What have I gotten myself into?!

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

It was maybe over spring break, my friend told me something. I have known her for 5 years. She told me that she was biosexual. I freaked-out, and have never looked at my friend the same way again. Turns out all most ALL of my friends are biosexual, and emo. Im not like that, I will only love guys. I am already in love with someone who betrayed me. Im not emo, I take my rage and bottle it up inside. Help me.

[baylaust 2,531]

If they're your friends, you should be able to accept them for who they are. There isn't a rule saying the only way to be friends with someone who is bisexual is to be bisexual yourself, and I highly doubt they think like that either. That really shouldn't be something that changes the way you view them. If you were friends with them before, there is absolutely no reason why you can't be friends with them now.

 

Basically, don't let this change your views of them, ESPECIALLY if it's to the negative. That won't reflect well on you.

Edited September 17, 2012 by baylaust

[FireRubies1 1,325]

Well 1 it's bisexual

and

2. What is your problem here? If your friends being bisexual and "emo" bothers you so much you should either make new friends or not be judgmental. Though it would be a better choice not to be judgmental because there's probably always gonna be something that bothers you about someone.

3.If that stuff bothers you so much just try to remember that no matter what that person is still the same one that you've known and that they shouldn't be any different in your eyes.

4. How exactly did they betray you? If you have rage in you you should probably see a therapist or something to talk it out with instead of just keeping your feelings bottled up

[Godot 513]

if you can't accept her after she trusted you enough to tell you something like that, then she deserves better friends.

[Wolfgang 735]

Then dont look at them that way

look at them as your friends.

[Akihiko 1,628]

I think you mean bisexual. Biosexuality is a completely different sexuality.

 

Why would you not like her only because she is bisexual? She was born that way and it's not her fault that she likes boys and girls. Or plants.

 

Would you like if someone not liked you because you like boys?

 

It's not her fault. Don't judge her because of something she was born with. It's completely normal.

Edited September 17, 2012 by Golden Ultima

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

They wont stop fallowing me everywhere I go...I consider my self the outcast. I just need to tell them something that will hurt me dearly. That they are not my friends.

[Akihiko 1,628]

All of your posts lack proper explanation of the situation.

 

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

 

I am done here.

Edited September 17, 2012 by Golden Ultima

[baylaust 2,531]

They wont stop fallowing me everywhere I go...I consider my self the outcast. I just need to tell them something that will hurt me dearly. That they are not my friends.

 

So now that you know this about them, they aren't your friends anymore? I sincerely hope that I'm misunderstanding that, because if I'm not, then that is extremely disrespectful not only to them, but to tons of people that may be bisexual or "emo."

[FireRubies1 1,325]

They wont stop fallowing me everywhere I go...I consider my self the outcast. I just need to tell them something that will hurt me dearly. That they are not my friends.

 

MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE THEY'RE YOUR FRIENDS AND THEY WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU!

If it's gonna hurt to say they're not your friends maybe you should rethink your feelings. And so what if they start following you?If they didn't try doing something "dirty" with you before they wouldn't do it now. Before I came out as bisexual I knew I liked boys too. So just know that they didn't just suddenly become totally new people

[Lady Aleister 1,677]

Agh! Stop yelling at me! I don't know whats going on... Stop making improper statements

[RikuLove416 23]

All of your posts lack proper explanation of the situation.

 

I don't even know what you're trying to say.

 

I am done here.

 

This ^^^

[baylaust 2,531]

I'm not yelling at you, I'm just telling you that if that is your reason behind them no longer being your friends, then that is offensive and disrespectful to them, which is the truth. If that ISN'T the case, then I apologize.

[Kaneki Ken 1,516]

Agh! Stop yelling at me! I don't know whats going on... Stop making improper statements

 

What we are trying to say is, accept your friend for who she is. If she is bisexual, then okay, so what? That shouldn't change the bond you have with your friend.

[Wolfgang 735]

This topic

smh.

[FireRubies1 1,325]

This topic

smh.

 

[Zola 3,038]

Has your friend started treating you differently since this revelation or something? Maybe if you explained the situation a little more, people would understand you better?

[Shana09 5,769]

Bisexuality is just their sexual preference, you are acting like they murdered someone. You shouldn't be so disrespectful towards them and be like "I don't want to be their friends since they are bisexual :c".

