Friend Zoned? no Sibling Zoned

[Britipinojeff 95]

is it still called friend zoned if a girl tells you that she thinks of you as a brother?

i don't think theres a word or phrase for that so i'm gonna call it Sibling Zoned D:

[Sikota Urinakano 876]

I'd call that the relationship between Kurai-chan and me.

[Weiss 8,279]

oh no. the forbidden kh13 word.

if someone doesn't want to date another person that's their choice.

[Kaiso 2,764]

It's really degrading to refer to a girl who is free to have an attraction whomever they please and refer it to a 'zone' because your unrequited love isn't returned. It shouldn't matter if the girl doesn't love you in the same way you do if you really truly like her, nonetheless it's really insulting to her to refer to it as being pushed into the 'friend zone' or whatever you prefer to call it. Yeah it sucks to not be loved back in return we've all been through it but it's just outright insulting to call it a 'friend zone' whether you're male or female.

 

 

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

Well, if you're okay with her not liking you back and you still care enough for her to be her "brother", the "zone" doesn't really matter.

[Britipinojeff 95]

oh no. the forbidden kh13 word.

if someone doesn't want to date another person that's their choice.

well of course lol. the thought just occurred to me that im not sure i can say i was friend zoned lol, i like to make sure that i am using the right labels as they are given. 

Well, if you're okay with her not liking you back and you still care enough for her to be her "brother", the "zone" doesn't really matter.

well if i can't get her as a girlfriend im fine with her being a girl friend. only thing that bothers me is that i sorta thought she felt the way i do cuz her friend told me thats how she felt. 

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

well of course lol. the thought just occurred to me that im not sure i can say i was friend zoned lol, i like to make sure that i am using the right labels as they are given. 

well if i can't get her as a girlfriend im fine with her being a girl friend. only thing that bothers me is that i sorta thought she felt the way i do cuz her friend told me thats how she felt. 

 

That's good!

 

I think the issue lies with the friend that lied to you. Who knows what her reasons were but maybe you should confront her about it.

 

And just a word of advice. A few people on the forum are sensitive to the word 'friend zone' so it might be best for you not to use the word anymore.

Edited April 16, 2013 by TheApprenticeofKingMickey

[Britipinojeff 95]

That's good!

 

I think the issue lies with the friend that lied to you. Who knows what her reasons were but maybe you should confront her about it.

 

And just a word of advice. A few people on the forum are sensitive to the word 'friend zone' so it might be best for you not to use the word anymore.

oh really? sorry didn't know whats bad about it?

and if i confront her im sure my heart is just going to pour out cuz while im ok with just being friends with her, i still really liked this girl so not only did her friend tell me that she liekd me, but she also sorta lead me on and went to prom with me. i am pretty sure i made it clear i had feelings for her too so being told like right after prom that she doesnt like me romantically kinda stings.

 

It's really degrading to refer to a girl who is free to have an attraction whomever they please and refer it to a 'zone' because your unrequited love isn't returned. It shouldn't matter if the girl doesn't love you in the same way you do if you really truly like her, nonetheless it's really insulting to her to refer to it as being pushed into the 'friend zone' or whatever you prefer to call it. Yeah it sucks to not be loved back in return we've all been through it but it's just outright insulting to call it a 'friend zone' whether you're male or female.

 

 

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

hmm. sorry i didnt consider this, but the reason i say friend zone is cuz thats what i thought i should call it, thank you for correcting me. and well i do sorta feel like i was pushed into a friend zone cuz i thought that she could have become my girlfriend and she told me that she didnt like me romantically a while after i told her that i liked her. we never did anything romantically, cuz i was never given the chance to, but it was a while ago that i asked her to go on a date with me

[AxelRoxasXionKH 105]

It's really degrading to refer to a girl who is free to have an attraction whomever they please and refer it to a 'zone' because your unrequited love isn't returned. It shouldn't matter if the girl doesn't love you in the same way you do if you really truly like her, nonetheless it's really insulting to her to refer to it as being pushed into the 'friend zone' or whatever you prefer to call it. Yeah it sucks to not be loved back in return we've all been through it but it's just outright insulting to call it a 'friend zone' whether you're male or female.

 

 

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

 

the friend zone does excist,

Sometimes a boy or girl is madly in love with someone, it's not returned but the other person keeps them around, giving them hope not feeling anything for that person. NOW that is degrading, unfortunatly I've seen it way too many times,..

[Gexln 18]

the friend zone does excist,Sometimes a boy or girl is madly in love with someone, it's not returned but the other person keeps them around, giving them hope not feeling anything for that person. NOW that is degrading, unfortunatly I've seen it way too many times,..

 

This. I've seen it happen to a lot of people and tbh i feel like it's happening to me atm, not quite sure how to prevent it though.And please don't use sibling zoned, it made me think you were attracted to your brother/sister.

[kalnet 1,198]

I remember back in the day that there is no such thing called a "Friendzone".

 

Just because she thinks of you as a brother or what not, doesn't mean you have to give up. Just don't throw yourself too much on her. Let things set to motion slowly and continue being yourself. If you've moved on then it's alright.

[Koko 3,944]

the friend zone does excist,Sometimes a boy or girl is madly in love with someone, it's not returned but the other person keeps them around, giving them hope not feeling anything for that person. NOW that is degrading, unfortunatly I've seen it way too many times,..

 

How dare someone not like you! The nerve! Tbh it's more degrading for someone to expect someone else to like them because they're nice to them and they're their friend and then being upset that the other person doesn't return their feelings. It's basically saying "Well how dare they not like me back! How awful!"

