Dark Memories 47 Posted December 29, 2011 (edited) EDIT: DELETE Edited January 25, 2019 by Dark Memories Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 Are you boy or girl? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khrulesbbs 574 Posted December 29, 2011 yea are u guy ?or chick? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Memories 47 Posted December 29, 2011 I am a girl. Thought i made that clear :C oops Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 OK. I don't really know... Do you have to tell them? Don't do anything what you don't like. And if they doesn't like that you love him and vice versa, why don't you move to him? And I trust that your parents want you to live happy life. I have almost same... I'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend(Yea, I'm gay) is 19 years old. My parents are homophobistic... They'll hate me if they know ;_; Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Memories 47 Posted December 29, 2011 Well the deal is that i really dont get to see my boyfriend that much because they dont trust me at all. And if i told them there would be a possible chance they would let me be with him alot more but, they will ask me more questions about it and i dont want to lie. And its okay being gay! My parents totaly understand that stuff but they dont understand this situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 Well the deal is that i really dont get to see my boyfriend that much because they dont trust me at all. And if i told them there would be a possible chance they would let me be with him alot more but, they will ask me more questions about it and i dont want to lie. And its okay being gay! My parents totaly understand that stuff but they dont understand this situation. Ok... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 I don't know... Why people can't accept any kind of love? Your bf is 3 years older than you? So what? If you feel that it's safe, why you listen to others? And why you need to lie? P.S. My bf is 5 years older than me... And he lives too far away ;_; Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Memories 47 Posted December 29, 2011 My parents are very strict. Thats why, they got a restraining order on my last boyfriend ._. Im pretty scared of the out come. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 My parents are very strict. Thats why, they got a restraining order on my last boyfriend ._. Im pretty scared of the out come. Then don't tell them. And if you feel bad because if lies, talk to someone who accept you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Memories 47 Posted December 29, 2011 Yeah. Right now im sneaking around to see him. Maybe when my parents come around they will accept it. Maybe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anthony17 40 Posted December 29, 2011 plus some parents years apart from each other, it won't matter until he gets at least 19. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waytothexdawnx 1,159 Posted December 29, 2011 OK. I don't really know... Do you have to tell them? Don't do anything what you don't like. And if they doesn't like that you love him and vice versa, why don't you move to him? And I trust that your parents want you to live happy life. I have almost same... I'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend(Yea, I'm gay) is 19 years old. My parents are homophobistic... They'll hate me if they know ;_; Whoaaa, wait wait wait. You're in 8th grade and your boyfriend is 19?? You do realize if anyone found out, he could go to jail right?? Im all for gay rights and loving freely, but thats such a huge difference. Just be careful… Idk what a 19 year old would want with a child, but he could seriously go to jail for rape. Be careful .__. 2 4Everbee and Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 Whoaaa, wait wait wait. You're in 8th grade and your boyfriend is 19?? You do realize if anyone found out, he could go to jail right?? Im all for gay rights and loving freely, but thats such a huge difference. Just be careful… Idk what a 19 year old would want with a child, but he could seriously go to jail for rape. Be careful .__. He isn't pedopfile or raper(?). And I am the one who asked him to be my boyfriend. I know he doesn't want sex from me. And we have never met in real life... And I love him. It's not funny to hear this kind of things ;_; Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waytothexdawnx 1,159 Posted December 29, 2011 He isn't pedopfile or raper(?). And I am the one who asked him to be my boyfriend. I know he doesn't want sex from me. And we have never met in real life... And I love him. It's not funny to hear this kind of thinks ;_; Im not trying to be funny at all, and Im not implying that he's a rapist or a pedophile lol I just think its weird a grown man would want a child as a partner. And thats the LEGAL SYSTEM (well, depending on where you're from I guess??) but where I live (America) and you're underaged dating an adult and it found out, that men can be charged for statutory rape. Thats not me saying that, thats the legal system. Thats just how it is. Im just telling you to be careful. And meeting people over the internet is dangerous. For all you know, he could be 40 pretending to be 19. Im not saying he is, but if you never met him, you never know. You guys on here are kids, so you'll easily fall for anything you hear. Trust me, I was the same way. When I was 13, I was talking to someone I thought was really 15 and guess what? He tuned out to be a 34 year old man wanting to lure me in to probably rape me. It never happened because I found out and he got in a lot of trouble. You have to be careful with this stuff. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kello 310 Posted December 29, 2011 Im not trying to be funny at all, and Im not implying that he's a rapist or a pedophile lol I just think its weird a grown man would want a child as a partner. And thats the LEGAL SYSTEM (well, depending on where you're from I guess??) but where I live (America) and you're underaged dating an adult and it found out, that men can be charged for statutory rape. Thats not me saying that, thats the legal system. Thats just how it is. Im just telling you to be careful. And meeting people over the internet is dangerous. For all you know, he could be 40 pretending to be 19. Im not saying he is, but if you never met him, you never know. You guys on here are kids, so you'll easily fall for anything you hear. Trust me, I was the same way. When I was 13, I was talking to someone I thought was really 15 and guess what? He tuned out to be a 34 year old man wanting to lure me in to probably rape me. It never happened because I found out and he got in a lot of trouble. You have to be careful with this stuff. I know exactly who he is. I don't know why I'm crying... He didn't fell in love with me because I'm 14. But because of my nature and my inner beauty. He by the way said that we can have sex when I'm 16 because the age matters. He don't really want have sex with me, but I want with him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted December 29, 2011 Age is just a number.(To me anyways.) My grandma was 15 and my grandpa was 26 or 27 when they start dating.They been marryed for 53 years now i think. But anyways. DON'T TELL YOU'RE MOM OR DAD! Unless you want to! And they can't make you break up with him.If they love you they would be happy that you found somebody that you love. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites