SoraKH 793 Posted February 18, 2012 I'm in a relationship with a girl. She is in my class and we are in a relationship it has been 4 months. She was my first crush but now i don't feel something about her and i wanna break up. But i don't know how and i want to do it with a way so she is not going to get angry... What should i do?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted February 18, 2012 Just be blunt and break up with her goddammit. Tell her, to her face (don't be a wimp and send someone else), that it's not working out and just break up. No 'I think we need to see other people' or 'Let's take a break' bullshit Just tell her that you don't feel anything for her and leave it at that. If she gets mad, that's too bad. Breaking up with her is much better than leading her on. 5 Shana09, SHADOWPAIN, SummerRain and 2 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf on the Run 391 Posted February 18, 2012 theres no way to do this with out getting her angry or upset unless you make her brake up with you that is other wise all you can really do is tell her its over Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keyblade King 12 486 Posted February 18, 2012 Text message. Kidding! Girls of this site don't take me too seriously! Um...well there's no easy way to break up with someone besides mutually. But that's hard to do and if you ask her about the relationship, she'll probably get upset, it depends how into the relationship she is. If she really likes you, then just sit back and reconsider the relationship a bit and see if you are just going through a rough phase. If you decide you really want to end it, then you just need to get somewhere with her alone and talk to her about the relationship. Don't say "We need to talk" and don't mention "Break up" yet, but just tell her you don't like the relationship and then ask her if she likes it and maybe what you can do to change it for the better or if you two want to end it. I'm sorry, if I'm not much help. I've only had a couple of relationships. Only broken up with someone once. The other time I was dumped and the third was a mutual thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted February 18, 2012 This isn't hard. Just say to yourself...."I'm a BOSS", and walk up to her and break up with her.. 2 SoraKH and Robbie the Wise reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Truthbringer 210 Posted February 18, 2012 Huh... I thought the number 1 rule of relationships in school is to never be with someone from ur class... Or is that just in my country it is like that? 1 Pavlovic Sarah reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Robbie the Wise 5,050 Posted February 18, 2012 Don't string her along just break up with her, it will be more hurtful if you drag out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted February 18, 2012 On 2/18/2012 at 5:05 PM, 'Goddess Koko' said: Just be blunt and break up with her goddammit. Tell her, to her face (don't be a wimp and send someone else), that it's not working out and just break up. No 'I think we need to see other people' or 'Let's take a break' bullshit Just tell her that you don't feel anything for her and leave it at that. If she gets mad, that's too bad. Breaking up with her is much better than leading her on. I wouldn't ever send someone else On 2/18/2012 at 5:12 PM, 'Rob' said: This isn't hard. Just say to yourself...."I'm a BOSS", and walk up to her and break up with her.. Your right Rob On 2/18/2012 at 5:07 PM, 'Keyblade King 12' said: Text message. Kidding! Girls of this site don't take me too seriously! Um...well there's no easy way to break up with someone besides mutually. But that's hard to do and if you ask her about the relationship, she'll probably get upset, it depends how into the relationship she is. If she really likes you, then just sit back and reconsider the relationship a bit and see if you are just going through a rough phase. If you decide you really want to end it, then you just need to get somewhere with her alone and talk to her about the relationship. Don't say "We need to talk" and don't mention "Break up" yet, but just tell her you don't like the relationship and then ask her if she likes it and maybe what you can do to change it for the better or if you two want to end it. I'm sorry, if I'm not much help. I've only had a couple of relationships. Only broken up with someone once. The other time I was dumped and the third was a mutual thing. Thanks for your advice Keyblade King But the problem is that she told me that she linkes the relationship. She told me that she doenst want us to break up but i want to break up with her ;/ On 2/18/2012 at 5:30 PM, 'Truthbringer' said: Huh... I thought the number 1 rule of relationships in school is to never be with someone from ur class... Or is that just in my country it is like that? O.o Really? What is your country? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted February 18, 2012 "I'm breaking up with you, KTHXBYE" The more you sugar coat it the more rediculous the situation. 2 Koko and SHADOWPAIN reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kirie 3,489 Posted February 18, 2012 just leave that b**** already if you dont like her anymore 2 The Transcendent Key and SoraKH reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woolfman1994 19 Posted February 18, 2012 Just say I think were better off being friends or I dont want to be in a relationship right now andif she starts to cry just give her a hug and say im sorry. It works best for me that way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roxas27 52 Posted February 18, 2012 Look, just be honest with her and if it dosent work you'll have to do it in anyway you'd like Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sora2 84 Posted February 18, 2012 Give it a chance you may just be not liking her for now. The annoying feeling is if you break up with her and later like her again and want her because you do not have her. So basically this is a major choice you can break up with her but risk later trying ot et her again to be crushed or you can give it a chance to find out if you do or do not like her Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SHADOWPAIN 66 Posted February 18, 2012 Just do it and your power level will be OVER 9000!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted February 18, 2012 Okay now i just hate her! I hope i was never in a relationship with her and not spoil 4 moths with her.... ;/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leaxel 178 Posted February 18, 2012 Being together with someone from your school especially in your class is not really a good idea if you are not sure of your feelings. Because then if you break up with her and she gets mad, she will start all kinds of rumors about you, but that is just if she is popular among the girls. AND then none of the girls at your school will talk to you. So choose your words carefully just don't overdo it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
