spenskh89 66 Posted November 26, 2011 my parents are disowning me if i go to college. so, i am going to go to school and move out. heres to me going on with my life. yes i do have problems but, i can deal. i have support kinda. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Not-with-a-whimper 144 Posted November 26, 2011 Well that's unfortunate. Most parents disown their kids if they don't go to college. I'm rooting for you! 1 Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DChiuch 5,773 Posted November 26, 2011 I wouldn't call someone in their 20s a child. 4 shadowblade, P50L, CrownKeeper13 and 1 other reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keyblade King 12 486 Posted November 26, 2011 Your parents are disowning you if you go to college? That's messed up. Sorry to hear about it mate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spenskh89 66 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 10:45 AM, 'DChiuch' said: I wouldn't call someone in their 20s a child. lol it just sounded better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kingdom Sora 464 Posted November 26, 2011 Disowning you for college? What ever happened to "Go to college to have a better life"? Not "GO TO COLLEGE AND I'LL DISOWN YOU!" O_O 1 Queen Tery reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen Tery 4,591 Posted November 26, 2011 thats stupid! i wish you the best of luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Weedanort 8,786 Posted November 26, 2011 Good luck, my friend. But that really sucks, you're not a child anymore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grimmjow 839 Posted November 26, 2011 May I ask what their reason is to not wanting you to go to college? But I think you do the right thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
P50L 610 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 1:23 PM, 'SoraWillPrevail' said: May I ask what their reason is to not wanting you to go to college? But I think you do the right thing. Most surveys say that they don't want to deal with any more school work.... Oh..and... I wouldn't call them my own parents in my book; Disowning if you don't go? Really? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Robbie the Wise 5,050 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 10:40 AM, 'spenskh89' said: my parents are disowning me if i go to college. so, i am going to go to school and move out. heres to me going on with my life. yes i do have problems but, i can deal. i have support kinda. I was in the same boat my mom didn't want to hear the word college economy is tough parents don't want to be tied down to the finanacial obligations(most loans need a cosigner due to lack credit on students behalf). Guidance counselers get students hyped for college but fail to prepare them on how to get money to after high school (luckily i found multiple ways for it to work out with no loans) I wish you the best of luck and if anything you can add me to your support list. Remember you want something in life take it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rikunobodyxiii 700 Posted November 26, 2011 I'm sorry to hear that, man. How ever this pans out, good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waytothexdawnx 1,159 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 10:45 AM, 'DChiuch' said: I wouldn't call someone in their 20s a child. No, that's an adult, but he'll always be his parents child. That's how parents see it anyway. My Mom and Dad see me as their child, not their adult lol If you become a parent someday, you won't care how old your child gets. They're still going to be your child. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted November 26, 2011 Are they doing it for financial reasons so that when you file you don't have to record their income? I know my father considered disowning me so I can have financial aid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spenskh89 66 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 5:17 PM, 'Oishii' said: Are they doing it for financial reasons so that when you file you don't have to record their income? I know my father considered disowning me so I can have financial aid. yes but they are doing this for real not just for college. they believes i wont make it. but i will show them all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted November 26, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 5:20 PM, 'spenskh89' said: yes but they are doing this for real not just for college. they believes i wont make it. but i will show them all. That's how my dad is with my sister. She went to college once but got into the drinking life, dropped out, got pregnant... really he has reason not to trust her going back to school. But for your parents to not believe in you is ridiculous. You should take advantage of the financial aid and prove them wrong 2 shadowblade and spenskh89 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cyber Shaman 990 Posted November 27, 2011 I thought parents only disown their child when they get someone pregnent/be pregnet Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted November 27, 2011 On 11/27/2011 at 8:06 AM, 'K3YBL4D3 KHIGHT' said: I thought parents only disown their child when they get someone pregnent/be pregnet No, there are several other reasons such as doing drugs, being gay, being sexually active in general, or they're just horrible people who didn't want their kid. You're like in your 20s right spens? IMO You should've been planning to move out already and shouldn't really care if they 'disown' you or not since you're legally an adult and they really don't have any power over you so do whatever you want. Also you're using the world bastard incorrectly, you're only a bastard child if you were born out of wedlock. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shadowblade 31 Posted November 28, 2011 On 11/26/2011 at 10:45 AM, 'DChiuch' said: I wouldn't call someone in their 20s a child. It would honestly depend on how they act dude Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kalnet 1,198 Posted November 28, 2011 Parents are parents. Deal with it. Anyway, Good luck, study hard and earn your success from your hard work. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
