Kinode 3,056 Posted October 28, 2011 (edited) . Edited November 19, 2018 by Kinode Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sora's Baby 729 Posted October 28, 2011 Oh my,....I cant help you there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mirr0rVS13 169 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 7:19 PM, 'Kinode' said: In my latest status update I said about how I like this boy... I'm not sure if he knows his sexuality, so it's very difficult for me to get to the point I want. And for we are boys, we speak of stuff like fapping and all... apparently my dick is bigger than his, but he never told me his size. He's also 1 year older than me... I feel so lost... Why not casually out-of-no-where ask him his sexuality? I mean you do talk to him (prove: And for we are boys, we speak of stuff like fapping and all) and just say your ok with whatever people hes interested in. (oh i'm sorry, I'm new here, though I've visited this site a few number of years and am familiar with all of you, just recently I've grown the courage to make an account, that is all http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/sleep.png) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:08 PM, 'Mirr0rVS13' said: Why not casually out-of-no-where ask him his sexuality? I mean you do talk to him (prove: And for we are boys, we speak of stuff like fapping and all) and just say your ok with whatever people hes interested in. (oh i'm sorry, I'm new here, though I've visited this site a few number of years and am familiar with all of you, just recently I've grown the courage to make an account, that is all http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/sleep.png) Well, you see that's a problem. most people in my class are homophobic, so if he gets creeped out about me asking he'll spread to everyone. It's kinda something you just don't ask someone. Even if he is gay, he'll most likely say he's straight. Just like I do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mirr0rVS13 169 Posted October 28, 2011 Thats one tough situation your dealing with alright. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png So are you close to him? (as in know a bit about him like friends, family, beliefs, etc) Or more importantly does he consider you a friend? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:35 PM, 'Mirr0rVS13' said: Thats one tough situation your dealing with alright. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png So are you close to him? (as in know a bit about him like friends, family, beliefs, etc) Or more importantly does he consider you a friend? Yeah, we're friends, not the closest ones, though, I just know him, and we met in school a couple of years back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snow 1,800 Posted October 28, 2011 Whoa, whoa, whoa, what? You're gay? Well, it wouldn't surprise me at this point, but yeah. You're 13, right? Obvious answers: Puberty. You like a girl and you don't know it. Or, worse case scenario, you're gay or bi. And I'm not one to usually give advice on this subject. But, at 13, you're still just discovering if you're gay or not, most likely. >_< Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mirr0rVS13 169 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:45 PM, 'Kinode' said: Yeah, we're friends, not the closest ones, though, I just know him, and we met in school a couple of years back. My best bet is that you should try to get closer to him, Open up to him more and maybe he'll do the same, and share his secrets with you resulting in you and him forming something more than being JUST friends. If he really means that much to you, take a chance and learn the truth when no ones around. ^^ All of this has a chance of working out unless he doesn't like being too close to people. On 10/28/2011 at 8:48 PM, 'Roxas1432' said: Or, worse case scenario, you're gay or bi. How is this worse? :blink: (care to explain? http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/dry.png ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snow 1,800 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:57 PM, 'Mirr0rVS13' said: How is this worse? :blink: (care to explain?) How it's worse is that gays and bis are frowned upon.:[ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mirr0rVS13 169 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:58 PM, 'Roxas1432' said: How it's worse is that gays and bis are frowned upon. Oh right. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/ohmy.png I totally forgot about that. I guess it depends on where you live really. -__- (I live in the U.S. where they're a bit more accepted than in other countries.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:48 PM, 'Roxas1432' said: Whoa, whoa, whoa, what? You're gay? Well, it wouldn't surprise me at this point, but yeah. You're 13, right? Obvious answers: Puberty. You like a girl and you don't know it. Or, worse case scenario, you're gay or bi. And I'm not one to usually give advice on this subject. But, at 13, you're still just discovering if you're gay or not, most likely. >_< If he's gay or bi, that shouldn't really be the worst case scenario since THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT even if people do hate on the LGBT community Really, the worse thing that can happen is that the boy he likes is not gay, meaning there is 0 chance of a relationship. I think I would subtly try to talk about sexuality at one point? Not really sure what else you can do Edit; just gonna share a quick story about how you can start talking about sexuality example being when I