WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted August 15, 2012 I think I am becoming depressed. Okay, I really have been wanting to see my crush and get to know her better this year, but now I seem to not be able to find her. She is not in any of my classes, or even at my lunch period. A few of her friends are in my classes, but I don't really want to get them involved into it. I don't know what to do. I am starting to be sad about how I wasn't able to talk to her before now, and now I can't find her and my heart is breaking everytime I hear the word love or heart. What should I do? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted August 15, 2012 It sounds like you're just moping and sad, not depressed. Anyways, just make an effort to talk to her. Chat her up on facebook, arrange to meet up after school/before school/during the weekend There's not much you can do 1 Rizzyy reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LPSmaddie32 3 Posted August 15, 2012 I think you should involve her friends! Take it from a girl, I'm almost positive if you tell her friends, they can help you out! I've done this before with one of my friends, and her crush id very close to asking her out! So just go for it, and I wish you the best of luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shana09 5,769 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) Depression: A condition of mental disturbance, typically with lack of energy and difficulty in maintaining concentration or interest in life. It's not a depression, it's somewhat complaining about something you can do. Find a way to contact her and more. There is basically nothing more you can do more than that. Edited August 15, 2012 by Shana09 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted August 15, 2012 Depression is a different definition here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miku Hatsune 636 Posted August 15, 2012 It sounds like you're just moping and sad, not depressed. ^ This (reached my quota oops) Depression is a lot more deep, and rooted deep within you this just seems like you're a little heartbroken, that's all... no need to make a mountain out of a molehill, right? anyways, just talk to her when you have time you don't have to see her every waking moment of the day, so missing her in a few classes and stuff isn't too bad 3 Koko, Godot and Ivan reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted August 15, 2012 Depression is a different definition here. no it's not depression is depression depression doesnt equal sadness or heartbreak and depression can ruin lives ^ This (reached my quota oops) Depression is a lot more deep, and rooted deep within you this just seems like you're a little heartbroken, that's all... no need to make a mountain out of a molehill, right? anyways, just talk to her when you have time you don't have to see her every waking moment of the day, so missing her in a few classes and stuff isn't too bad ^basically yeah do this you're not even in a relationship with her, no need to get super upset Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Owen 8 Posted August 15, 2012 Depression is a different definition here. Um, no. I would just say get over it. If she isn't/is interested in you then classes doesn't make any difference. Besides, you shouldn't really have much time to "get to know each other" in class anyways. Unless you want bad grades, which could lead to REAL depression. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shana09 5,769 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) Depression is a different definition here. lolno A depression is a depression unless you're telling me you're a severe tropical system. Edited August 15, 2012 by Shana09 1 Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Col.Random 3,683 Posted August 15, 2012 Heartbreak =/= depression Depression is when you're eating and sleeping habits get ruined and you're constantly upset because you feel you have too many problems and all the bad stuff happens to you and you usually think about death. What you're feeling is a little bit of heartbreak because you can't get someone you like. In other words: you're not in depression If you can't find her i suggest you hack into the CIA,the MI6, the ISI, the Russian intelligence, MOSSAD, RAW, Chinese intelligence and then the intelligence agency of your country(if these are not from yours) and hack into NASA's satellites and use each of these to find her. Then go talk to her. 1 Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ivan 969 Posted August 15, 2012 (edited) Depression is a different definition here. Depression is a serious mental illness that does not equal just being a little bit sad. It is a mental condition that makes people feel like the lowest of the low. This feeling isn't just something you feel for a few minutes and then it goes away. It stays with you for what could be days and even for weeks. It sucks out all of your self-esteem and confidence, and can turn the happiest person you know to the next suicide victim. It's a constant shadow that lurks behind you, popping out at the most inappropriate of times to remind you why your existence doesn't matter. And it grows. Then before you know it, it's grown to such an extent that you don't want to put up with it any more and you decide to do something about it. You grab your gun, your knife, your noose, your pills, anything you can get a hold of. You take that one last plunge, because you know no matter how many pills you take, no matter how much therapy you go through, that monster will always come back; and there's only one way out. Depression isn't a word to be thrown around willy nilly whenever you feel a bit sad. What you're feeling is just a bit of teenage heartbreak. It's just a crush, you'll have plenty more of them. If you really want to talk to her, then make an effort. Like Koko said, chat her up on Facebook, there's a 97% chance that she's on there. If she doesn't talk to you, then that means she doesn't want to and respect her wishes. You're 16, a crush you have now won't be the most serious relationship you'll ever have. Edited August 15, 2012 by Ivan 1 Godot reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SquareSora 133 Posted August 15, 2012 just talk to her. i mean its really no big deal that you havent seen her and what your going through is NOT depression. you're just alittle heartbroken over not seeing her, but no need to cause a romeo and juliet sence over this right? just get to talk to her and get to know her more and ABSOULUTLY ask her freinds. and not only that you 2 are already going out right? so just call her and talk to her :DD thats all! :DD just talk to her. i mean its really no big deal that you havent seen her and what your going through is NOT depression. you're just alittle heartbroken over not seeing her, but no need to cause a romeo and juliet sence over this right? just get to talk to her and get to know her more and ABSOULUTLY ask her freinds. and not only that you 2 are already going out right? so just call her and talk to her :DD thats all! :DD Oopsies i meant *scene in the second line Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elijah Gravenhorst 480 Posted August 15, 2012 Calm down! Calm down! Play a KH game! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shana09 5,769 Posted August 15, 2012 Calm down! Calm down! Play a KH game! wat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted August 16, 2012 and not only that you 2 are already going out right? so just call her and talk to her :DD thats all! :DD No, we are not going out. I haven't tried to make an effort to get close to her until now. So I don't have her number either. All I have is I am friends with her on facebook. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SquareSora 133 Posted August 16, 2012 No, we are not going out. I haven't tried to make an effort to get close to her until now. So I don't have her number either. All I have is I am friends with her on facebook. well bro then this is your time act! you need to get close too her! if you like her alot get closer to her and ask her out! dont be shy! you gotta show that you like her by acting differently towards her and being yourself. cause if you dont, then for sure some other dude will come and do that. so man up, get to know her more, be with her in her dire needs, and then when the time is right...ASK HER OUT!!! :DD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted August 16, 2012 well bro then this is your time act! you need to get close too her! if you like her alot get closer to her and ask her out! dont be shy! you gotta show that you like her by acting differently towards her and being yourself. cause if you dont, then for sure some other dude will come and do that. so man up, get to know her more, be with her in her dire needs, and then when the time is right...ASK HER OUT!!! :DD That is what I am trying to do, but I don't know how to get to her to get close to her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SquareSora 133 Posted August 16, 2012 That is what I am trying to do, but I don't know how to get to her to get close to her. well first you gots to get out of the friend zone. after that just be sweet to her and ask her about herself. what she likes and what she does. or whatever. then flirt with her and get her to like you. you just gotta know what she wants in a guy. well first you gots to get out of the friend zone. after that just be sweet to her and ask her about herself. what she likes and what she does. or whatever. then flirt with her and get her to like you. you just gotta know what she wants in a guy. so this leaves 2 options: the first is you could hang out with her all day sometimes this usually works, but remember all girls are different. the 2nd is to ask one of her friends what she wants in a guy once you know this much you can be that type of guy and slowly she will start to like you. cause girls just dont like you like all of the sudden it takes some time for them to like you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Geralt 4,874 Posted August 16, 2012 In this case you can get really depressed honestly. But try not too. Depression is terrible e.e Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
