Help talking to my crush

[4Everbee 1,365]

Eh, before I start, sorry for no posting much. I come online almost every day, just don't stay that long. Sorry. 

And sorry for being such a annoying kid lately, I don't meant to. 

 

Anyways.

There's this boy I like, and you all know I wouldn't be here if I wasn't such a idiot around him, I talked to him a few times but each time I end up turning bright red or doing that high pitch girly voice I do when I'm trying to hide something or when I'm nervous.

So, long story short. . How in god's name do I talk to him without turning red and being a total idiot.  

 

[Kinode 3,056]

Be casual... I honestly have no other suggestions. If you try too hard, you'll end up scaring him away and getting disappointed when he does.

Just be cool, be YOURSELF.

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

Well confidence is the key! Remember that you are a person worth talking to and getting to know so be confident in who you are so you can calm down and not worry so much about whatever makes you feel so anxious or worried about.

[Uncle Dolan 963]

Be casual... I honestly have no other suggestions. If you try too hard, you'll end up scaring him away and getting disappointed when he does.

Just be cool, be YOURSELF.

 

I couldn't of said it better. You should admit your feelings to him eventually, maybe it's obvious to him; but you should do it regardless. Try to get to know him first though, anything can help.

[EternalReckoning 1,135]

Most people love to meet new people and talk to new people, hed probably be thrilled if you asked him out, so be yourself be confident, and remember youre just as important as anyone else. also the worst he can do is say no

[Guest]

Maybe it's just me, but I'm more nervous around people I don't like. Anyway.

Help for this kind of thing is just not to think too hard. If you think too hard about things, you get nervous and scared to say the wrong thing. Think about making him your friend first, because that's what they will be once you're really dating, just with a gender prefix, Boyfriend girlfriend. Just relax, breath in. Act like he's someone you wanna get to know, talk, chat, build it up. Keep calm, and never let emotions get the best of you. Good luck!

[4Everbee 1,365]

Thanks guys. The next time I see him I'll try to talk to him.

[Geralt 4,874]

Be yourself, just try not to freak out. I know it's hard and it will take getting used to but you must it'll help a ton.

[Elijah Gravenhorst 480]

Forget him. Love is pain and it never does anyone any good. He would only make you miserable.

[The Transcendent Key 12,109]

Well, the most important thing here is that you don't get in the way of yourself, have confidence, and approach him like you would approach a friend of yours. Start with small talk and from there form a deeper conversation. Remember that all things begin with a single step.

Edited June 17, 2013 by Sesshomaru

[The_eternal_nothing 586]

Forget him. Love is pain and it never does anyone any good. He would only make you miserable.

your almost as depressing as me hahaha

[Elucidator 21]

your almost as depressing as me hahaha

Go to a dumb looking gang-banger, kick him in the testicles (multiple times if needed), steal his gun, go to school, go the boy you like, point the game at him and ask him to date you (boys like guns or at least i do) if he refuses, shoot him, then shoot yourself, deadpool style.

That's exactly what i'd do, being a lonely nerd who likes to use russian sniper rifles to bang people's head in codmw2 and be and @$$hole to everyone, who reads deadpool comics daily.

 

If you want the truth, as a fellow male human (i'm 89% positive i'm)  if you like him that much, just your continuess approach will make him notice, keeping your calm is also important, the best way to do that is to be with a friend of yours, if in a large group, or simply try to greet/help/ask/advice/kill/meet/call/chat/shoot/envite (et cetera et cetera) him more often, for now, you should seek a normal friendship, these things are done patiently, since confessing now would be a bad idea.

If you keep getting close to him, you'll get used to him, that's pretty normal for every living creature, even babies wont cry after seeing a person multiple times.

Hope i helped solving that puzzle of yours or ruining your mental state. 

[4Everbee 1,365]

Forget him. Love is pain and it never does anyone any good. He would only make you miserable.

Ummmmmmmmm.

[Amon 4,279]

Just talk to him like any other person and let that grow from there. Start off slow, try saying one thing to him every day, even if it's just saying hello. Then move that up to talking to him twice a day and so on until you start talking a lot.