Cricket 1,180 Posted March 2, 2012 I need to rant about what has happened in my life these past couple of days... I've liked this guy for 2-3 years and we were best friends and recently he finally confessed his feelings to me. Me, being confused about my own feelings, decided to break up with my boyfriend at the time and go for my best friend. I know that sounds horrible, but I honestly liked my best friend more and we had a better connection. My best friend would make me jealous by dating other girls and to see my reaction (which was a bit heartless, but I liked him because he was playing hard to get). Anyway, we went to eat dinner yesterday with one of his friends and it was all good until his friend leaned over and saw that I was texting another guy which was a FRIEND, not someone I am interested in and he told Chad (my best friend) over text while we were at the table and I KNEW clearly that they were texting each other right in front of ME! I thought nothing of it and shrugged it off. Well, after we got finished eating, Chad took me back to my car and he sends me a text after I leave asking, "Do you want to tag team?" and I asked him what he meant because I was confused. and he said "F*ck lol" and I asked him what tag team means and he said it was having sex with two other people and I freaked out! Then he calls me a player because I was texting my friend at dinner! First, he asks me to have sex with him and another guy and then he calls me a player! What a freak! In conclusion, I am no longer friends with him; I've lost all respect for him. He is a player, he is bipolar, and a perv. The last message I sent to him was, "Ok Chad, you just keep on being a player. I don't like you anymore. You are too weird and bipolar. Seriously, you might want to get that checked out. Peace." and he never responded back. I'm just glad I finally got to see his true colors and glad we were not meant to be. I'm happy to be single. There are freaks out there. /endrant 5 Sora96, Koko, P50L and 2 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Venterrqua 85 Posted March 2, 2012 wooooooooooooww....what a douche! you've had it rough the past days, thats the problem most of us guys have, we can get too protective and too over reactive anddd to be honest most of us guys in the world are idiots and as us British say "Knobs" lol i mean my "old" friends thought it was okay to break up via text and kiss a random girl the next night... thats why they are old friends lol but i hope you feel better Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arya Stark 1,337 Posted March 2, 2012 That is a douche... Well, if your happy now than that is all that matters... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moogleman 66 Posted March 2, 2012 you made the right choice. still sucks though... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lady Dreana Posted March 2, 2012 I need to rant about what has happened in my life these past couple of days... I've liked this guy for 2-3 years and we were best friends and recently he finally confessed his feelings to me. Me, being confused about my own feelings, decided to break up with my boyfriend at the time and go for my best friend. I know that sounds horrible, but I honestly liked my best friend more and we had a better connection. My best friend would make me jealous by dating other girls and to see my reaction (which was a bit heartless, but I liked him because he was playing hard to get). Anyway, we went to eat dinner yesterday with one of his friends and it was all good until his friend leaned over and saw that I was texting another guy which was a FRIEND, not someone I am interested in and he told Chad (my best friend) over text while we were at the table and I KNEW clearly that they were texting each other right in front of ME! I thought nothing of it and shrugged it off. Well, after we got finished eating, Chad took me back to my car and he sends me a text after I leave asking, "Do you want to tag team?" and I asked him what he meant because I was confused. and he said "F*ck lol" and I asked him what tag team means and he said it was having sex with two other people and I freaked out! Then he calls me a player because I was texting my friend at dinner! First, he asks me to have sex with him and another guy and then he calls me a player! What a freak! In conclusion, I am no longer friends with him; I've lost all respect for him. He is a player, he is bipolar, and a perv. The last message I sent to him was, "Ok Chad, you just keep on being a player. I don't like you anymore. You are too weird and bipolar. Seriously, you might want to get that checked out. Peace." and he never responded back. I'm just glad I finally got to see his true colors and glad we were not meant to be. I'm happy to be single. There are freaks out there. /endrant Well I have to say you definite did the right thing dumping that guy. I hope things turn out for the better for you later on Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted March 2, 2012 Is there no etiquette about putting your phone away during dinner? Strikes me as rude. But maybe I'm just too old Good for you Cricket. There are some girls that will make excuses for their boyfriend and get themselves into a bad situation, but it's good that you pulled out as soon as you saw the warning signs. And being single is fun 3 CardCaptorDeadpool, Cricket and XIIISwords reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
XIIISwords 1,059 Posted March 2, 2012 ^I know! I always leave my phone in another room when I eat. And the single life is great! In conclusion, I am no longer friends with him; I've lost all respect for him. He is a player, he is bipolar, and a perv. The last message I sent to him was, "Ok Chad, you just keep on being a player. I don't like you anymore. You are too weird and bipolar. Seriously, you might want to get that checked out. Peace." /endrant lol. Peace? Anything but! Well, now I hope you feel better knowing you got rid of him now and not a year down the line. And the whole tag teaming left a terrible taste in my mouth. He would have been on the ground bleeding then. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted March 2, 2012 WOW! Someone likes crossing swords. 1 VoidXName reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
XIIISwords 1,059 Posted March 2, 2012 WOW! Someone likes crossing swords. I feel like this is a joke about my username, but like it isn't at the same time... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheKingdomkid 1,194 Posted March 2, 2012 well it's a good thing you found that out about him and did he really think he was going to get laid on the first date? and doing the same girl with another dude, jezz people have no class these days, and i have to agree with Oishii i think it wouldv'e been better if people put there phones aways while you are eating, and especial if you are on a date, well than again i don't know if you would count that as a date since you were with one of his friends, anyway yes being single is awesome i've been that for like four years now lol it gets a little lonly especialy if you hang with people who are in a relationship but oh well lol still. and I would like to apologize on behalf of all of the male species that we are stupid sometimes but not all of us are like that guy who would "tag-team" someone and especial on the first date but good that you leanred early on and hope things get good for you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
XIIISwords 1,059 Posted March 2, 2012 jezz people have no class these days, and i have to agree with Oishii i think it wouldv'e been better if people put there phones aways while you are eating, and especial if you are on a date, Human Beings: 3 Phones: 0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cricket 1,180 Posted March 2, 2012 They were using their phones first before I was, just to clear this up. 1 Sora96 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted March 2, 2012 Geez.I know the feeling the girl of my dreams is being taken for a ride by this sketchy guy.don't worry you'll find a better guy just let him come unannounced Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tom 437 Posted March 2, 2012 Important: Cricket almost being DP'd by jerks. Not important: Cell phones being with you while you're eating. Really now. Anyways, sorry to hear that Cricket. I hope the next fish in the sea you find isn't a washed up douche Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lu Xun 2,069 Posted March 2, 2012 I'm still single too, Cricket lol jk But yeah, some times bad things happen to show us some things. And that's what happened to you. A person can really pretend be kind and nice, but a day -- it can take a long time -- they'll end up showing up their true ways of acting and thinking... Glad you got rid of him! I'd suggest being single for a while... and focus on other things... It's best to wait for the right thing than to be with lots of useless ones.. But it's up to you. If you've got something worrying you, chat with me, and I'll try to help you as much as I can! Again, glad you did the right thing Good Luck from now on Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