 

Anyways, she's still you're friend and you should appreciate her friendship and not treat it like a shitty consolation prize unless you wanna be in the ~enemy zon~e because I swear to poop, when people start complaining about the friend zone, they should get kicked into the ~enemy zone~

[AxelRoxasXionKH 105]

How dare someone not like you! The nerve! Tbh it's more degrading for someone to expect someone else to like them because they're nice to them and they're their friend and then being upset that the other person doesn't return their feelings. It's basically saying "Well how dare they not like me back! How awful!"

 

Anyways, she's still you're friend and you should appreciate her friendship and not treat it like a shitty consolation prize unless you wanna be in the ~enemy zon~e because I swear to poop, when people start complaining about the friend zone, they should get kicked into the ~enemy zone~

Well, It didn't really happen to me, but sometimes people admit likeing someone, and the other person says well I don't feel that way bout you.so when the other person tries to move on cause he/she doesnt like him/her, the other person will ask certain things of you, hold your hand or give you hugs.That is what I mean, that is what's wrong to do.I think that that is what "friend zone" is, one person is in love and admits it, but the other person wants to have a really close friendship.. but that's really hard for the one in love, he/she will see a lot of things as a "sign". so in my opinion it's not degrading to say friendzone, it's actually letting people know where they stand, whether yes or no it'll ever work out.

[Britipinojeff 95]

I remember back in the day that there is no such thing called a "Friendzone".

 

Just because she thinks of you as a brother or what not, doesn't mean you have to give up. Just don't throw yourself too much on her. Let things set to motion slowly and continue being yourself. If you've moved on then it's alright.

if she thinks of me as a brother i think thats reason enough to give up, i don't think shes gonna see me in a different light with time. 

[Jiraiya's Disciple 631]

Dude at least she cares about you at all...She could have laughed at you...Happened to me...so embarrassing 

[Britipinojeff 95]

Dude at least she cares about you at all...She could have laughed at you...Happened to me...so embarrassing 

wow.... that sucks.... i never thought a girl would actually laugh at a guy for that kind of thing

[Jiraiya's Disciple 631]

wow.... that sucks.... i never thought a girl would actually laugh at a guy for that kind of thing

 

 

 

Trust me some women are quite cruel...not all of them...but some

[kalnet 1,198]

if she thinks of me as a brother i think thats reason enough to give up, i don't think shes gonna see me in a different light with time. 

 

That's where you're wrong and that statement of yours alone was why she'll call you her brother. You easily give up, but if that's what you think then so be it. I've been in your shoes once, and I got the girl I want through what you kids call "friendzone" these days.

 

I'm sorry if I'm quite harsh to you but it's reality. If you keep on acting this way, the next girl you have a crush on will end up the same. So man up a little, don't be so insecure, and be yourself more.

[Britipinojeff 95]

That's where you're wrong and that statement of yours alone was why she'll call you her brother. You easily give up, but if that's what you think then so be it. I've been in your shoes once, and I got the girl I want through what you kids call "friendzone" these days.

 

I'm sorry if I'm quite harsh to you but it's reality. If you keep on acting this way, the next girl you have a crush on will end up the same. So man up a little, don't be so insecure, and be yourself more.

thanks for the advice

[4Everbee 1,365]

-Twitches.- 

There is no such thing as a friend-zone. If somebody doesn't want to date you that their choose. They are not 'friend-zoning' you. 

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

The misogyny in this thread is making me want to vomit.

[Britipinojeff 95]

the friend zone does excist,Sometimes a boy or girl is madly in love with someone, it's not returned but the other person keeps them around, giving them hope not feeling anything for that person. NOW that is degrading, unfortunatly I've seen it way too many times,..

 

 

-Twitches.- 

There is no such thing as a friend-zone. If somebody doesn't want to date you that their choose. They are not 'friend-zoning' you. 

sorry but ur late to the party bro, and using the quote above u i think i was friend zoned cuz that was basically what happened to me. 

I remember back in the day that there is no such thing called a "Friendzone".

 

Just because she thinks of you as a brother or what not, doesn't mean you have to give up. Just don't throw yourself too much on her. Let things set to motion slowly and continue being yourself. If you've moved on then it's alright.

ok well if there is still a chance then what should i do?

[ReverofE 698]

It's really degrading to refer to a girl who is free to have an attraction whomever they please and refer it to a 'zone' because your unrequited love isn't returned. It shouldn't matter if the girl doesn't love you in the same way you do if you really truly like her, nonetheless it's really insulting to her to refer to it as being pushed into the 'friend zone' or whatever you prefer to call it. Yeah it sucks to not be loved back in return we've all been through it but it's just outright insulting to call it a 'friend zone' whether you're male or female.

 

 

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

"The Friend Zone" doesn't exist

 

 

sorry but ur late to the party bro, and using the quote above u i think i was friend zoned cuz that was basically what happened to me. 

ok well if there is still a chance then what should i do?

Here is a chart

So just don't try to fit all of the qualifications for her.

[Britipinojeff 95]

 

 

Here is a chart

So just don't try to fit all of the qualifications for her.

dang honesty youve failed me... time to put my acting skills to use

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

 

 

Here is a chart

So just don't try to fit all of the qualifications for her.

 

 

you should not be rewarded with a relationship or sex for something you should already be doing anyway.

 

also, protip, since it's obvious you're a misogynist, you should really educate yourself on the sexism the "friend zone" perpetuates.