P50L 610 Posted March 25, 2012 (edited) Okay. There's this girl that I have known for a while. Somehow, she ends up blocking me and my best friend on Facebook. Turns out, our mutual friend asked her why. Her reason? "Chris and Kyle are annoying gentlemans." Was her status update, right after she blocked both of us. So, we confronted her in the real world, as she kept bashing us with insults. The same insults over and over and over and over. Now, I asked her this. Quoted from what I have said to her earlier. Now. Let's see. "You and I haven't talked for weeks. Kyle NEVER talks to you. You constantly still reply to my notes in Swapnote, except they are insults. Childish insults. Tell me. How the hell are we annoying? Sit there and think about it. I haven't done anything to anyone the entire time. You have no reason to hate me what soever. Please, I won't be asking for you to be my friend since you obviously choose to hate others that have never caused harm to you nor your friends." Right after I said that, she glared at me and nearly picked up a rock, a moderate size rock that can cause harm, and almost hit me on the head. After her boyfriend retained her, she told me to firetruck off and never talk to her again. Note: Her boyfriend agrees with us. I'm just....raging right now. I'm currently very pissed off at the moment. Stupid reasons like this is making me hate the world even more. Added note: >Gentlemens. I thought it was "Friends"... Edited March 25, 2012 by P50L Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HarLea Quinn 26,501 Posted March 25, 2012 This girl isnt worth your rage and anger. Let it go and shrug it off. There will always be someone who wont like you "just because".However, there will be TONS more who will like and appreciate you .That is all. 3 Queen Tery, Robbie the Wise and shadowblade reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kirie 3,489 Posted March 26, 2012 That's a dumb thing to be mad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted March 26, 2012 Don't waste your time. Ignore her, who cares. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan 188 Posted March 26, 2012 Don't let her annoy you, people want to get you upset, that's who people are. Don't let people control or hurt you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waytothexdawnx 1,159 Posted March 26, 2012 (edited) Ugh, I totally understand being hated for NO reason. About a month ago, this girl I'll name on here "Jealous", who used to be my boyfriends friend, started with me on Facebook. Now, my boyfriend pretty much loved her his whole life. They never dated, never slept together, never kissed.. Nothing. But he always liked her. Her brother, "Boy", is one of my boyfriends best friends. Well, last summer when my boyfriend and "Jealous" were single, they were hanging out a lot. My boyfriend was trying to figure out his feelings for her. Turns out, he saw her nothing as a friend and lost all romantic type feeling for her. He said there's absolutely nothing between them and they were just meant to be friends. So, months and months later we met. I knew about "Jealous". He told me everything. I was fine with that. I have a friend like that as well, and Ill call him "Bob". We've been friends for years and always had a thing for each other. We were each others dates for weddings and stuff, but nothing ever happened between us. We're just friends. We don't talk anymore (since I moved, he got distant with me), but we were always friends who liked each other but nothing ever happened so I understood his situation. "Jealous" sent me a friend request on Facebook. I asked my boyfriend if it was safe to add her, and he said yeah. So I accepted her and she always liked my statuses, but never actually talked to me or messaged me. That was fine. Then all of a sudden she started posting things about me on her Facebook. She's a hairstylist just like I am, so she got jealous of that. She was jealous I got a job at a really upscale salon and she works at a really ghetto one, so she went to my boyfriend facebook and started trashing me. She would post statuses about how I photoshop my pictures (I don't. I don't even own photoshop because I can't afford it. She's just jealous Im prettier than her), she started saying mean things about people from PA (Im from PA) and a whole bunch on other stuff. Finally I got so mad I called her out on it. Then my boyfriend got really pissed at her and deleted her off of his Facebook just like I did, then he totally disowned her as a friend. She was trying to blame the whole situation on me saying I started this.. like wtf?? So then she and my boyfriend got into this huge fight and my boyfriend was so disgusted with her, that he completely disowned her as a friend and even made a post about it on his Facebook. They still don't talk. Oh, and this is the best part. She was ARRESTED for HARASSMENT. She harassed her old roommate so bad, she got herself arrested. As she was getting cuffed she asked the police officer "Did you just unzip your pants?"