My best friends funeral is Thursday.

[Demyx. 10,064]

So yeah of course I will be going to that. But today his mom asked me to be a pallbearer...I told her I would think about it. I'm not really sure if I can do it or not. Only reason I would do it is for his mom and his younger brother. He is going to be a pallbearer too. He looks to me like a brother and I want to make sure I am there for him. My friend would want me to take care of him. But I just don't know.

[waytothexdawnx 1,159]

First off, I want to say how truly sorry I am that you lost your best friend. I hope you're okay and his family and friends find some peace in their time of mourning.

 

That's a difficult thing to do because of how sad it is, but I would do it for my best friend in a heartbeat. Im not saying if you decide not to, its wrong. Its ultimately your choice and you need to be comfortable with it, Im just saying I would do it because I know it would mean a lot to my best friends family and to my best friend who passed. Id feel like I was still by their side to the end, you know?

 

Good luck with making a decision, and again, Im sorry for your loss

[HarLea Quinn 26,501]

I'm so sorry to read about your loss I'm here if you need to talk .

[Robbie the Wise 5,050]

Once again my prayers are with you and your friend's family. It must be tough going through all this when you two had plans you wanted to fullfill, and now there all halted.

At the end of the day make sure you do what's most comfortable, don't pressure yourself I'm sure your friend's family will understand. I won't tell you what to do, but I will offer this piece of advice. Whatever decision that you decide to go with make sure it's the one that gives you the most closure.

Edited September 18, 2012 by devereauxr

[Demyx. 10,064]

First off, I want to say how truly sorry I am that you lost your best friend. I hope you're okay and his family and friends find some peace in their time of mourning.

 

That's a difficult thing to do because of how sad it is, but I would do it for my best friend in a heartbeat. Im not saying if you decide not to, its wrong. Its ultimately your choice and you need to be comfortable with it, Im just saying I would do it because I know it would mean a lot to my best friends family and to my best friend who passed. Id feel like I was still by their side to the end, you know?

 

Good luck with making a decision, and again, Im sorry for your loss

 

Thanks. I appreciate it. Another thing I'm scared of is what if I trip and fall or something? You know? That would be the worst.

 

I'm so sorry to read about your loss I'm here if you need to talk .

 

Thank you very much.

[HikariYami 354]

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope everything will be alright.

[Demyx. 10,064]

Once again my prayers are with you and your friend's family. It must be tough going through all this when you two had plans you wanted to fullfill, and now there all halted.

At the end of the day make sure you do what's most comfortable, don't pressure yourself I'm sure your friend's family will understand. I won't tell you what to do, but I will offer this piece of advice. Whatever decision that you decide to go with make sure it's the one that gives you the most closure.

 

Yeah. I'm working on figuring out what that is. I don't think I will ever really have closure with this. It all seems like a big joke. It is something he would do. haha But he would only do it to me and not everyone else. That's how I know its true.

 

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope everything will be alright.

 

Me too. thank you

[waytothexdawnx 1,159]

Thanks. I appreciate it. Another thing I'm scared of is what if I trip and fall or something? You know? That would be the worst.

 

 

 

Thank you very much.

 

You won't. That's a legit fear though. Even bride's getting married think that. I don't think you would though. When pallbearer's walk, its pretty slow and steady. You would just need to take your time.

[Salve-SiS 125]

I am so sorry for your friend. I know nothing I can say can change anything, but I'm sorry. I'll be praying for him.

[Daniel Black 1,981]

I´m sorry for your friend. Try to think possitive... I suposse he wouldn´t like to see you sad.

[Rayo_Rojo 253]

Aw man im really sorry about your friend. Ive never lost a friend, so i dont know what it feels like...

[goodman2008 66]

sorry to hear about your friend remember the good times you had with him keep him in your heart and memories

[Geralt 4,874]

You should do it if you're really up for it I suppose. Sorry for your loss D: and randomly off topic I like your siggy

[XIIISwords 1,059]

You need closure. I know my story can't compare to what you're going through, but it is sort of similar

Just before I left for a camping trip, my two pets both died. I didn't see them because I had to leave for my trip that night. I'm still upset about their deaths. I keep having one nagging thought. I was the only one in my family who didn't bury them. I was told they were buried on my campus near a lake house and they planted a bush there. I got back from my week long trip last week and have been busy with school. I plan to visit their graves tomorrow finally. I feel like the closure will help me move on.

 

Pets can't compare to best friends, but the message is the same. Do whatever you can for closure, and it will make the healing process easier.