shadowblade 31 Posted December 23, 2011 There is officially no way I can be with Alex now. I just got the news today that she is engaged. Naturally I didn't take it well. I should've figured there was no way this would happen.in life for one thing you lose another. I'm kind of happy though. I get to go back to when it was just me,myself, and I. No worries,no other people to take care of, just me.the freedom to be who i want without having to make an impression. At least I'm not gonna have to face rejection or in a worst case scenarion humiliation Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 23, 2011 Sorry, man. Can't get them all. You just have to keep moving forward and find the best girl for yourself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted December 23, 2011 Why every time I hear somebody is getting marry.I get really happy even if I don't know them.Lol But if she happy you should be happy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 23, 2011 Exactly what 4Everbee said. As long as she is happy, you should also be happy. 1 4Everbee reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted December 23, 2011 I'm gonna be honest with you guys:I don't get many girls. In vegas we have obstinate jerks who call the shots about who dates who in my generation, and unfortunately everyone listens to them. So I said whatever I'm not intrested in falling for anyone.And the first time i do boom shes gettin hitched. Pretty big red flag there.Shadowblade flies solo once again by everyone i dont include myself btw Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 23, 2011 You shouldn't beat yourself over the fact that Alex is getting married. Even if there are a bunch of women in Vegas who are jerks, you will find a woman who is right for you. This song should give you inspiration. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted December 23, 2011 You shouldn't beat yourself over the fact that Alex is getting married. Even if there are a bunch of women in Vegas who are jerks, you will find a woman who is right for you. This song should give you inspiration. http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLQl3WQQoQ0&ob=av2e Its not that I'm beating myself up about it I its just i shouldve known this would happen.So I want things back to how they were before I met her.Not a care in the world and freedom.no first impressions to make or anything. I was happy single until i met her and now i want it back is all Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 23, 2011 Its not that I'm beating myself up about it I its just i shouldve known this would happen.So I want things back to how they were before I met her.Not a care in the world and freedom.no first impressions to make or anything. I was happy single until i met her and now i want it back is all You can't beat yourself over the fact that you "should've" know that this would've happened. We can't predict what will happen. We have to move on and learn. But you shouldn't go back to your old self before you met her, if that were to mean that you don't really care about women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
animemylove 439 Posted December 23, 2011 life's a bitch my friend .. you'll find another. 1 4Everbee reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted December 23, 2011 Its not that I don't care about women either I just mean that I felt happier when all I really had to worry about was getting my act together.she came in and really changed my world but abefore I realized it I had bent my own rules regarding dating life only to feel its harsh whiplashnow I sit here and watch as the only girl I ever truly fell for walks down the aisle with another man.I'm nott saying there won't be others but I feel like its not fated for me to be with anyone.for me to actually fall and then hit the floor well that just might be a wakeup call Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 23, 2011 Well, it's good that you do care about women. That's a start. Just build up your self-esteem and confidence and you'll find the perfect woman for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted December 23, 2011 Don't worry, you'll find that legendary pokemon. 5 Cricket, Space Cowboy, Miku Hatsune and 2 others reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sammi 63 Posted December 23, 2011 If Alex is approximately your age, then it's highly unlikely that the marriage will last. Although there are plenty of young adults that are happily married, most of them end up divorced within a couple of years. Sad, but true. 1 Miku Hatsune reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites