TheDarKris 85 Posted June 11, 2012 At least an hour ago I heard my mom and her bf arguing about what seems to be the fact that my aunt is staying at my house. Idk all the details but they were yelling and arguing very loudly. He's done this in the past and nothing bad has really happened but what scared me was that it escalated to physical confrontation, with him pushing my aunt after she what I believed to be her taking his keys to the house. When my mom left to take him to his house I heard my aunt tell me that he pushed my mom in the driveway; that put me over the top. I'm glad she's home safe but now all I can think about is our safety. This isn't like someone who robbed me on the street corner, this is a man who knows where we live and in my mind, lost his mind. It's too early to have the police step in and while he doesn't have a record, I can't go to sleep knowing that there is a man who knows where we live that can come in and do whatever he wants. My peace of mind is gone.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted June 11, 2012 Calm down and take all proper precautions like notifying the police of a possible threat and maybe even have everyone stay someplace else for a few days .Also, make sure your place is locked and secure .Windows and all. 3 waytothexdawnx, Keyblader and Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 11, 2012 Right now it just seems like a bit of anger issues that I strongly suggest getting your mom and him to talk about. If it escalates to something more, get the police involved and have your mom dump him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheDarKris 85 Posted June 11, 2012 Calm down and take all proper precautions like notifying the police of a possible threat and maybe even have everyone stay someplace else for a few days .Also, make sure your place is locked and secure .Windows and all. Ok, guess I need to just think straight Right now it just seems like a bit of anger issues that I strongly suggest getting your mom and him to talk about. If it escalates to something more, get the police involved and have your mom dump him. He's had out-bursts many times before in the past but none that have escalated to physical contact like this, which is why I am as worried as I am now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 11, 2012 Ok, guess I need to just think straight He's had out-bursts many times before in the past but none that have escalated to physical contact like this, which is why I am as worried as I am now. If he's had outbursts before I really think you should notify the authorities Like at least tell them you feel threatened and see where it goes from there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheDarKris 85 Posted June 11, 2012 If he's had outbursts before I really think you should notify the authorities Like at least tell them you feel threatened and see where it goes from there. ok Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted June 11, 2012 (Good thing there was something like this on Glee) Through out my many years of learning, I have grown to find out this has happened to a few people I know. Some where their parents dating someone that turned into a person that used violence, like in this case, others were starting out but nothing happened because they address it before it could get out of hand. I say in your case that you should talk to your mom about it, if she gets in denail then you should just let her think that way for now. Also you could talk to your aunt for support, tell the police as a precaution, and just have people look over this issue. You should definitely get someone, like the cops, to observe the issue. I would hate to see you, your mom, or anyone else get hurt because of this guy, I dont even like hearing that this happened and that you are afraid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheDarKris 85 Posted June 11, 2012 (Good thing there was something like this on Glee) Through out my many years of learning, I have grown to find out this has happened to a few people I know. Some where their parents dating someone that turned into a person that used violence, like in this case, others were starting out but nothing happened because they address it before it could get out of hand. I say in your case that you should talk to your mom about it, if she gets in denail then you should just let her think that way for now. Also you could talk to your aunt for support, tell the police as a precaution, and just have people look over this issue. You should definitely get someone, like the cops, to observe the issue. I would hate to see you, your mom, or anyone else get hurt because of this guy, I dont even like hearing that this happened and that you are afraid. Thanks for the support, something tells me she'll bring it up at some point cause she knows I overheard it. I'll do what I can but I'm hoping things don't need to get further escalated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WakingDawn96 1,166 Posted June 11, 2012 Thanks for the support, something tells me she'll bring it up at some point cause she knows I overheard it. I'll do what I can but I'm hoping things don't need to get further escalated. Everyone in your situation always does, but life doesnt work like that. But if he hurts your family to a bad point, then make sure your mom doesnt fall for the trick of giving hit another chance. Some people hurt someone and then say that they wont ever do it again, but then they do it again anyways. I dont ever want yo find out that you or your family got hurt because of this. I am not saying he is bad, but if it pushed your aunt and mom, it doesnt look too good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NightfallXIII 68 Posted June 11, 2012 (edited) All right, you gotta lock your everything up, make sure your dog (if you have one) doesn't have a muzzle and can bark, and sleep with a BB or paintball gun by your bed. If you have a paintball gun, load it with marbles. I know from expierence that those hurt like a mother. If you don't have those, sleep with a bat. And if you have a security system, activate it. Edited June 11, 2012 by NightfallXIII Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oathkeeper89 17 Posted June 11, 2012 (edited) All right, you gotta lock your everything up, make sure your dog (if you have one) doesn't have a muzzle and can bark, and sleep with a BB or paintball gun by your bed. If you have a paintball gun, load it with marbles. I know from expierence that those hurt like a mother. If you don't have those, sleep with a bat. And if you have a security system, activate it. ^ agreed if you have any sort of weapon keep it close, in case of defense and only bring it in when nessesary so you dont agitate the crazy guy even more,also if you are a minor and feel threatened in any way the police will take your safety very seriously but more importantly you should talk to your about how you feel with the current situation at your house. not sure what your home life is like but you gotta do your best to communicate with your family your mom has to know how you feel about all this and who knows maybe this could serve as a reality check for her so that she can end her relationship with that abusive guy, hope everything works out! Edited June 11, 2012 by oathkeeper89 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
replika13 455 Posted June 11, 2012 not every guy snaps and turns into a murderer or something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
