Villi1997 1,832 Posted March 1, 2013 have you ever felt guilty for rejecting a guy, if so, why? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted March 1, 2013 im not a girl but i have rejected one guy once and i have many female identifying friends who have rejected guys and lemme tell you, sometimes they feel guilty, other times they dont, but when they do, i always tell them they shouldnt because seriously? theyre not obligated to date anyone theyre not interested in. 3 Col.Random, Girgi Girgin and 4Everbee reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted March 1, 2013 Yes because I've had many guy friends in the past that I was close to that really liked me more than a friend that I didn't feel the same way about yet I still cared about them 2 Weiss and Demyx. reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
I♥KH 1,280 Posted March 1, 2013 Yep,because yep. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Weiss 8,279 Posted March 1, 2013 Never had the chance to Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Tery 4,591 Posted March 1, 2013 Well I am not a girl, so I can't say about that side, but I feel like I could put my two cents in here. I've been rejected before and it does suck. But a girl should not HAVE to feel guilty for doing so. They do not have to date every guy that asks them out and the guy would honestly be better off alone than being with a woman that didn't actually want to be with him, but did so anyway. Just be honest with how you feel. Not everyone is right for everyone. 6 AnsemTheWise, Rob, Weiss and 3 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alagoth 46 Posted March 1, 2013 Girls are just cold blooded killers out to ruin your life. Just kidding. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amber Cole 1,557 Posted March 1, 2013 A little cause they were friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hoshiko Hikari 300 Posted March 1, 2013 Yes because I don't like hurting people. I tend to feel guilt pretty easily to be honest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KingdomKatherine 272 Posted March 1, 2013 Yes because I've had many guy friends in the past that I was close to that really liked me more than a friend that I didn't feel the same way about yet I still cared about them same here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
_The Door To Light_ 1,507 Posted March 1, 2013 (edited) I've never even had the chance. foreveralone.jpg If I had, I would feel sorry. Having a broken heart is terrible. Edited March 1, 2013 by _The Door To Light_ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shana09 5,769 Posted March 1, 2013 Honestly even if you don't like someone and its good to tell them that you're not interested in them if they ask you out, it is still tough to say that and you will feel temporarily guilty. Id feel a bit guilty rejecting some dude, especially if its a close friend. It's also hard to say no if its a close friend. 2 Koko and Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Junko 2,815 Posted March 1, 2013 sometimes yes, other times not really Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fates Chance 60 Posted March 1, 2013 Yeah, especially if theyre your friend. I've had a couple guy friends id known for years ask me out or show real interest and when I tell them I just want to be friends or straight up no, there's a real pang of guilt. And ur friendships never the same again. Never. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girgi Girgin 38 Posted March 1, 2013 No one asks me out so... Yeah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Indecypher 495 Posted March 1, 2013 Nope, not a girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted March 1, 2013 I've been rejected before (it sucks sooo much when they are a close friend) and she felt guilty about it but she didn't really need to. It's my problem, not hers. As long as she is being honest she shouldn't feel bad about anything. 1 Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wayfinder823 477 Posted March 1, 2013 i rejected a 30 year old guy one time... but that was honestly because he was 30 and I was scared. 2 Amon and Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dracozombie 4,554 Posted March 1, 2013 I never rejected anyone--I was the one who got rejected in the end because he wanted sex and I didn't. I guess four years of being in a relationship and not getting any would do that to a guy. But, if someone was really nice and honestly cared for me but I was honestly uninterested in him that way, hell yeah I'd feel guilty about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanitasisKirby 1,227 Posted March 1, 2013 I've rejected guys before. I felt pretty bad about it, since I didn't feel the same way for them, but they were still my friend(s) and I cared about them. I don't feel as guilty as I did back then; at least I was being honest. 2 Weiss and Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AnsemTheWise 1,114 Posted March 2, 2013 I rejected a girl once, back in middle school. I didn't feel bad about it back then, but it really bothers me now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Col.Random 3,683 Posted March 2, 2013 (edited) im not a girl but i have rejected one guy once and i have many female identifying friends who have rejected guys and lemme tell you, sometimes they feel guilty, other times they dont, but when they do, i always tell them they shouldnt because seriously? theyre not obligated to date anyone theyre not interested in. ^this.It hurts being rejected but i understand why many people choose to do it.I've rejected girls too only because i was interested in someone else and there's absolutely no point in dating someone you're not interested in, because it's bad for both, even if you're doing it out of good intentions Edited March 2, 2013 by Lt.Random 1 Indecypher reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kirie 3,489 Posted March 5, 2013 its not cause we're mean its because some of us are too shy or just want to be friends or we're intrested in other boys. But mostley its weird how we girls pick reject the nice guys Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted March 6, 2013 its not cause we're mean its because some of us are too shy or just want to be friends or we're intrested in other boys. But mostley its weird how we girls pick reject the nice guys no one rejects the nice guys we reject who we're not interested in 1 Amon reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted March 6, 2013 (edited) Does me telling my old friend in 2th grade that I don't like like him count? If not. Then . Eh. No. Nobody ever asked me out, nor did they like me. witch sucked cause i liked a boy in my class once.. So I never reject somebody whoaa. Edited March 6, 2013 by 4Everbee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
