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[Ventus99 69]

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Edited January 12, 2019 by Ventus99
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[Saber Lily 1,543]

I'm gonna be blunt.

 

Go to your, say I am sorry for any past screwups but I really like you and I want to go out with you. Or your way of aaying it.

 

Don't wait. Find her, apologize, and ask for another chance. You bared your heart here. Bare your heart to her.

[Aqua7KH 5,395]

You should watch Girl Code and Guy Code. Strangely, these shows give good advise.Anyway, I'm going to be blunt. It's now or never dude. You gotta tell her exactly how you feel, no matter how hard it is. At least tell you that you love her more than anything, and that you want to be in a relationship as well. Act confident, girls don't want someone who doesn't.Now with Richard, you're going to have to trust her that she doesn't like him. They'res nothing you can do about that situation other than tell her how you feel. Also, apologize for how you've been acting in the times you were mean and or rude, and tell her you didn't mean to. You just panicked. Take a moment to breathe, relax, then finally tell her how you feel. 

[waytothexdawnx 1,159]

Just tell her how you feel! Her friend is probably just that, a friend. "Richard" may like her more than a friend, but she says she doesn't. She's probably waiting on YOU. Don't make her wait. You'll regret it and lose so many good opportunities to be with her. Just don't be scared. You already knows she likes you, so tell her how you feel about everything. Once you open up to her, she'll appreciate it so much. Just do it!!!

[Tehponycorn 2]

Well, if you had the guts to tell the internet, you should have the guts to tell her. 

Like everyone else, I'm gonna be blunt. You have to apologize to her. You have to. At least make things right with her. Go up to her and say "Hey, I've acted like a total jerk to you, and I'm really sorry. You are the most beautiful girl I've ever met and I would love the chance to go out with you." Or something along those lines. You only have one chance. Don't let Richard win! 

[Lalalablah 1,538]

She's gonna break your heart, so I'd say apologize but move on

[Roy 137]

Hmm this reminds me so much of my 8th grade year. They always say their okay and have no feeling to that person then they say there only friends and then boom they are going out. Tell her that you like her and the reason you acted like a jerk was because you get shy around her and not know what to do then ask her out. Summon all your courage and do it. It's a now or never situation 

[Javelin434 3,164]

Gonna be blunt. 

Wow. Just... wow. It's times like this where being quiet and respectful is better than interacting and being misunderstood. 

 

So... I'm sure some people here would be happy to give advice, and will be a LOT better at it than I ever will... But I have to ask how? How does someone say something like that when presented with a situation like that?!?!

 

Anywho, she says she doesn't like this Richard guy, tell her that you're sorry for being a jerk to her earlier. Tell her you don't think straight and get butterflies in your stomach whenever she's near. Stuff like that.

 

And for the love of god, don't screw this up like the others. No one word responses, any of that stuff...

[Hero of Light XIV 2,381]

I'm going to be TRULY blunt....by saying that it's really hard to accept other people's answers when they are all telling you the same thing (not that your guys' answers weren't good and ones to live by!). It can be really REALLY hard to express your feelings to someone in the real world, especially when it seems easier to do so online or through texts or whatever. But all those things really do is give you the illusion of being anonymous, so it's no different then just spilling your heart out to someone at the bus stop. So if you could speak with your heart here, then it IS possible for you to do so with HER. I know the idea of following other people's advice and just being forward with your feelings is a hard thing to feel comfortable with, but they really are telling you what you need to know. If you never expressly tell her how you really feel, than you will never know for sure if it could have ever gone anywhere.

 

I wanted to avoid this, but I'll ease the tension with telling a little about my pathetic love life (I SWEAR I'm going to keep it short this time!). I had a crush on this girl in high school and wanted to at least try to be friends with her to see if it would go anywhere, but whenever I was around her, she just seemed to keep quiet. I knew that she was a bit of a shy girl, but I did see her talk and laugh a good deal with her friends, so I felt a little self-conscious whenever I said something every 15 minutes or so and she didn't. Eventually, I told one of her friends (just going to drop the name Lauren to keep things simple)how I felt about her, and Lauren said that it was sweet that I did, but she also said that she wasn't interested in dating anyone right now (the girl, not Lauren) and wanted to focus on her studies. I understood that, but I still had personal reasons to keep trying (hey, I'm telling you this much, I can leave some things out). Eventually when it came towards the end of the year, I decided that I just HAD to tell her how I felt, and after the last practice for our graduation ceremony, I told her how I felt, but she said that she already knew and that she wasn't interested. I have to admit, I was a little surprised that she knew, but at the same time I wasn't surprised if it had seemed at all obvious. But even though I was turned down, I felt SO MUCH BETTER! I no longer had that crushing force on my chest, it felt so good to get it out there and to not have it be a problem anymore. Since then, I had felt content that I didn't know how she found out....until I looked in the year book and saw that the quote I submitted mentioned how I had a crush on her! I mentally slapped myself due to the possibility that she may or may not have read that before I told her myself!

