SoraKH 793 Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) Yeah so i have this "friend". He does WHATEVER i do! I can't firetrucking stand him anymore! He just copies my life and whatever i do. My hobbies are music and dancing. And i have been awarded for these arts so i'm preety sure i'm good at them. He wanted to be a math teacher and when he heard that i wanted to become a musician and a dancer he wanted to be that too!!! He thinks that he has the BEST voice in the world (i know that i don't have the right to critisize)but he SUCKS!!! I'm starting to forget how is it being special, It is like i'm seeing a second me. I'm tired of him and he is going to start dancing lessons (like me) because he saw me performing. AND HE CAN'T EVEN RUN 10 METERS!! (seriously!!!) and he thinks he can dance?!?! Its not right for me to critisize but he wanted to become a math teacher and suddenly he waned to become a singer/dancer?? I'm tired of being copied. I want my life back http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png Oh and btw i think he is gay and my firends are saying that he is hitting on me... I think i'm going to lose it Edited April 30, 2012 by SoraKH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
replika13 455 Posted April 30, 2012 that only means he idolizes you http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted April 30, 2012 He might like you. One of the most known things that people do when they have a crush is get interested on what the crush likes. Don't be so harsh on him, there'll always be competition. If he's worse than why are you, seemingly, jealous? No need to be. 5 Always, Rizzyy, sorariku17 and 2 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leaxel 178 Posted April 30, 2012 You should just talk to him about it, though if he really wanna dance and sing don't take that away from him, then you should just deal with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keyblade Master Xoncron 499 Posted April 30, 2012 Mimickry is the sincerest form of flattery. 3 Always, XIIISwords and A mystery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EdeaKramer 32 Posted April 30, 2012 you should be flattered in some way but if it bothers you that much as it seems you should talk http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Setting Sun<3 196 Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) If i were you i would've kick his butt like 10 times by now ... Oooooooor i would at least trow a tantrum x3 Edited April 30, 2012 by Setting Sun<3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted April 30, 2012 You should just talk to him about it, though if he really wanna dance and sing don't take that away from him, then you should just deal with it. Yeah that what i said... I'm not taking it away from him.. I don't want to Its just he hated dancing and singing... He actually thought it was stupid but then suddenly he liked it... you should be flattered in some way but if it bothers you that much as it seems you should talk http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png IKR?.... If i were you i would've kick his butt like 10 times by now ... Oooooooor i would at least trow a tantrum x3 Yeah i want to do that 1 Setting Sun<3 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iamkingdomhearts1000 1,170 Posted April 30, 2012 Baka, you DO have a life, YOUR life obviously, that's the one thing that he can never copy, you yourself, what he does is what he does and if this is just some way of getting to you in order to just piss off then he's pathetic can't he hasn't got anything better to do in his very own life except copy yours, remember that fact and that way you will be able to put up with him as long as you want to that is. 2 SoraKH and Setting Sun<3 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hatok 6,413 Posted April 30, 2012 Man, if that's the worst problem you have in your life, I want your life. Granted, I wouldn't want to be your friend... 2 Kinode and Godot reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loki 1,184 Posted April 30, 2012 If what makes you special isnt inimitable enough that you are easily threatened, then it probably wasnt so special to begin with. How about you let the kid live his own life and you can live yours? 2 Cricket and Godot reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sorariku17 37 Posted April 30, 2012 Yeah so i have this "friend". He does WHATEVER i do! I can't firetrucking stand him anymore! He just copies my life and whatever i do. My hobbies are music and dancing. And i have been awarded for these arts so i'm preety sure i'm good at them. He wanted to be a math teacher and when he heard that i wanted to become a musician and a dancer he wanted to be that too!!! He thinks that he has the BEST voice in the world (i know that i don't have the right to critisize)but he SUCKS!!! I'm starting to forget how is it being special, It is like i'm seeing a second me. I'm tired of him and he is going to start dancing lessons (like me) because he saw me performing. AND HE CAN'T EVEN RUN 10 METERS!! (seriously!!!) and he thinks he can dance?!?! Its not right for me to critisize but he wanted to become a math teacher and suddenly he waned to become a singer/dancer?? I'm tired of being copied. I want my life back http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png Oh and btw i think he is gay and my firends are saying that he is hitting on me... I think i'm going to lose it Come on man, don't you think its a little harsh? isn't he your friend? maybe he's just trying to get closer to you and trying out the things you like? and what do you do, call him gay and rant about him across a site? ok he might be gay, and he might like you, but whats wrong with that even if he was? the fact that you, yourself are getting annoyed by it just shows your insecurity. You aren't a good friend if your acting like that, my advice would be to the guy, and to just stop idolising you but since i can't speak to him, nor i know who he is, my other