lolololol).

and what the hell. seriously even if you're joking thats not okay????/ i dont even know what to say

[Shana09 5,769]

okay for the most part it is like that. Guys for the most part don't care and girls for the most part, do care. I used to be in JROTC and they made sure no girls came in the room when the guys were changing, but those few times when the girls did come in the room when the guys were changing, on multiply occasions  nobody made a big deal about it

 

when this happen to the girls ( when most of the guys were trying to come in the room while they were changing).They were freaking out and pissed off ( I was trying to get a peak since I am a pervert lolololol). They were wearing the same thing they would wear at the beach.

 

this is not a generalization but reality for me.  

 

There are a lot of guys who are insecure about their body same where there are girls who are insecure about their body.

And no duh, if you were peeking inside without them noticing that would be creepy as heck. So obviously they are going to be pissed.

 

Think of it of you showering and there is some person watching you shower without you noticing, it is creepy.

[Think Pink 1,967]

okay for the most part it is like that. Guys for the most part don't care and girls for the most part, do care. I used to be in JROTC and they made sure no girls came in the room when the guys were changing, but those few times when the girls did come in the room when the guys were changing, on multiply occasions  nobody made a big deal about it

 

when this happen to the girls ( when most of the guys were trying to come in the room while they were changing).They were freaking out and pissed off ( I was trying to get a peak since I am a pervert lolololol). They were wearing the same thing they would wear at the beach.

 

this is not a generalization but reality for me.  

You literally just admitted to illegally invading women's privacy for your own selfishness and if I were in your ROTC program I'd have reported you in half a second to my commanding officer and the school cop. Like you literally just stated that you have zero respect for women's privacy and that is so gross and sexist I can't even 

[baylaust 2,531]

okay for the most part it is like that. Guys for the most part don't care and girls for the most part, do care. I used to be in JROTC and they made sure no girls came in the room when the guys were changing, but those few times when the girls did come in the room when the guys were changing, on multiply occasions  nobody made a big deal about it

 

when this happen to the girls ( when most of the guys were trying to come in the room while they were changing).They were freaking out and pissed off ( I was trying to get a peak since I am a pervert lolololol). They were wearing the same thing they would wear at the beach.

 

this is not a generalization but reality for me.  

Temporarily coming out of retirement for this post.

 

The reason why girls don't like being seen in their underwear as opposed to, say, bikinis, is all about privacy. One is a conscious decision to be seen in public in, and the other is not, simple as that. It's the same as if a guy wears a bathing suit or a speedo out on the beach, and gets upset for someone looking at him in his underwear. One is a conscious decision to wear out in public, and the other is private. Simple as that.

 

In this post in particular, you are generalizing both men AND women, saying all men are okay with people looking at them while they're changing, and all girls aren't. Some people may be okay with that, but a good majority for ANY gender aren't comfortable with people seeing them in their undergarments unless it's something they allow.

 

And finally, boasting about trying to peek at women getting changed, whether you're serious or joking, is not cool, and NOT something to boast about.

 

Okay, I'm gone again.

[MasterRoxas13 340]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

[Godot 513]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

no

you dont know what a double standard is bc its not a double standard it is a privacy issue and please dont try and backpedal after joking about sexually harassing a group of girls

im out goodbye

[Shulk 8,623]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

Whoa whoa whoa, let me get this straight. So to prove that they were seriously still changing, you just opened the door and let everyone see them in their underwear? Why would you ever even think they'd be fine with that?

[Think Pink 1,967]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

I don't think you know what a double standard is. It is completely a privacy issue: as Godot stated, if a woman is wearing a bikini, she is consenting to show off her body. If she's wearing her undergarments, you've caught her off guard and, whether intentional or not, she has not consented to let you see her body and therefore a person has every right to be pissed if you invade that privacy. 

 

You're making it worse and worse for yourself. You a) called yourself a pervert previously, and you can't renege on that statement, so now you're just making excuses since we called you out on your bs. And b) you are laughing and enjoying the fact you grossly invaded womens' privacy?? That is really sick. 

