I'm new, and I really need to talk to someone..

[9j23m 0]

Thanks to the people below.

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Edited March 10, 2013 by 9j23m

[Weiss 8,279]

Hello and welcome to kh13. 

Well if he's ignoring you then I guess talking to him isn't really an option There isn't really much to do if he's ignoring you that much. You may just have to not worry about him in that case. It sucks to hear you're going through all of that

Hopefully things will get better though.

Edited March 10, 2013 by Weiss

[9j23m 0]

Hello and welcome to kh13. 

Well if he's ignoring you then I guess talking to him isn't really an option There isn't really much to do if he's ignoring you that much. You may just have to not worry about him in that case. It sucks to hear you're going through all of that

Hopefully things will get better though.

Thanks.

[Elijah Gravenhorst 480]

I think you should reconsider how you talk to your "friends." If he really was your only friend, then it wasn't wise to be so abusive to him. Correst me if you think I'm wrong, but I think he's perfectly justified in trying to get some distance from you. If I were you, I would leave him alone for a while and try to get to know somw other people. Doing after school stuff and extra activities can help if you don't have many outlets. But other than that I would just try to change the way I behaved toward's other people. If you don't give people a reason to not like you, it can be alot easier to make new friends. And maybe in time you can regain some old ones.

[tothecikpah 230]

youkoso!

 

hmm..I think it's better for you to move on..just don't think too much about him anymore..one day he will come back to you..just make sure that you already apologize to him..and I'm agree with Elijah, try to join some activities.. you'll automatically have someone to talk..just that..don't be shy

[Silvia Kuroi 1,480]

Welcome to KH13! We may be silly- but a lot of us are very good at helping one another out.

~

As for your problem, I recommend trying to find the time to just apologize once, and try to explain things to him. After that- leave. Move on, and make new friends; it may be difficult, but life (Sadly) is a rather tough road to travel.

 

But I understand your feelings, I too get that sort of feeling from time to time, it's a thing a lot of us go through. So don't worry if you think you're the only one out there with this wort of problem- everyone has to deal with it now and then.

[Sikota Urinakano 876]

Well guess what?

 

 

You can chat me, or more effectively: PM me, and I will listen to everything you have to say and I'll sometimes give some poetic advice like an old sage

 

Edited March 10, 2013 by Sikota Urinakano

[advfox 698]

Welcome to the site. On a more important matter, I've had a similar experience in the past. My advice is that you examine the mistakes you made with your friend, and make sure you don't make them again in the future. You should just move on and be a better friend to put it simply. 

[ReikuSSR 1,071]

 

Hey guys. I'm new to KH13. I really enjoy the Kingdom Hearts series and I have almost played every game in the series 

But there's something seriously going on with my life and I cant really talk to anyone in real life, well, because, no one listens to me..

But back to what i was saying..

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I really need to talk to someone about an issue that's been going on for a while now.

It's about my best friend.. or who I think is my best friend..

Lately I have been going through a really rough time of my life and I would always lash all my anger out on him, and the only reason why i lash it out on him is because really, he is the only person I consider as a 'friend', and he's the only one I usually talk to.

It got to the point one time where I called him a really offensive name, and that pretty much ended our friendship for like a week or two. 

We made up, but things haven't been the same since.

He's replaced me, with who I consider as his 'better friends'

And, as i said above, he's really my only friend, so I'm always lonely and doing nothing 24/7. 

During my time of loneliness, I always would think

"Is life worth it", and "What if i just...left?"

Seeing my "old best friend" with his new friends always makes me feel worse about myself. 

Like I ruin everything.

I have anxiety and depression.. and I'm losing the one person I care about the most. But now, it seems like he's pushing me away. This makes my depression even worse.. I come home crying almost every day because I have a feeling he hates me, and I continuously think about what i said above...

I just wanted to know if anyone knows what I should do or say to him about this.. he always ignores me and even when i try to text him he ignores it.. 

Any recommendations?

Thanks.

Hey. I usually off doing something random, but I can try to be a friend.

Never give up on life Brother. Life gives you shit so you can become strong baring through the pain and that strength will ultimately help someone else in the future or the past maybe even present. heh.

Never hurts to have that hand or shoulder of a friend to help you through things. I personally am a person who hates promises for if those promises are ever broken through any means they can hurt people, but a try hurts people less and even though it doesn't sound as strong as long as people aren't completely broken that is all I care about. Live to keep trying and live to fight again.

 So with that said "I will TRY to be YOUR FRIEND." heh.

Edited March 10, 2013 by ReikuSSR