talked about it with my girlfriend We kind of brought the subject of Emilie Autumn of being asexual and just kind of discussed that and we kind of just got more personal about it with me basically being not sure at the time and my girlfriend saying she thought she was asexual. Later on I revealed that I was bisexual (of course now I'm more specific: homosexual biromantic) which pretty much allowed her to ask me out without the fear of rejection being that I wasn't gay. So yeah. Was that any help? 1 Kinode reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 8:48 PM, 'Roxas1432' said: Whoa, whoa, whoa, what? You're gay? Well, it wouldn't surprise me at this point, but yeah. You're 13, right? Obvious answers: Puberty. You like a girl and you don't know it. Or, worse case scenario, you're gay or bi. And I'm not one to usually give advice on this subject. But, at 13, you're still just discovering if you're gay or not, most likely. >_< *Bi*12 I've liked girls but I also like boys, and I think I'm like koko, homosexual bi-romantic. I seem to be, eh, how can I say, more sexually active towards boys than girls. I matured much faster than other boys. My stage of puberty is of a 14 year old's. Also I found that post very offensive. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snow 1,800 Posted October 28, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 11:19 PM, 'Kinode' said: *Bi *12 I've liked girls but I also like boys, and I think I'm like koko, homosexual bi-romantic. I seem to be, eh, how can I say, more sexually active towards boys than girls. I matured much faster than other boys. My stage of puberty is of a 14 year old's. Also I found that post very offensive. Oh, sorry. :{ I didn't mean any offense. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted October 28, 2011 I should start by saying I have no experience with this So take this what you will. It's a tough spot if you don't want it to get out you may be gay. If you stick with that I can't really see you moving forward from here. I guess it's working up the courage to take a chance. I think Koko's example is pretty good. If you can get on the subject about someone else, a celebrity maybe if no one is like that at school, then the conversation can be directed into more personal things. 1 Koko reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 29, 2011 So I have to let it out? I'm not sure, maybe it's too early. Perhaps next year, when people start realizing their sexualities. They say the most horrible things I've heard in my life, like "Being gay is an illness" from my classmates. I feel like punching them in the face everytime. I have a homophobic friend, so if I were to lose him, then my parents would tell me to "ask him to go to the movies" Or such. And they'd find out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
4Everbee 1,365 Posted October 29, 2011 Just ask him.Take the jump and ask him out.Just siting down won't get you any where.And if he start yelling and being mean then he was not worth it anyways.You'll never go to see what could of happen if you just sit down and wait.Good luck kin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 30, 2011 On 10/29/2011 at 7:47 PM, 'khgirl4ever' said: Just ask him.Take the jump and ask him out.Just siting down won't get you any where.And if he start yelling and being mean then he was not worth it anyways.You'll never go to see what could of happen if you just sit down and wait.Good luck kin The problem isn't just him. Everyone will know from the moment I tell him unless he also likes me/likes boys.Which is a 90% chance, at the moment.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SoraKH 793 Posted October 30, 2011 On 10/28/2011 at 7:19 PM, 'Kinode' said: In my latest status update I said about how I like this boy... I'm not sure if he knows his sexuality, so it's very difficult for me to get to the point I want. Anyway, I've been giving him a few very discrete flirts and I've sensed a little bit of a flirt tone in him, sometimes. So today, my teacher randomly chose new seats for everyone. I somehow ended up next to him. In a way, it's easier because I can talk to him... but i can't stand being near him without imagining us together, kissing and... Well, I get very, um... excited... near him, unlike when I had crushes on girls. So sitting next to him, I'll have an everlasting boner. I'm not sure if he's seen it yet. And for we are boys, we speak of stuff like fapping and all... apparently my dick is bigger than his, but he never told me his size. He's also 1 year older than me... I feel so lost... Oh wait...I'm confused are you a boy or a girl? Are you ..Well i dont want to be rude but...are you gay? If you are well....I cant help you. I like girls.. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted October 30, 2011 On 10/30/2011 at 2:34 PM, 'sorakingdomhearts' said: Oh wait...I'm confused are you a boy or a girl? Are you ..Well i dont want to be rude but...are you gay? If you are well....I cant help you. I like girls.. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-confuse.png If you read the whole thread, you'd notice I'm bisexual. 1 Weedanort reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Weedanort 8,786 Posted October 30, 2011 On 10/30/2011 at 2:46 PM, 'Kinode' said: If you read the whole thread, you'd notice I'm bisexual. So what if you get a boner near that boy? You like him, so go for it. But before you do, make sure that he has some affection for you, spend some time with him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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