It's just a sexuality, normally I would understand if you are uncomfortable around bisexuality/lesbian/gay/etc. moments because we can't control what we feel? But if you're going to not be friends with them because they like male AND female, that's just disrespectful. You're acting like Bisexuality is terrible, when it's just as normal and great as heterosexual.

Explain more about WHY you feel this way towards your friends?

 

About "emo", what so bad about being emo. Please explain it? If you mean they are constantly sad, then why are you going to make it worse by saying "I don't want to be your friend because you're emo and a bisexual"? That's going to make their situation worse, be a better person and accept them. It's not really hard.

[Weiss 8,279]

Bisexuality is just their sexual preference, you are acting like they murdered someone. You shouldn't be so disrespectful towards them and be like "I don't want to be their friends since they are bisexual :c".

It's just a sexuality, normally I would understand if you are uncomfortable around bisexuality/lesbian/gay/etc. moments because we can't control what we feel? But if you're going to not be friends with them because they like male AND female, that's just disrespectful. You're acting like Bisexuality is terrible, when it's just as normal and great as heterosexual.

Explain more about WHY you feel this way towards your friends?

 

About "emo", what so bad about being emo. Please explain it? If you mean they are constantly sad, then why are you going to make it worse by saying "I don't want to be your friend because you're emo and a bisexual"? That's going to make their situation worse, be a better person and accept them. It's not really hard.

 

This^^

[Amon 4,279]

There's nothing wrong with being bisexual.

 

As comedian Eddie Izzard once said, "I wish I was bisexual, then there would be twice as many people to love."

 

Also, don't ask for help and then get upset when people try to help you. If you want us to agree with your opinion so you feel better, then be more specific.

Edited September 17, 2012 by Amon

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

It was maybe over spring break, my friend told me something. I have known her for 5 years. She told me that she was biosexual. I freaked-out, and have never looked at my friend the same way again. Turns out all most ALL of my friends are biosexual, and emo. Im not like that, I will only love guys. I am already in love with someone who betrayed me. Im not emo, I take my rage and bottle it up inside. Help me.

 

Can I just say, as a bisexual myself, I am extremely offended and insulted by your non-sense making behaviour? Yeah. If you're biphobic, not my problem, as long as you keep it to yourself and it's internalized. But on top of what everyone else said, you're being extremely disrespectful towards your friends.

 

If they're your friends, you should be able to accept them for who they are. There isn't a rule saying the only way to be friends with someone who is bisexual is to be bisexual yourself, and I highly doubt they think like that either. That really shouldn't be something that changes the way you view them. If you were friends with them before, there is absolutely no reason why you can't be friends with them now.

 

Basically, don't let this change your views of them, ESPECIALLY if it's to the negative. That won't reflect well on you.

 

Very much this. You seemed very mis and uninformed other sexualities, especially bisexuality. Before you go outwardly disrespecting your friend like that, I suggest you look bisexuality up and educate yourself on it so you aren't so misunderstanding and biphobic. :c

 

And um, what does emo have to do with anything???

[Shana09 5,769]

Also before you go break your friendship over something so you can accept but wont like that, first spend a week with them.

You'll notice that the differences from them being bisexual and "emo" before and them being bisexual and "emo" after will be 0.

[XIIISwords 1,059]

I've heard that most people are bisexual, but that doesn't mean that they all are going to wind up dating the same gender. Even if they did, your friends should be more important to you than a label such as bi, gay, or straight.

 

Think of it this way... How would you feel if they didn't like you because you were straight?

[Queen Tery 4,591]

Agh! Stop yelling at me! I don't know whats going on... Stop making improper statements

 

No one's yelling at you and you're the one making improper statements. What is honestly the big deal with your friends being BISEXUAL, though? I mean, just because they are doesn't mean YOU have to be. I don't know what makes you think that. If your friends like Cocoa Puffs that doesn't mean you have to like Cocoa Puffs. Jeez, it's that simple.

Edited September 17, 2012 by Ertyx

[Sora96 17,256]

It was maybe over spring break, my friend told me something. I have known her for 5 years. She told me that she was biosexual. I freaked-out, and have never looked at my friend the same way again. Turns out all most ALL of my friends are biosexual, and emo. Im not like that, I will only love guys. I am already in love with someone who betrayed me. Im not emo, I take my rage and bottle it up inside. Help me.

 

That's disgusting!!

 

"Hey girlfriend, we get off to lab mice. And sometimes when we're really dirty we'll use beakers."