shadowblade 31 Posted December 22, 2011 I finished up this semester in college very poorly. I am now faced with threat of never going back and possibly losing Alex forever to another guy who made a move while I was busy chasing others and not looking in front of me(yes I am aware that there are other girls out there so if that's all you really have to say on this save your breath) I have Abigail wanting to date me but I need a moment to calm down because I'm so busy trying to keep from going insane. I need a mentor or something to keep me from totally losing it under all this stress. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted December 22, 2011 I definitely know how much pressure college can give. Frankly, I don't even think I have time for a relationship myself with all the school work I get. And losing someone you care about to someone else; that can't be easy to go through. If you ever need someone to vent your feelings out to, you can pm me. I would be glad to listen and try to help out. 1 Sora96 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted December 22, 2011 ...Should I slap him? I think I should slap him.Maybe that will snap him out of it? Lol But anyways. Just chili dude.I'm sure you won't lose Alex to some another guy.Just chili out.If this is the first time some dude made on a move on Alex then you have nothing to worry about.Sorry if I'm not helping Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hatok 6,413 Posted December 22, 2011 Life goes on. It's really hard to see, especially when time gets tough, but believe it or not, things like this won't matter five years down the road, unless you make them. 1 4Everbee reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
animemylove 439 Posted December 22, 2011 i hate to say it but you want to focus on school, it's nice to have a girl during all of this but if it's just going to bother you that much you may want to just hold off on a relationship for the time being. 1 Cricket reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted December 22, 2011 i hate to say it but you want to focus on school, it's nice to have a girl during all of this but if it's just going to bother you that much you may want to just hold off on a relationship for the time being. You're right its not easy going through this.My main focus is and always will be school so i can afford to give my and alexs (or if it happens my future wife)the life we and our family desire. I think holding off is the best thing but its difficult when i have to see pictures from their dates and other get togethers on there.just serves as a reminder that i was being stupid and chasing after girls who did'nt care about me when i had one who did right in front of me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sora96 17,256 Posted December 22, 2011 College can be pretty stressful. 1 animemylove reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Weedanort 8,786 Posted December 22, 2011 When a person' induced to stress, it's normal that those things happen. Don't worry, it happens to everybody. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
animemylove 439 Posted December 22, 2011 College can be pretty stressful. i'm hoping it depends on the college for the lot of you when you get there, but yes .. very it's a major pain in the ass. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 22, 2011 As much as it is nice to be in a relationship with someone, school is more important. Don't let this thing with Alex and Abagail distract you for now. You just have to completely focus on school, and then later, worry about Alex and Abagail. If you truely need to deal with this, however, you should talk to Alex. If she gets taken, then you could still have Abagail. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted December 23, 2011 Ok i just found out i will be going back next semester,which means ill get to see alex again.I've never felt so relieved Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
