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OKAY! So I know that 4 boys are kinda chasing me around and they ALL like me. NO ONE has EVER liked me but one of those boys. I ONLY like that one boy. Only two of those four are still at my school. I really can not help this situation right now but...Girl advice??

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This situation doesn't sound familiar to me at all, for me it was 7 guys (in one week xD) and what I did was went out with all of them just to see how a relationship with them would be like (one date) but after about 2 weeks only one was left and im still going out with him but now its long distance and it sucks. So my advice is to go out on one date and see how it goes.

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  On 6/10/2012 at 4:24 PM, 'Axgrce' said:

OKAY! So I know that 4 boys are kinda chasing me around and they ALL like me. NO ONE has EVER liked me but one of those boys. I ONLY like that one boy. Only two of those four are still at my school. I really can not help this situation right now but...Girl advice??

 

I'm kind of confused.

What?

 

You said 4 boys are chasing you and THEY ALL LIKE YOU.

Then you said one of those boys LIKE YOU, and you like him.

 

Do they all like you, or does one of them?

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Jesus christ. Never ask for pure girl advice concerning guys. You need a balance of girl and guy advice.

Now, IF all of these boys like you, go with VentusRoxas' advice and seeing about going out with all of them, not even properly going out on one date, just have a good chat with them and see if you could ever be interested in any of these other three guys. It's good to keep your options open.

However, if I know guys as well as I think I do, chances are you're falling for a very common joke among guys which is pretending to like a girl and having a laugh about it. The sad thing is, most guys are doing this as a complete joke and not trying to be mean or anything but then the girl takes it seriously. Find out for sure whether or not it's a joke.

And last thing I'll say. Whenever you made a topic read over what you're writing so it makes sense.

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  On 6/10/2012 at 5:09 PM, 'Fredfredbug4' said:

Are you implying that this is a bad thing?

 

  On 6/10/2012 at 5:28 PM, 'Kinode' said:

What Fred said.

Isn't this a good thing? I'd love to have girls (or guys) chasing me.

 

Since I can't like, I'll just say I agree.

 

  On 6/10/2012 at 5:03 PM, 'Keyblade King 12' said:

Jesus christ. Never ask for pure girl advice concerning guys. You need a balance of girl and guy advice.

Now, IF all of these boys like you, go with VentusRoxas' advice and seeing about going out with all of them, not even properly going out on one date, just have a good chat with them and see if you could ever be interested in any of these other three guys. It's good to keep your options open.

However, if I know guys as well as I think I do, chances are you're falling for a very common joke among guys which is pretending to like a girl and having a laugh about it. The sad thing is, most guys are doing this as a complete joke and not trying to be mean or anything but then the girl takes it seriously. Find out for sure whether or not it's a joke.

And last thing I'll say. Whenever you made a topic read over what you're writing so it makes sense.

 

Couldn't have put it better myself.

Edited by TheApprenticeofKingMickey

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  On 6/10/2012 at 5:41 PM, 'Elijah Gravenhorst' said:

Your too young get a dog.

 

I might get a dog

 

THANKS YOU GUYS!!!!!!! :lol: :lol:

 

One of the four guys I really like

 

I really dont go out with people and i think i just might break the other guy's hearts. And let them just know who I really stinking am. Just to let them know that I am sortta kind of heartless. So to bad for them I still like that one boy and will never cheat. thanks though. I might just go with my idea. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/cool.png My idea is to show them who I really stinking am.

 

THANKS!!!

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I'm probably one the most experienced users on this site in these matters (age wise at least) except maybe Cricket or DC, but take what I say with a grain of salt.

 

I suppose the best thing to do is just let the others know you aren't interested and ask the guy you are interested in out, and hope it goes well. As for explaining to your admirers be honest and try to to spare their feelings cause teenage boys are already immature and some don't take rejection well.

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I hate it when I get male attention too (it's always the nymphomaniacs that like me).

 

Be strict and/or ignore them. They'll get the message quickly - this is my strategy and it works nicely. :P

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  On 6/10/2012 at 6:28 PM, 'Sammi' said:

I hate it when I get male attention too (it's always the nymphomaniacs that like me).

 

Be strict and/or ignore them. They'll get the message quickly - this is my strategy and it works nicely. :P

 

Always take the best way around :ph34r:

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Well another experience I had with this is when my relationship became long distance, I knew he was going to get asked on dates and he knew that I would get asked on dates, and so what we did is we gave each other space to date other people. Well sure enough it happened to both of us, and we dated the other people but we both got hurt by the other person. So what you might want to do is just be open to ther people. It didn't really work for me because everyone around my boyfriend and I say that we are going to end up getting married and the furthest bet out on when we are going to be engaged is December, sooo. But i have seen it work with other people, you just have to be up front about it.

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Just to protect your selve (and get this advise from a guy who didn't)

Go date the boy you like, but DON'T rush into the relation ship to much take things slow.

If it goed well the other boys will know you are in a relationship DON'T directly tell them.

Because if you told them and the boy you liked doesn't respond good enough you can use the other boys.

Use is a bit of a harsh word, but life is a bitch and you have to survive.

You can do three things if the guy doesn't connect with you.

1. if he suddenly doesn't show interest (which can be the case, believe me I am as stupid a all those boys). Use the other boys to make him jalouse.

2. If the boy doesn't like you at all and your hearts get broken you can use the other boys as a rebound and who knows sometimes it will even work out.

3. if you don't like the boy or you both don't like eachother you can still try to date the other boys give them a chance.

everybody deserves a chance in life, be the one that gives it.

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  On 6/10/2012 at 4:24 PM, 'Axgrce' said:

OKAY! So I know that 4 boys are kinda chasing me around and they ALL like me. NO ONE has EVER liked me but one of those boys. I ONLY like that one boy. Only two of those four are still at my school. I really can not help this situation right now but...Girl advice??

 

OMG NO WAY.

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