DChiuch 5,773 Posted May 13, 2012 Why are you all assuming he's an ass? For all we know, it was the ex's decision/fault that they broke up (but we don't know, he didn't explain). Anyway, they did break up, isn't he free to dance with other girls? I do not at all see how he's being misogynistic or how he "treats girls badly", we don't know anything about what happened. They are 16, he doesn't have to act like the ex is the love of his life, so what if he is considering giving up on their already over relationship (he said they broke up), and asking out a different girl? It's normal that he might have to decide between trying to fix things up, or moving on and dating other people. Why do you assume he's in the wrong?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 13, 2012 Why are you all assuming he's an ass? For all we know, it was the ex's decision/fault that they broke up (but we don't know, he didn't explain). Anyway, they did break up, isn't he free to dance with other girls? I do not at all see how he's being misogynistic or how he "treats girls badly", we don't know anything about what happened. They are 16, he doesn't have to act like the ex is the love of his life, so what if he is considering giving up on their already over relationship (he said they broke up), and asking out a different girl? It's normal that he might have to decide between trying to fix things up, or moving on and dating other people. Why do you assume he's in the wrong?? Who said he can't go out dancing? But going out with one of them is another issue. It's the way he thinks of them, like Kinode said, as if they were toys that's the bad part. Internalized misogyny. He may treat them well on the outside but it's what he thinks of them that earned the reaction everyone else treated him with. He should change his mindset before going out with either girl. 1 waytothexdawnx reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DChiuch 5,773 Posted May 13, 2012 Who said he can't go out dancing? But going out with one of them is another issue. It's the way he thinks of them, like Kinode said, as if they were toys that's the bad part. Internalized misogyny. He may treat them well on the outside but it's what he thinks of them that earned the reaction everyone else treated him with. He should change his mindset before going out with either girl. All he said was that the new girl was hot and that he enjoyed hanging out with them, that in no way means he's viewing these girls as toys and it's definitely not ~misogyny~. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted May 13, 2012 Why would you go to a dance without your girlfriend? I've been single for a long time but I do recall that when you go to a dance your supposed to go WITH your girlfriend and not meet up at the dance later. 3 waytothexdawnx, TheApprenticeofKingMickey and Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki 1,184 Posted May 13, 2012 I don't think girls are into the 'Evil god thing.' Sorry I had to say it. Anyways. My girls into it, and its fair to say that some guys are into that thing too. 1 TheApprenticeofKingMickey reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted May 13, 2012 Its not about him dating again now that hes single . Its about the fact that even though they are technically broken up hes still leading her on to believe they are working on getting back together while hes out carelessly playing with others girls in her face .Then wonders why shes mad aka hurt .Hes not worried about her feelings only what he views as the 'better deal " 5 4Everbee, Robbie the Wise, TheApprenticeofKingMickey and 2 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted May 13, 2012 Ok I agree with both sides on this.its probably better that you do stay single for awhile.the people who've been saying this I'm assuming have all been ladies and they're right you can't look at a girl for her body trust me last girl I liked might as well have just been good looking with how she was.but at the same time you guys did break up.so you are free to hang out and dance with whoever you like.you're not a bad guy for using words like hot and sexy and all that just remember that there's more to a girl than just her looks. 1 VoidXName reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VoidXName 346 Posted May 13, 2012 Ok I agree with both sides on this.its probably better that you do stay single for awhile.the people who've been saying this I'm assuming have all been ladies and they're right you can't look at a girl for her body trust me last girl I liked might as well have just been good looking with how she was.but at the same time you guys did break up.so you are free to hang out and dance with whoever you like.you're not a bad guy for using words like hot and sexy and all that just remember that there's more to a girl than just her looks. This. It's alright for you to see someone else, but don't lead your ex to believe that you're still trying to fix things. just end it. 1 Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 13, 2012 Ok I agree with both sides on this.its probably better that you do stay single for awhile.the people who've been saying this I'm assuming have all been ladies and they're right you can't look at a girl for her body trust me last girl I liked might as well have just been good looking with how she was.but at the same time you guys did break up.so you are free to hang out and dance with whoever you like.you're not a bad guy for using words like hot and sexy and all that just remember that there's more to a girl than just her looks. Not all of the people posting and liking are girls. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Number XV 490 Posted May 13, 2012 This guy seems like a real douchebag. 1 Amon reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Robbie the Wise 5,050 Posted May 13, 2012 This thread is an example of why you don't kiss and tell, what possessed him post this is beyond me 2 VoidXName and HarLea Quinn reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 13, 2012 This thread is an example of why you don't kiss and tell, what possessed him post this is beyond me Or he could worded it differently so he wouldn't have garnered the reaction he did from everyone. 2 VoidXName and Robbie the Wise reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted May 13, 2012 Calm down I meant no disrespect Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689 Posted May 13, 2012 Calm down I meant no disrespect Who said I wasn't calm? I was simply correcting your generalization. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted May 13, 2012 Oh you're fine dude that's just what I say when I need to defend myself.I agree maybe I could've worded it better but yeah its just my expression Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miku Hatsune 636 Posted May 13, 2012 lol, ...straight men .. i swear.. No matter what gender, race, age, or sexuality you may be, this is something all people go through. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khrulesbbs 574 Posted May 13, 2012 No matter what gender, race, age, or sexuality you may be, this is something all people go through. not if you deal with things the smart way and think before you act Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miku Hatsune 636 Posted May 13, 2012 (edited) not if you deal with things the smart way and think before you act But you singled out straight guys. Like it only happens to straight men. Edited May 13, 2012 by Miku Hatsune 3 Koko, Khrulesbbs and TheApprenticeofKingMickey reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khrulesbbs 574 Posted May 14, 2012 But you singled out straight guys. Like it only happens to straight men. I realise , i apologize. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
