Chaosx 113 Posted May 14, 2012 I have a bit of an issue, and I need some input to help me make a decision. It seems that I have a soul, which may be quite surprising to anyone who remembers me. This has been causing me problems with this girl. I met her in February and we've been best friends ever since, but I've known that she's liked me more than that the entire time. She's now pushing for us to go out, but there are some problems with that. 1) Her mom is a lunatic, she sent MY mom an email about how appalled she was that my mom was letting me go to the Blood On The Dance Floor concert, and my parents really don't really like her mom or want to be involved with her at all. 2) She lives across town, like 25 minutes away by car. 3) There are 3 other girls I know who, rather than looking for a long term relationship, just want to have a little fun. 4) She is 3 years younger than me. So, take in the pros and cons, and please tell me logically what the best choice would be. Should I go out with her? I'll have to break up with her in two years when I turn 18, and then I'll have to wait for her for three years for HER to turn 18. And I think it would really suck if this relationship DID last that long and then I had to end it. Regards Chao Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted May 14, 2012 I think if shes only 13 while you are 16 this age gap might be too much at this time in your lives .Especially if her mom doesnt approve. IMO I'd stick to friendship for now 4 Always, Robbie the Wise, burnsideking24 and 1 other reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Tery 4,591 Posted May 14, 2012 13's a bit young for you, dude. sorry, but i don't think it would be the best idea to go there, considering that the mom could press charges against you if you were to slip up in anyway. plus, it sounds like she'd be waiting for you to slip up, as well. just my two cents. 1 Khrulesbbs reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chaosx 113 Posted May 14, 2012 Yeah, Ertyx's concerns are the same as mine. Her mom is definitely the biggest problem here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted May 14, 2012 3) There are 3 other girls I know who, rather than looking for a long term relationship, just want to have a little fun. 4) ..................... When you say 'Fun.' Do you mean sleep with them and never call the. Cause if you mean that. You... Are an man whore.Anyways. If you don't like her in that way, Don't go out with her. Tell her that you don't like her in that way. Easy as that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khrulesbbs 574 Posted May 14, 2012 i mean im not afraid to admit i dated someone older than me before. it can create problems Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 14, 2012 ..................... When you say 'Fun.' Do you mean sleep with them and never call the. Cause if you mean that. You... Are an man whore. Anyways. If you don't like her in that way, Don't go out with her. Tell her that you don't like her in that way. Easy as that. 4Everbee, don't call him a manwhore. If he wants to have fun and feels good doing it in the process, it's not a bad thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted May 14, 2012 4Everbee, don't call him a manwhore. If he wants to have fun and feels good doing it in the process, it's not a bad thing. Yeah but using girls for sex. That's kinda being a man whore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chaosx 113 Posted May 14, 2012 I'm actually perfectly fine with being a manwhore. I WOULD have sex for money if chicks would actually do it. Just saying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 14, 2012 Yeah but using girls for sex. That's kinda being a man whore. Having fun doesn't mean he's using girls for sex. Have you ever considered any girl might feel the same way? Just saiyan. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted May 14, 2012 Having fun doesn't mean he's using girls for sex. Have you ever considered any girl might feel the same way? Just saiyan. -Sighs.- Truth be told. I am not in a good mood. I been seeing this stuff for the past few days and I am kinda sick of it.So yeah I did jump to conclusion, Sorry. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chaosx 113 Posted May 14, 2012 Also, I didn't necessarily mean sex. REGARDLESS, WHAT ABOUT THE ACTUAL ISSUE? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 14, 2012 Also, I didn't necessarily mean sex. REGARDLESS, WHAT ABOUT THE ACTUAL ISSUE? What Lea said, bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted May 14, 2012 If you don't like much interest in her, just don't do it. Especially with the age gap. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chaosx 113 Posted May 14, 2012 Ok, it seems that I left out the teensie weensie little detail about me totally liking her back... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted May 14, 2012 Ok, it seems that I left out the teensie weensie little detail about me totally liking her back... Ahhhhhhh. Well If you find it a big deal to be dating a 13 year old. Then say no and tell her the truth.If you don't, I say go for it. (Age not a big deal to me so this is just me,) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted May 14, 2012 She's 13? Stay away from jailbait girls. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxClouDxxmoon 901 Posted May 14, 2012 Im just sayin that where im from a 16yo going out with a 13yo would be considered a pedo. These are not my opinions, just sayin... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted May 14, 2012 While pedo is a little harsh considering they are both still minors , a 3 yr gap is a bigger deal bc teens expectations and emotional needs are drastically different in that age gap that could very well make this situation possibly end badly. If you know what i mean . 1 Robbie the Wise reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VoidXName 346 Posted May 14, 2012 While pedo is a little harsh considering they are both still minors , a 3 yr gap is a bigger deal bc teens expectations and emotional needs are drastically different in that age gap that could very well make this situation possibly end badly. If you know what i mean . This. I just wouldn't even go out with her, especially since you're going to have to break up with her in two years regardless. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