… yeah. That's the kinda "woman" she is. A sorry excuse for one. She also has a BOYFRIEND. She's been with this guy for 4 years. FOUR YEARS. Yet she's jealous of me and my boyfriends relationship. Thats why she started with me. Wow. Totally just vented here haha Moral of the story? When people hate on you for NO reason, its usually for a reason and usually that reason is JEALOUSY. Just ignore her. You're obviously way more mature than she is. You don't need her in your life. People like that are obviously really insecure, so they try to boost themselves up by talking crap on the person they're hating on. Don't sweat it, okay? You're better than that Edited March 26, 2012 by waytothexdawnx 2 P50L and HarLea Quinn reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Master Juan 574 Posted March 26, 2012 (edited) My advice, if someone hates you for no reason, give that motha a reason : p Edited March 26, 2012 by Master Juan 3 waytothexdawnx, marinaAxel56 and Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nweintraub 630 Posted March 26, 2012 Wow, that girl is EVIL! That's all I could think of saying. That girl sort of sounds like Sakura Haruno from the Naruto series.(Why did someone even think of making NaruSaku? 1 MadnessBomber reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted March 26, 2012 I said this on Swapnote, but I'll elaborate here. If she likes you for no good reason, that is her problem. These things happen. You will encounter people where your personalities just don't rub well together, whether it's only one sided or both. But she is wrong to get mad and put words in your mouth. The best thing to do is just stay out of her way and let her think what she wants. If she's going to be irrational, there's no point fretting over it. It's good to learn from this that when you meet people you don't like or rub you wrong, you shouldn't take it out on them. It's your own problem and it wouldn't be right to cause them trouble over it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Roxas_Axel_Xion 42 Posted March 26, 2012 Okay. There's this girl that I have known for a while. Somehow, she ends up blocking me and my best friend on Facebook. Turns out, our mutual friend asked her why. Her reason? "Chris and Kyle are annoying gentlemans." Was her status update, right after she blocked both of us. So, we confronted her in the real world, as she kept bashing us with insults. The same insults over and over and over and over. Now, I asked her this. Quoted from what I have said to her earlier. Now. Let's see. "You and I haven't talked for weeks. Kyle NEVER talks to you. You constantly still reply to my notes in Swapnote, except they are insults. Childish insults. Tell me. How the hell are we annoying? Sit there and think about it. I haven't done anything to anyone the entire time. You have no reason to hate me what soever. Please, I won't be asking for you to be my friend since you obviously choose to hate others that have never caused harm to you nor your friends." Right after I said that, she glared at me and nearly picked up a rock, a moderate size rock that can cause harm, and almost hit me on the head. After her boyfriend retained her, she told me to firetruck off and never talk to her again. Note: Her boyfriend agrees with us. I'm just....raging right now. I'm currently very pissed off at the moment. Stupid reasons like this is making me hate the world even more. Added note: >Gentlemens. I thought it was "Friends"... Okay. There's this girl that I have known for a while. Somehow, she ends up blocking me and my best friend on Facebook. Turns out, our mutual friend asked her why. Her reason? "Chris and Kyle are annoying gentlemans." Was her status update, right after she blocked both of us. So, we confronted her in the real world, as she kept bashing us with insults. The same insults over and over and over and over. Now, I asked her this. Quoted from what I have said to her earlier. Now. Let's see. "You and I haven't talked for weeks. Kyle NEVER talks to you. You constantly still reply to my notes in Swapnote, except they are insults. Childish insults. Tell me. How the hell are we annoying? Sit there and think about it. I haven't done anything to anyone the entire time. You have no reason to hate me what soever. Please, I won't be asking for you to be my friend since you obviously choose to hate others that have never caused harm to you nor your friends." Right after I said that, she glared at me and nearly picked up a rock, a moderate size rock that