advise to you, is to grow up, and just let him do what he wants. from what i read, i personally think he admires you as a friend, and is what you call "copying" but rather, hes just trying to have fun, and do the things YOU like to do, FOR YOU, i mean, he said he hated it right? well maybe hes just trying to get your attention more OR maybe he actually got a interest in it, after seeing you do it, or w/e. Maybe you should try out things he likes to do, other than criticising him. because if you don't let him have a chance, then your not even a decent enough to be HIS friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keyblade King 12 486 Posted April 30, 2012 Okay, I have been in this exact same situation about four different times, so I completely understand what this is like. (Not trying to say that I'm like a God and people always copy me but yeah, has happened a lot.) First of all, to people who are saying that he's overreacting and that he should be nice about it and everything; you guys have obviously never had this happened to you! It is bloody annoying as hell! And what's worst, if you try to be his friend; he'll continue to do it and hang on your every word, copying your jokes, playing on them in the worst fashion and following you EVERYWHERE. Even if you tell him to leave you alone or make it abundantly clear without being precise you don't like him; he'll probably still do it. Because people like this can't get a hint. Even when you make it very very clear to them (shouting "I hate you. Leave me alone you pathetic little...." seems to work very well) they will either still do it; cry to a teacher and get you in trouble or best case scenario; tell their parents who will forbid their child from going near 'a bad influence.' Now for the advice. First of all; check for sure he's copying you. He could just see you doing all this stuff and think he might like to try. Not exactly copying but still kinda annoying. Just sort of make up a very elaborate story that you're quitting music and dance (don't really, of course) and see how he reacts. Obviously if he says something similar; he's copying you. Then, (now this part gets complicated because it depends how liked the person is and how much you care what other people think of you) you interrogate him. Ask him straight out why's he copying you, if he's really gay (which I doubt he is) and so on. Make sure he doesn't slip up the questions somehow. I'll leave that up to you, since the way I did it was...well...I never said I was a nice person... After that, you should be able to sort it out, even if you have to go to the teachers and tell them that the kid is stalking you. 1 SoraKH reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted April 30, 2012 Next thing you know, he kills you, then takes your face, then lives in your house, then takes all your friends, then......you get it. Identity theft at its finest. 6 XIIISwords, SoraKH, Cricket and 3 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soraismynigga 0 Posted April 30, 2012 mayybe hang out with other ppl ig nore him and hell get the message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Master-Riku 1 Posted April 30, 2012 "Always copied never equaled." That's what we said in my country. 1 SoraKH reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Godot 513 Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) you remind me of a friend I used to have who would freak out if someone got the same cellphone/haircut/backpack/shoes/whatever as her and pretend they were copying her. you're not a speshul snowflake; stop being so self-centered. liking the same thing you do doesn't mean he's copying you, and even if he his, so what? it's not hurting you in any way. and so what if he's gay? that has nothing to do with your "problem", lol. Edited April 30, 2012 by Madotsuki Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
XIIISwords 1,059 Posted April 30, 2012 Mimickry is the sincerest form of flattery. Beat me to it... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted May 1, 2012 (edited) Baka, you DO have a life, YOUR life obviously, that's the one thing that he can never copy, you yourself, what he does is what he does and if this is just some way of getting to you in order to just piss off then he's pathetic can't he hasn't got anything better to do in his very own life except copy yours, remember that fact and that way you will be able to put up with him as long as you want to that is. Thats the most beautiful thing i heard so far... If what makes you special isnt inimitable enough that you are easily threatened, then it probably wasnt so special to begin with. How about you let the kid live his own life and you can live yours? Its not like i don't want him to live his life.. Come on man, don't you think its a little harsh? isn't he your friend? maybe he's just trying to get closer to you and trying out the things you like? and what do you do, call him gay and rant about him across a site? ok he might be gay, and he might like you, but whats wrong with that even if he was? the fact that you, yourself are getting annoyed by it just shows your insecurity. You aren't a good friend if your acting like that, my advice would be to the guy, and to just stop idolising you but since i can't speak to him, nor i know who he is, my other advise to you, is to grow up, and just let him do what he wants. from what i read, i personally think he admires you as a friend, and is what you call "copying" but rather, hes just trying to have fun, and do the things YOU like to do, FOR YOU, i mean, he said he hated it right? well maybe hes just trying to get your attention more OR maybe he actually got a interest in it, after seeing you do it, or w/e. Maybe you should try out things he likes to do, other than criticising him. because if you don't let him have a chance, then your not even a decent enough to be HIS friend. Maybe you are right... I was a harsh http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png Okay, I have been in this