[Shana09 5,769]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

 

Let me pin point each and every statement.

 

1)  There are no double standards, this is privacy. I need privacy because I am insecure about myself, same goes for a lot of people both male and female. Everyone is insecure in one way, and this is one of them.

 

2) IF this was an accident, you wouldn't be laughing about it. It is rude, staring into the girls locker room, like staring at anyone who is changing WITHOUT their consent is wrong.

 

3) They can take their sweet time, this has nothing to do with double standards NOR privacy matters.

 

4) And yes it is not a double standard thing, this you guys being rude and opening the door to people changing. Its privacy.

[baylaust 2,531]

Yes they are guys who are insecure with their bodies ( I do too in some way that is why I still go to the gym and workout). but you guys are jumping the gun here. This is not really a privacy issue more on the lines of double standards.

 

Think Pink this was not something that I did it was kind of a accident. The girls were taking to long so my teachers told them hurry up, but they kept taking their sweet time. So they opened the door to show that they was serious. a couple of girls were not change, and most of the guys saw them with their bra and underwear on. Most guys joked about if this was the other way around, this would not be a big deal. I was laughing my ass off through ( due to the fact that I didn't think my teachers had the balls). The moral of the story is that this is a double standards issue not really me being a creep or a pervert ( in which I am not)  

Dude, please stop talking. You're literally digging yourself into a deeper hole every time you reply.

 

This is literally in no way about double standards. One is something women wear in public, another is not, and is something they don't intend for people to see unless they LET someone see them. It's not double standards, it's privacy.

 

And regardless of the circumstances, you still looked at them while they were changing, when they obviously didn't consent for you to look at them. This isn't a double standard either. If a girl were to peak in on a bunch of guys getting changed, that is NO more okay than if it would be the other way around. Just because a bunch of people around you joke about it, doesn't make it okay.

 

Seriously now, back to retirement.

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

 A double standard would be if the girls burst in on the guys changing and said it's no big deal but get pissed when it's done to them . Really if a person chooses to expose some skin by choice it's not the same thing as being exposed without consent .Everyone is different when it comes to being ok with showing skin male or female alike . Matter of fact , my hubby hates showing skin but I am fine showing mine .It's not a gender issue .

 

Admitting to being a peeping tom isn't cool and is against the law btw so I wouldn't be so cavalier about it if i was you 

[Robin 206]

These "question for the ladies" things always come off as sexist and I'm actually kind of annoyed by it at this point 

 

There's no "loophole in the female logic", and the way you phrased it sounded really dang sexist. Guys don't mind being seen in speedos at the beach, but imagine if you caught a boy with nothing but his underwear on--he'd be annoyed and embarrassed, right? People see it as an invasion of privacy, and if you see someone like that and they don't like it, you've obviously caught them off guard. 

 

edit: also I'd say the majority of women I see aren't wearing bikinis at the beach anyway???

I walk around in my underwear all the time guys don't really find it that embarrassing, well at least i don't anyways I do understand that the way the question was asked sounded pretty sexist though, If someone caught me with my underwear on so be it, most people have seen me in them anyways but then on the other side I'd be embarrassed about other stuff!!! I'm just a confident person in that aspect, and I know that there are women who are the same way don't say it like everybody gets embarrassed in their underwear everybody's different remember that

 

Why do girls get mad when you see them with nothing but their bra and underwear on, but when they go to the beach, women have nothing on but a bikini ?

you could have just posted the meme and it would have been a funny joke but this kind of makes it seem a little sexist, just remember not to try and offend anyone when you post stuff also it depends on who it is ok, some girls would never wear a bikini ever and others dont see why every girl doesn't wear them, it's all about the confidence levels of each person specifically. I know that i could walk around in my underwear in a public street and i wouldn't care but my gf wouldn't be caught in a bikini if the world was ending but she's beautiful she just finds it inappropriate and that's alright because it's part of who she is and that's what I like about her

so just be careful about the way you say things alright?