can cause harm, and almost hit me on the head. After her boyfriend retained her, she told me to firetruck off and never talk to her again. Note: Her boyfriend agrees with us. I'm just....raging right now. I'm currently very pissed off at the moment. Stupid reasons like this is making me hate the world even more. Added note: >Gentlemens. I thought it was "Friends"... Okay. There's this girl that I have known for a while. Somehow, she ends up blocking me and my best friend on Facebook. Turns out, our mutual friend asked her why. Her reason? "Chris and Kyle are annoying gentlemans." Was her status update, right after she blocked both of us. So, we confronted her in the real world, as she kept bashing us with insults. The same insults over and over and over and over. Now, I asked her this. Quoted from what I have said to her earlier. Now. Let's see. "You and I haven't talked for weeks. Kyle NEVER talks to you. You constantly still reply to my notes in Swapnote, except they are insults. Childish insults. Tell me. How the hell are we annoying? Sit there and think about it. I haven't done anything to anyone the entire time. You have no reason to hate me what soever. Please, I won't be asking for you to be my friend since you obviously choose to hate others that have never caused harm to you nor your friends." Right after I said that, she glared at me and nearly picked up a rock, a moderate size rock that can cause harm, and almost hit me on the head. After her boyfriend retained her, she told me to firetruck off and never talk to her again. Note: Her boyfriend agrees with us. I'm just....raging right now. I'm currently very pissed off at the moment. Stupid reasons like this is making me hate the world even more. Added note: >Gentlemens. I thought it was "Friends"... I can relate so badly! My advice is get a pillow.......with a ton of ppl holding it.......and just punch the firetruck out of it! .................. :ph34r: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FireRubies1 1,325 Posted March 26, 2012 For this situation I suggest: GIVE THAT @%^&! A REASON! Jk You should probably ignore her. One of my old friends was sorta mean to me in sixth grade for no reason. I never responded when he said anything and I got through just fine. Aand then we were friends again next year... but that's not important Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted March 26, 2012 She must like you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sigrun 1,064 Posted March 26, 2012 B***es be b****es bro. Move on why bother with some chick that friendzoned you and has a boyfriend? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
P50L 610 Posted March 26, 2012 B***es be b****es bro. Move on why bother with some chick that friendzoned you and has a boyfriend? She never friendzoned me though. I never was interested in her like that. But her firetrucking logic... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Axtwyt 500 Posted March 26, 2012 There will always be people who will hate you for no reason. For some reason, some humans feel this is the only way to validate their existence. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marinaAxel56 24 Posted March 27, 2012 i know how you feel. theres a whole bunch of 'popular' (chavvy) people at my school who i've never spoken to, but suddenly all of them hate me. seriously, about 20 of them made a circle around me and just yelled insults at me for 20 minutes straight. apparently i've been giving them dirty looks. i mean, come on! how insecure and paranoid do you have to be to think that? and then i got kicked to the ground, while the whole time my 'best friend' stood a metre or so away, too scared to even get someone to help. these people are messed up. ignore them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wuver 920 Posted March 31, 2012 I can relate aswell. Last year, I had a group of all my best friends. We weren't in the same classes but we had the same lunch. Some of my friends met this girl in their class and she started hanging out with us. I was always nice to her but she always gave me dirty looks and shizz and said shit to me. Finally, at one point I confronted her and stuff and said stuff in her face and I almost got into a fight with her. My other best friends were there (ex best friends) and they took her side. That made me notice that maybe true friends really don't exist. You shouldn't care about what other people think about you. If they really hated you, they wouldn't think of mentioning your name since they "Hate" you. Anyways, when people talk about me, I keep my head up high and I don't care what they say. It hurts on the inside but if you have your true friends with you, they'll support you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites