Friend Bully

[DarkRealm20 121]

So I have my friend right? And we've been friends for about 2 1/2 years now... And me and him like to joke and always have an awesome funny time... Anyway he also likes to "joke" and what I mean by the is, he'll say stuff like:

"Dude ill firetrucking firetruck you up, don't firetrucking talk shit."

And he also hides my stuff in gym class and leaves me to look for it.... For instance we were in the locker room and when I was changing he takes my shoe and hides it and leaves me to find it so I decide "okay well since he got my shoe ill take his phone" So I take his phone and go "Hey give me back my shoe." And then he pushes me and starts to choke me... And the next day he's all fine.. I need help and don't want to be his friend but he won't stop texting me and shit... And if I say to his face "I don't want to be your friend" he'll want to start shit... Idk I'm in a rock and a hard place and need advice... Thanks also I'm a pretty well liked kid... I'm not teased at all or shit like that, I can get girls etc. but this is bothering me.

[Amon 4,279]

Clearly his idea of friendship is different than yours. You should talk to him about it and if he doesn't want to change the way he acts just ignore him.

[Sora_Roxas26 124]

just tell him, and if he tries to be a tough guy, beat him up, simple, esp since he has choked you before, so theres no reason to fight fairly, so just fight dirty if need be

[Weiss 8,279]

Well if they really do hurt you like that I think you might want to ask someone for help. Maybe a teacher, parent or counselor. I would say talk to the friend but if that is how they treat you I wouldn't take the chance. The best thing you can do is probably talk to someone about it. Edited October 2, 2012 by Keysofblades

[DarkRealm20 121]

Well if they really do hurt you like that I think you might want to ask someone for help. Maybe a teacher, parent or counselor. I would say talk to the friend but if that is how they treat you I wouldn't take the chance. The best thing you can do is probably talk to someone about it.

 

 

The only thing about that is, it will ruin my reputation, I'd be a snitch.. I've already had that happen.. I'm just gonna ignore him from now on.... Not even joking with him... All together I'm ignoring him from now

[CJ Smith 123]

Sounds like you need to look inside yourself and do what's right, no one can tell you how to feel or what to feel, if it gets anymore serious you could always remind him you are messing around or it may be time to find better friends, but remember it has to be your choice you have to say when enough is enough

[DarkRealm20 121]

Sounds like you need to look inside yourself and do what's right, no one can tell you how to feel or what to feel, if it gets anymore serious you could always remind him you are messing around or it may be time to find better friends, but remember it has to be your choice you have to say when enough is enough

 

 

Now is enough... I'm ending our friendship

[CJ Smith 123]

 

 

Now is enough... I'm ending our friendship

 

Ok, sounds like a wise choice

[DarkRealm20 121]

Thanks guys for your support... Even though I don't know you guys... I know I can come to KH13 with anything

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

A friend who physically abuses you by choking you isn't a friend ...so please understand this before something even worse happens to you ...Distance yourself from him .

[Pyrrha Nikos 1,162]

It's a good thing you're ending your friendship with him.

 

He's not really a friend if he physically abuses you and make uncomfortable jokes that is not appropriate.

 

The best thing you could do right now, like the others said, is to stay as far away from him as possible. Since he has your cellphone number, you should change it so he won't call or text you ever again.

[4Everbee 1,365]

just tell him, and if he tries to be a tough guy, beat him up, simple, esp since he has choked you before, so theres no reason to fight fairly, so just fight dirty if need be

 

YYYYEEESSS cause beating him up always solves everything so isn't gonna make any more problems then there is.

 

 

This guy doesn't seem like a real friend-what-so-ever. I think you should A: talk about it and tell him how you feel about how he been treating you or B: tell him that he isn't a real friend and you're getting tired of his bullshit.

Edited October 3, 2012 by 4Everbee

[Axtwyt 500]

Warn him. You are not to be trifled with. If he beats on you again, BEAT THE LIVING SNOT OUT OF HIM. He hit you first.

 

tell him that he isn't a real friend and you're getting tired of his bullshit.

 

THIS

[Demetri Burke 11]

if he doesnt change drop him

[Sora_Roxas26 124]

YYYYEEESSS cause beating him up always slaves everything, so isn't gonna make any more problems then there is.

 

 

This guy doesn't seem like a real friend-what-so-ever. I think you should A: talk about it and tell him how you feel about how he been treating you or B: tell him that he isn't a real friend and you're getting tired of his bullshit.

 

slaves everything?

[4Everbee 1,365]

slaves everything?

 

*solves.

My bad sorry;.

[Geralt 4,874]

I used to know a person that did that to me D:< Thank god he moved away or something I could never get rid of him no matter what I tried ><