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musicgam3

out of the so called friendzone in a good way

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yes people it can be done.

I have just done it myself, but I wasn't even realising it in the first place.

a couple of weeks ago I posted my crappy story on this site.

I decided to wait for the girls birthday to come up and plan a REALLY special day.

At the end of the day I wanted to tell her that I couldn't see her anymore, because otherwise I could never go on with my life.

I am a dancer by the way and she loves salsa dancing, so we did a workshop that day, she really liked it.

Then I organised a really big Flashmob with a lot of dancers I knew.

It was so great she was stunned and at the end I played salsa music and danced with her.

then I went to one of the finnest clubs in Amsterdam, a pretty special place where you can lay on beds and eat on lounge music.

She was so thankful that I created the whole day for her so she asked me if I wanted to try again for a relationship only she asked me if I didn't want to rush into it thsi much.

she told me she was scared when I did that the last time and that was why she firendzoned me, so we could take things slow and she could look if she liked me or not.

I didn't really believe that story, but I am happy that I didn't had to tell her goodby.

everything is alright now :)

 

So yes it is possible to get out of the friendzone with sweetness, only you have to be REALLY sweet and make it REALLY special.

 

friendzone= when a girl doesnt want to date you and wants to be friends , which sucks

 

Please do me a favour. Read this:

 

http://kh13.com/forum/topic/32598-why-the-friendzone-is-bs/

 

And rethink what you had just said. (((((((:

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I read the whole story, and I think my story is different from what it meant.

I knew she liked me the whole time, I just couldn't make her show her real feelings.

Also I don't see myself as a nice guy, I didn't want to leave her I only didn't want to date with her anymore.

I still wanted to help her with her homework and speak to her on chat.

she lives far away from me and it costed me a lot of time and money to get to her.

And if you then find out she doesn't really like you and she even said she didn't want to date while I was already in the train.

What should I call this situation then?

I don't blame her for doing it, I don't blame myself or anybody.

I am just happy it is over :)

don't hate

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sorry i just don't approve of words that makes women look like objects

 

the funny thing is the girl said she friendzoned me, I didn't even came up with it in the first place.

But I really respect your opinion ;)

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