exact same situation about four different times, so I completely understand what this is like. (Not trying to say that I'm like a God and people always copy me but yeah, has happened a lot.) First of all, to people who are saying that he's overreacting and that he should be nice about it and everything; you guys have obviously never had this happened to you! It is bloody annoying as hell! And what's worst, if you try to be his friend; he'll continue to do it and hang on your every word, copying your jokes, playing on them in the worst fashion and following you EVERYWHERE. Even if you tell him to leave you alone or make it abundantly clear without being precise you don't like him; he'll probably still do it. Because people like this can't get a hint. Even when you make it very very clear to them (shouting "I hate you. Leave me alone you pathetic little...." seems to work very well) they will either still do it; cry to a teacher and get you in trouble or best case scenario; tell their parents who will forbid their child from going near 'a bad influence.' Now for the advice. First of all; check for sure he's copying you. He could just see you doing all this stuff and think he might like to try. Not exactly copying but still kinda annoying. Just sort of make up a very elaborate story that you're quitting music and dance (don't really, of course) and see how he reacts. Obviously if he says something similar; he's copying you. Then, (now this part gets complicated because it depends how liked the person is and how much you care what other people think of you) you interrogate him. Ask him straight out why's he copying you, if he's really gay (which I doubt he is) and so on. Make sure he doesn't slip up the questions somehow. I'll leave that up to you, since the way I did it was...well...I never said I was a nice person... After that, you should be able to sort it out, even if you have to go to the teachers and tell them that the kid is stalking you. Thank you... Really I dont HATE him it is just annoying like you said... Oh and about the gay part.. Well i think it was just my imagination... I don't like hating people.... I thought about the quitting dance and music and i told it to him and he was like WTF? Why? Well with other words he didn't like the idea... Next thing you know, he kills you, then takes your face, then lives in your house, then takes all your friends, then......you get it. Identity theft at its finest. He once "joked" about stealing my voice and spying on me... I really creeped out... you remind me of a friend I used to have who would freak out if someone got the same cellphone/haircut/backpack/shoes/whatever as her and pretend they were copying her. you're not a speshul snowflake; stop being so self-centered. liking the same thing you do doesn't mean he's copying you, and even if he his, so what? it's not hurting you in any way. and so what if he's gay? that has nothing to do with your "problem", lol. Read my previous replies And FWI i said that i don't want to take them apart of him because maybe he likes them Edited May 1, 2012 by SoraKH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoxasXSora 11 Posted May 1, 2012 (edited) Huh? Edited May 1, 2012 by RoxasXSora Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted May 1, 2012 (edited) that only means he idolizes you http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png You should just talk to him about it, though if he really wanna dance and sing don't take that away from him, then you should just deal with it. He might like you. One of the most known things that people do when they have a crush is get interested on what the crush likes. Don't be so harsh on him, there'll always be competition. If he's worse than why are you, seemingly, jealous? No need to be. Mimickry is the sincerest form of flattery. you should be flattered in some way but if it bothers you that much as it seems you should talk http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png If i were you i would've kick his butt like 10 times by now ... Oooooooor i would at least trow a tantrum x3 Baka, you DO have a life, YOUR life obviously, that's the one thing that he can never copy, you yourself, what he does is what he does and if this is just some way of getting to you in order to just piss off then he's pathetic can't he hasn't got anything better to do in his very own life except copy yours, remember that fact and that way you will be able to put up with him as long as you want to that is. Man, if that's the worst problem you have in your life, I want your life. Granted, I wouldn't want to be your friend... If what makes you special isnt inimitable enough that you are easily threatened, then it probably wasnt so special to begin with. How about you let the kid live his own life and you can live yours? Come on man, don't you think its a little harsh? isn't he your friend? maybe he's just trying to get closer to you and trying out the things you like? and what do you do, call him gay and rant about him across a site? ok he might be gay, and he might like you, but whats wrong with that even if he was? the fact that you, yourself are getting annoyed by it just shows your insecurity. You aren't a good friend if your acting like that, my advice would be to the guy, and to just stop idolising you but since i can't speak to him, nor i know who he is, my other advise to you, is to grow up, and just let him do what he wants. from what i read, i personally think he admires you as a friend, and is what you call "copying" but rather, hes just trying to have fun, and do the things YOU like to do, FOR YOU, i mean, he said he hated it right? well maybe hes just trying to get your attention more OR maybe he actually got a interest in it, after seeing you do it, or w/e. Maybe you should try out things he likes to do, other than criticising him. because if you don't let him have a chance, then your not even a decent enough to be HIS friend. Okay, I have been in this exact same situation about four different times, so