HOW 'bad' ARE girly girls/preppies/mean girls/popular girls?

[Anonn0000 3,525]

Am I over reacting over them?

 

HOW bad are they? Do they really hurt people?! Are they REALLY evil, bullying, VIOLENCE MACHINES IN PRETTY CLOTHES??!!!! heeellppp....meeeeee....

 

*sob sob sob sob*

 

WHHHHYYYYY!!!!!!!! WHHHHYYYYY

[Aaron 579]

Don't really understand your question, or exactly what you're saying, but no I don't think they are really that bad. Life's too short to get caught up in things that don't matter. 

[Anonn0000 3,525]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:25 AM, Aaron said:

Don't really understand your question, or exactly what you're saying, but no I don't think they are really that bad. Life's too short to get caught up in things that don't matter. 

What DO they do behind those school bars, exactly?!

 

Are they beating people up? Telling them TO DIE?

 

I heard some people are out of school cuz of bullies.

 

This is REALLY bothering me. a lot...

[Aaron 579]

Why is it bothering YOU a lot?

 

I don't whatever "girly-girls" are are beating people up or bullying anyone more than other types of people.

[Anonn0000 3,525]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:28 AM, Aaron said:

Why is it bothering YOU a lot?

 

I don't whatever "girly-girls" are are beating people up or bullying anyone more than other types of people.

The idea that beauty is just evil. My whole childhood is a lie.

 

Things HAVE to be dark, negative, hateful. ITS WRONG.

[Aaron 579]

Well I don't agree with that. And I don't think you should take things so personally.

[Light Guardian 33]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:17 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

Am I over reacting over them?

 

HOW bad are they? Do they really hurt people?! Are they REALLY evil, bullying, VIOLENCE MACHINES IN PRETTY CLOTHES??!!!! heeellppp....meeeeee....

 

*sob sob sob sob*

 

WHHHHYYYYY!!!!!!!! WHHHHYYYYY

hah, dident know a question like that would show up from YOU, OFCOURSE they are annoying and bullying people the whole time, but not with me, cuz they know i'm violent, so they'er scared of me. and i dont let them do such things to other people, i cant stand it just watching them doing bad stuff to people esp children, if i had to i'd beat them so hard, it feels great when i do

Edited November 25, 2013 by Light Guardian

[Anonn0000 3,525]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:51 AM, Light Guardian said:

hah, dident know a question like that would show up from YOU, OFCOURSE they are annoying and bullying people the whole time, but not with me, cuz they know i'm violent, so they'er scared of me. and i dont let them do such things to other people.

HE'S LYING, RIIIIGHHTTT???!!!!!!!!!!!

[Light Guardian 33]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:52 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

HE'S LYING, RIIIIGHHTTT???!!!!!!!!!!!

me lying??? heh, go ask other ppl that know how does it feel and see what they say

[Anonn0000 3,525]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:55 AM, Light Guardian said:

me lying??? heh, go ask other ppl that know how does it feel and see what they say

You have to be a troll. I'm serious.

[Light Guardian 33]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:56 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

You have to be a troll. I'm serious.

hah, dont trust me then

[Larxy 31]

Not all popular girls are evil... and I know it because some of them are friends of mine.

Don't care about bullies. Live your life, protect the ones who has been victim of bullism and teach them that they don't have to worry.

Beauty doesn't mean evil.

Edited November 25, 2013 by Larxy

[Col.Random 3,683]

Here we go again.Look Dawnie you shouldn't let this stuff upset you. Yes there are bad people, but there's also good people. If mean people bother you then don't think about them, just think about what's good instead.And be calm, like Riku.

[Shana09 5,769]

I don't think their fascination with princesses, pink, and clothes have to do with their terrible personality. 

[Dracozombie 4,554]

*Sigh*

 

No.  They are not.

 

But you seem so thoroughly convinced of what you say because you don't even listen to us, so I don't know what it'd take to convince you otherwise.

[SoraKH 793]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:17 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

Am I over reacting over them?:'(HOW bad are they? Do they really hurt people?! Are they REALLY evil, bullying, VIOLENCE MACHINES IN PRETTY CLOTHES??!!!! heeellppp....meeeeee....*sob sob sob sob*WHHHHYYYYY!!!!!!!! WHHHHYYYYY

Dawniee...!I've got A LOT of popular, girly, beautiful girl friend and they may be the best people I know.So no! Not every girly girl is mean and evil.Its a matter of personality!And let me tel you somethin else! People, will judge you for no good reason. But remember, those kind of people are jealouse because ypu are what they want to be, but can't become! So, sometimes if people hate you they actually admire you! So don't worry! Life only gets better ) Edited November 25, 2013 by SoraKH

[Think Pink 1,967]

Your hatred of girly things/girls is coming off as a little ridiculous. 

 

No, a girl being girly, preppy, or popular does not make her mean. What makes a girl mean is if she treats people badly. 

Edited November 25, 2013 by Think Pink

[Caity 3,946]

There's a difference between Girly Girls, Preps and Mean Girl's.  Mean Girl's can be any stereotype.  Preps and Girly Girls aren't automatically mean cause of their stereotype.

[KHUndertaleFan25 2,858]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:27 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

What DO they do behind those school bars, exactly?!

 

Are they beating people up? Telling them TO DIE?

 

I heard some people are out of school cuz of bullies.

 

This is REALLY bothering me. a lot...