 

So now I'll never know how she found out or if she always knew in the first place, but I'm still okay with that. It's not really my problem anymore. I just hope that it won't be her problem anymore either. When I think back to how she acted around me, how she almost never said a word and rarely ever looked me in the eye, even if she was talking to me, I don't think it was just her being shy. I think she may have also felt guilty, for knowing that I liked her despite the fact that she didn't have any interest in dating at that point in time. But she knew what she wanted for her future, and I think I would feel even more guilty if I hindered her in any way, so I hope that she gets exactly to where she sets her sights for, so that THEN she may be able to find happiness in someone who cares for her. For those four years of high school, I usually viewed her as my "light within the darkness"...but now that I think of it, I think I was more in love of THE IDEA of loving her than I was actually in love with her. With the issues I'm dealing with, I know that having someone like that by my side will make everything easier, but I guess I just haven't found that girl yet.

 

But I've spent enough time talking about my own problems! If anything can be gleamed from my story that can help in yours, it's this:

 

Don't waste any second you have left with her. You have a chance, more than a chance than I did. She actually likes you, she's interested, you know that. You can't be afraid to tell her how you feel because you're afraid of damaging your friendship. Your friendship with her wont die if you make a strong effort to keep it alive, so tell her as if you have nothing to lose, because you don't! And for the love of...well, love, don't tell her through a text or anything, it's about as informal as admitting your feelings in a yearbook. Tell her through your voice and your heart, that's what will really help you in the long-run. Whatever feelings she does or doesn't have for Richard don't matter, it's YOUR feelings that matter, so don't let that stop you. I'm not exactly saying to screw Richard or anything like that, I'm just saying that you can't let the vague possibility that she might have those kinds of feelings towards him dissuade you from telling her your feelings.

 

I know that you might not feel up to it now, but you got to work yourself up to it. Go over it a million times in your head, until you feel ready to say it at any moment. If you want to pick a moment, then that's perfect, but don't wait too long for the right time to tell her, because if you wait for the stars to align, that moment will never come. You and you alone have to make it happen, in person, and lay everything on the line, but don't feel that you're sacrificing everything, because you're not! You're friendship will live on no matter what, so don't be afraid of loosing that.

 

Since I feel like I'm basically starting to repeat myself, I'm going to leave you with that. Just speak from your heart, and not your phone.

 

She's gonna break your heart, so I'd say apologize but move on

 

Seriously? Don't listen to her. That's just giving up.

[Silent 824]

JUST GO FOR IT!!! Believe it or not there is something worse than rejection and it is called regret.

[Emrys 3,192]

There are always more fish in the sea, not that you like sea food or anything...

 theres also a more bananas in the.... wait what do bananas grow on... is it bush's? no never mind. what was I saying?

Look, you froze up kid, your a little rusty that's why they compare it to baseball: premature, tackle, offence, but the game goes on! there is always another inning in baseball and what was I talking about? 

[KHUndertaleFan25 2,858]

Just apologize and tell her how you feel.

[The Transcendent Key 12,109]

When it comes to things as vital as love, I can't help but be a helpless romantic.  You need to take the next step my man.  It's obvious that she has deep feelings for you, and it's obvious that she's waiting for you to make your move.  You need to show her that you want her and you need her and that she's your whole world.  If you can't find the words to describe your feelings, then dedicate a song to her and then find the words to apologize for what you did.  You need to bear your heart out, wether it be for the best or for the worst, but at least you'll be able to tell her your feelings.  If you want to establish a loving relationship with her, you have to take risks.  Be brave, stand up for what you believe in, and declare your love for her, and make her feel like the luckiest girl in the universe.  Make her see that you live and breathe her, and that you always think about her, and tell her just how much you love her.  Time is on your side, but you need to act before time runs out.  I hope that things go well for you bro, I sincerely hope they do.  Fight the good fight bro, and don't let Richard win your girl's heart!  Okay, I know that last part sounded kind of selfish, but hey, when a rival appears, you need to earn your girl's heart so that her heart is set on you.  Well, that's all the advice I have, please do what your heart tells you, and summon up the courage to do it.

Edited November 4, 2013 by Golden Fighter

[Kirie 3,489]

Youre being a jerk to her if you really love her would you reply negative to her? Of course not! She thinks youre not intrested in her. thats a problem you gotta change buddy.

[Axtwyt 500]

Grow some balls and take your freaking chance, lad! Life's too short to let your shyness get in the way of enjoying life. There are lines you don't know exist until you cross them. The sooner you get over yourself and tell this girl how you feel, the sooner you'll know where you stand with her.And get this: You've already done it. You just told complete strangers online about the girl you care for. Just trust that she'll get what you're trying to say, if you're going to do it in person (It's better to do it in person, anyway. Then you know it's her who you're talking to and not one of her friends). You allegedly are friends with her, which means you're semi-comfortable around her.You can do this. I have faith in ya, lad.

Edited November 6, 2013 by Johnny Madman