I completely understand what this is like. (Not trying to say that I'm like a God and people always copy me but yeah, has happened a lot.) First of all, to people who are saying that he's overreacting and that he should be nice about it and everything; you guys have obviously never had this happened to you! It is bloody annoying as hell! And what's worst, if you try to be his friend; he'll continue to do it and hang on your every word, copying your jokes, playing on them in the worst fashion and following you EVERYWHERE. Even if you tell him to leave you alone or make it abundantly clear without being precise you don't like him; he'll probably still do it. Because people like this can't get a hint. Even when you make it very very clear to them (shouting "I hate you. Leave me alone you pathetic little...." seems to work very well) they will either still do it; cry to a teacher and get you in trouble or best case scenario; tell their parents who will forbid their child from going near 'a bad influence.' Now for the advice. First of all; check for sure he's copying you. He could just see you doing all this stuff and think he might like to try. Not exactly copying but still kinda annoying. Just sort of make up a very elaborate story that you're quitting music and dance (don't really, of course) and see how he reacts. Obviously if he says something similar; he's copying you. Then, (now this part gets complicated because it depends how liked the person is and how much you care what other people think of you) you interrogate him. Ask him straight out why's he copying you, if he's really gay (which I doubt he is) and so on. Make sure he doesn't slip up the questions somehow. I'll leave that up to you, since the way I did it was...well...I never said I was a nice person... After that, you should be able to sort it out, even if you have to go to the teachers and tell them that the kid is stalking you. Next thing you know, he kills you, then takes your face, then lives in your house, then takes all your friends, then......you get it. Identity theft at its finest. mayybe hang out with other ppl ig nore him and hell get the message "Always copied never equaled." That's what we said in my country. Beat me to it... Well thanks everyone..... I may had been a bit harsh And about the gay part But as you see.. You have to live it to understand it... Its very annoying I NEVER said i want to take music and and dancing from him And i'm not being self centered... Everyone has his hobbies so does he... But yeah maybe he copies me or maybe he wants to come closer to me... I really don't know... I know i was being rude when i started the topic... Sorry And he hings i said were really harsh.... But i know what to do So i owe you a big THANK YOU!!!! Everyone.... I know what i have to do.. CYA around -Dimi (Yeah i can be dramatic http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png) Edited May 1, 2012 by SoraKH 2 Kinode and Godot reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sorariku17 37 Posted May 1, 2012 Well thanks everyone..... I may had been a bit harsh And about the gay part But as you see.. You have to live it to understand it... Its very annoying I NEVER said i want to take music and and dancing from him And i'm not being self centered... Everyone has his hobbies so does he... But yeah maybe he copies me or maybe he wants to come closer to me... I really don't know... I know i was being rude when i started the topic... Sorry And he hings i said were really harsh.... But i know what to do So i owe you a big THANK YOU!!!! Everyone.... I know what i have to do.. CYA around -Dimi (Yeah i can be dramatic http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png) As long as its nice, and you try and become friends with him (or at least sort things out) then you have gained my respect, sorry for the mean things i said, its just i know what its like to be thought of as like that (never copyed anyone mind you but still) and it made me a bit mad, at the fact you never spoke to him about it, or even considered it as a chance of respect or closeness. and oh, about the gay part, if he does turn out to be gay and does like you, just tell him to back off (nicely) as if he's your friend, then he should understand how you feel if you told him it nicely, and vice versa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted May 1, 2012 As long as its nice, and you try and become friends with him (or at least sort things out) then you have gained my respect, sorry for the mean things i said, its just i know what its like to be thought of as like that (never copyed anyone mind you but still) and it made me a bit mad, at the fact you never spoke to him about it, or even considered it as a chance of respect or closeness. and oh, about the gay part, if he does turn out to be gay and does like you, just tell him to back off (nicely) as if he's your friend, then he should understand how you feel if you told him it nicely, and vice versa. Yeah i thought of it and i'll try to become friends with him... Other than that Thank you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Godot 513 Posted May 1, 2012 Well thanks everyone..... I may had been a bit harsh And about the gay part But as you see.. You have to live it to understand it... Its very annoying I NEVER said i want to take music and and dancing from him And i'm not being self centered... Everyone has his hobbies so does he... But yeah maybe he copies me or maybe he wants to come closer to me... I really don't know... I know i was being rude when i started the topic... Sorry And he hings i said were really harsh.... But i know what to do So i owe you a big THANK YOU!!!! Everyone.... I know what i have to do.. CYA around -Dimi (Yeah i can be dramatic http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/happy.png) I realize I might have been a bit nasty as well, so sorry aha. .w.'' it's good that you're dealing with this maturely, so kudos to you~ 1 SoraKH reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