I was taken out of middle school because of some kids (yes, meaning boys and girls. Not all of them. Just some.) bullying me. There were some girls bullying me while i was still in middle school, but they didn't wear any girly girl clothes. 

[Yumei 282]

  On 11/25/2013 at 10:17 AM, ~DawnStar2004~ said:

Am I over reacting over them?

 

HOW bad are they? Do they really hurt people?! Are they REALLY evil, bullying, VIOLENCE MACHINES IN PRETTY CLOTHES??!!!! heeellppp....meeeeee....

 

*sob sob sob sob*

 

WHHHHYYYYY!!!!!!!! WHHHHYYYYY

 

Dawnie-chan *sigh* i can answer this to you and the the answer is:

 

Yes,you are over reacting over a quite simple thing and how did you even know people that are pretty are evil.There are good people and bad people so you cant be sure but if you are wondering why there are bad ones that is quite simple they are pretty much have this basic things you call "emotions" which is JEALOUSY,GRIEF,FEAR, and DESPAIR (its too long i wont list e'm all) which takes the form of "DARKNESS" thats because of something,most of them have their own story so i won't write it.As for their actions it would be like they want everything and by everything is being rich and pretty.As for the good ones ,well most of people are gifted with a pretty/beautiful face (like cinderella)but that doesn't they are evil because they are filled with erm..."LIGHT".What im trying to say is *cough* its not their face that matters its their heart either its evil or not,Nya! 

 

EDIT : This explaination may be kinda confusing so....

If you still do not understand feel free to tell me Dawnie-Chan,Nya!  (´･ω･`)/

Edited November 25, 2013 by Nur Qamarina Bt Mazlan

[Hero of Light XIV 2,381]

To answer your questions:

 

Yes, you are overreacting. They are not inherently bad. No, not all of them. No. No. NO.

 

Listen, you really shouldn't get worked up over something like this, especially not this much. Just because a couple of girls in your school act that way doesn't mean that every single "girly girl" in the entire world acts that way too. A lot of those girls are actually really nice people, but some of them feel huge amounts of pressure due to the images they try to make for themselves, and a few of them just have huge egos, so that select amount of girls have reasons for being so mean to others. It doesn't mean they were born with the blackest of hearts or that they are hiding horns underneath all that hair, it just means that they have just as many problems as you do. The only difference is that they have decided to deal with those problems in a different way than you are.

 

They aren't evil, they're just in pain.

 

I'm not sure if this really matters, but if you're in high school right now, or gods forbid middle school, there is something you should know. Every single person around that age has A LOT of pressure coming from every possible direction possible, and that forces them to cope in different ways. Some people try so hard to cope that they forget to adapt. What middle school meant to me was that the nice people got a little edgier and the mean people got a little meaner. But that tends to be the same for most middle schools, save for a few exceptions. High school can sometimes be the same or even worse because there are higher expectations involved, which would mean more pressure to the students, which would mean more people are on edge, only this time everyone is trying to hide that behind a mask of a clique or social group that high school seems to have already made for them. And then there could be a whole discussion about that, but I'm getting ahead of myself.

 

The point is, each individual has their own reason and their own story for how they act, but as far as an "epidemic" goes, it's just everyone trying to make sure they survive. But the ONE THING that they never tell you in school that they ALWAYS SHOULD is that none of what they do is really going to affect the real world that much. If a girl was the most popular girl in school, she is going to feel completely out of her element when she goes out into the real world to find her "dream job" only to find that nobody looks up to you the same way they did in high school. Who you were in school will never affect who you are in the world, trust me.

 

I feel like you've asked this question several times already, but I assure you, "girly", "preppy", and "popular" are not synonymous with "evil", "mean", or "cold-hearted". You must be going through a lot, but I SWEAR, the girls you are referring to are NOT the prime example of all girls out there, especially not the "girly" ones. You should have NO reason to be ashamed of being "girly" in any way at all. A person is who they are based upon their own personality, NOT because of what stereotype or label they fit under. Labels and stereotypes like that are just stupid little things we humans made up because of our frustratingly organized nature and we always have to make sense and see connections between things that actually aren't there. But there's nothing wrong with that as long as we don't let that distance ourselves from other people.

 

I know every little thing may seem like a big deal to you right now, and that all of the bigger things may have become bigger deals as well, but trust me when I say that IT'S ALRIGHT. You are fine, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU, those girls you know just have a bunch of stuff going on in their lives that they have to deal with, and they shouldn't matter to you at all in the slightest. Just be the best YOU that you can be and don't ever worry about becoming like them, because you're not. You are wonderful and nothing will change that. So no more overreacting and doom and gloom, because beyond this stage in your life, even beyond this webpage, everything is a great big wonderful world of opportunity and adventure. Don't be afraid of it just because of a few shadows in your life.

 

Oh, and never mind what Light Guardian said. He seems to have some kind of strange concept of reality if he really thinks that that will get him somewhere in life. It's safe to say that he is just trolling today and that it's nothing to get worked up over.

Edited November 25, 2013 by Hero of Light XIV

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

How many times must everyone tell you the same thing Dawnstar? You are stereotyping and judging and ,even worse, for ridiculous reasons. Real bad people come in all different kind of 'forms' and being girly has NOTHING to do with it . It's a flaw in their character that could manifest in anyone despite their taste in style or clothing. Simple as that.