shadowblade 31 Posted October 7, 2012 Asked me for tips on how to talk to a girl.The best I could tell him was to follow my three simple guidelines: A.don't sound like you're embarassed B.don't use big words you got off the internet C.Be yourself this got me my last girlfriend but she liked to assume alot of things and thought A was more true than anything.so ladies out there can you give me a hint on what i should pass along to my friend he really likes this girl so i want to him to have more success than i did Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolfgang 735 Posted October 7, 2012 (edited) As a guy speaking just c be yourself and nothing more thats all that matters. Just use common sense. Be polite for example. Edited October 7, 2012 by Wolfgang 1 TheApprenticeofKingMickey reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted October 7, 2012 As a guy speaking just c be yourself and nothing more thats all that matters. Just use common sense. Be polite for example. ^ Really, that's all there is to it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Tery 4,591 Posted October 7, 2012 (edited) As a guy speaking just c be yourself and nothing more thats all that matters. Just use common sense. Be polite for example. I wish that worked for me. Edited October 7, 2012 by Ertyx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted October 7, 2012 Girls like confident guys who have a sense of humor and can carry an intelligent conversation but also can be themselves ...Someone comfortable with themselves and can make the girl feel comfortable being around them as well..Also , manners and being courteous help too. 3 Zola, Robbie the Wise and Demyx. reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted October 7, 2012 Be prepared for rejection 2 Godot and Sora96 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barry2255 48 Posted October 7, 2012 Be yourself. Worked for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted October 7, 2012 Be prepared for rejection Girls like confident guys who have a sense of humor and can carry an intelligent conversation but also can be themselves ...Someone comfortable with themselves and can make the girl feel comfortable being around them as well..Also , manners and being courteous help too. my friend askin you why Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted October 7, 2012 (edited) my friend askin you why No matter how much you like a girl, there is always a possibility that she just doesn't like you that way. If your "friend" one day decides to ask her out he should be expecting a "yes", but also be prepared for a "no". Even if you are prepared, being rejected will still hurt, especially if you were already close to the girl before you asked her out. But being prepared will stop you from reacting very badly in front of her, feeling angry at her or yourself, and recover much quicker. Like I said, assume she will say "yes", but there is nothing stopping her from saying "no". Be prepared for both responses accordingly, but don't let the possibility of rejection stop you from asking her out. Edited October 7, 2012 by Amon 2 Godot and Sora96 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khrulesbbs 574 Posted October 7, 2012 Dont stare at the boobs and dont act like an asshole and you should be good Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kalnet 1,198 Posted October 7, 2012 It's not the matter of success but experiences. Don't be scared. Girls are human after all. Get to know her more. Each and every girl has their own tastes, standards, personality, quirks, etc. . We can't give you anymore advice beyond that because we don't know this girl. Don't think too much about it and just approach her. Rejection? Screw that and just talk to her. We all need to experience rejection in our lifetime. Don't think about what other people thinks of you. Just don't bring yourself down by begging, simply buying things for a girl, or pretending to like something that she likes too. Set your standards, Know what you want, know what you need, and you will have a direction. 1 TheApprenticeofKingMickey reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolfgang 735 Posted October 7, 2012 I wish that worked for me. Just haven't met the right one yet, you will 1 Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
_The Door To Light_ 1,507 Posted October 7, 2012 Girls like confident guys who have a sense of humor and can carry an intelligent conversation but also can be themselves ...Someone comfortable with themselves and can make the girl feel comfortable being around them as well..Also , manners and being courteous help too. As a guy speaking just c be yourself and nothing more thats all that matters. Just use common sense. Be polite for example. Would like if I hadn't reached my quota.This is pretty much what your friend will need. I've never been asked out myself , but I know that this is what I'd be looking for in a guy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dusk 910 Posted October 7, 2012 Just tell him not to try to be more than he is and it's also improtant to show your whole personality and not to hide things. (pretty much same as "just be yourself" stuff, but still. There should be some connection or something in common with them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kirie 3,489 Posted October 7, 2012 Just be your self Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Tery 4,591 Posted October 7, 2012 Just haven't met the right one yet, you will I kind of hope I already have. But hey, I suppose life will just keep me guessing. 1 Wolfgang reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolfgang 735 Posted October 7, 2012 I kind of hope I already have. But hey, I suppose life will just keep me guessing. Thats life for you haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted October 8, 2012 It's not the matter of success but experiences. Don't be scared. Girls are human after all. Get to know her more. Each and every girl has their own tastes, standards, personality, quirks, etc. . We can't give you anymore advice beyond that because we don't know this girl. Don't think too much about it and just approach her. Rejection? Screw that and just talk to her. We all need to experience rejection in our lifetime. Don't think about what other people thinks of you. Just don't bring yourself down by begging, simply buying things for a girl, or pretending to like something that she likes too. Set your standards, Know what you want, know what you need, and you will have a direction. He says thank you for your wisdom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kalnet 1,198 Posted October 8, 2012 He says thank you for your wisdom Your welcome. =) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites