I am getting Bullied/Harrassed. Help Me.

[khff7fan23 0]

Hey. I have been dealing with this FOREVER!!! i have been getting bullied by some people because that they think i am a "fa*" and that i am "gay" when i am NOT!! and i will NEVER be! So.. 3 days ago i was walking home from school and this is what happend:

(2 kids from my school)

Hey! look! theres the Fa*!! hey gay person!

(Me)

Shut Up! I am not that !

(2 Kids)

Hahaha (talks to other kid)

did you know he always dates the skinny and ugly girls??

and that he has NO FRIENDS??

(Me)

Yes, i Do have friends!

(2 Kids)

Name them!

(Me)

Ok.

(then i named alot of my friends)

then they were like saying all my friends were fa*s and they said i will never have a girlfriend, never be popular, and i am a wannabe and i will always be left behind..

Then they asked me this.

"do you have a big one or small one"

(srry idk if this is ok to right just writing what they said)

(me)

(i didnt answer because that is not thier buisness)

then they started screaming,

SMALL ONE SMALL ONE!!!

and i went home, went in my room, and cried (I never cry that much as that day)

and then TODAY.

I went to hang out with a friend and some of his friends..

and 5 mins later..

he shows up with a diffrent second person.

I wasnt gonna leave my friend cuz i just got there. and then when my friend and i started walking towards my house they pushed me off my bike, called me Homosexual.. and tried to throw my bike over a fence into a ditch... and soon later... they threw me against a steel fence that was around the ditch and punched me across the face a few times.

My friend, who is one of my Best Friends, backed me up and told them to "BACK OFFF" and then i went home. my friend called me halfway before i was home and asked me if i was ok. and lieing, i said yes. i didnt want to say no, because .. well hes my friend. and i dont want him to join them. (he wont ever probably)

i didnt cry on my way home, i just felt bad inside.. thinking people just hate me for no reason...

I hate this!! Help Me!

[Koko 3,944]

Avoid them as much as possible. You see them around, turn around and walk away. If this is happening at school, tell a teacher or tell your parents. If you have to face them, don't dignify their idiotic statements with an answer. They are not worth your time and they are homophobic assholes that don't deserve the time of day

 

Basically

Avoid

Ignore

and tell someone

 

also you shouldn't be offended if someone thinks you're gay

the way these guys are doing it maybe

but if someone asks you if you're gay, truly curious and in no way having bad intentions, you shouldnt be offended

i don't know why you firetrucking kids think gay is an insult. it's not and it needs to stop

[Oishii 3,987]

You should seek help from a teacher or the police. Seriously. That goes beyond bullying. That's assault. You should tell a teacher or councelor who it was and what they did to you. They should help you. If they do it again, call the police. Don't put up with what they're doing and bare with it alone. No one should have to do that.

[Imoore4 687]

People have called me that but I usually know when they joke and when their not and usually they play around....but that!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why are they calling you gay?Is it your appearance?The way you act?Well people aren't mean to me a lot so therefore people joke around...But when you go back to those people don't do things that I have done because after what they did to you...YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JOKE AROUND!Were they nerdy?Were they jock(ish)?Strong?You inbox me sometime and I will help you!Show you the way!

[waytothexdawnx 1,159]

http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-cry.png I am so sorry to hear you're going through this. Bullying is terrible (I was bullied my whole life too) and it's not right at all.

 

You HAVE to tell someone! A parent, guardian, teacher, counselor or principal or all of the above. It has to be done. I know you're probably thinking "But if I tell them, they'll harass me more and beat me up more when they see me out in public." If that does happen, that's when you get the cops involved. This is NOT a joke. This is a serious matter and should be taken seriously and handled seriously.

 

When I was bullied I finally had enough bravery to stand up to them. I pushed a kid and he fell backwards over his desk and onto the floor. I wasn't proud of it, but I had enough. They stopped then. However, the other kids who verbally harassed me I told the counselor, teacher, Principal and parents and they NEVER harassed me again. They stopped.

 

One kid was so impressed with my bravery, she became my friend and had my back whenever (and she was the girl that bullied me!), then the other kids who verbally harassed me just stopped. They weren't my friends, but they were nicer to me.

 

So please, tell someone. If they continue, get the cops involved because they CAN and WILL be stopped. I feel awful you're going through this. I wish you all the luck! *hugs*

[Miku Hatsune 636]

I'll tell you something useful, bro.

 

These people are a part of life. There will be so many people like this, trust me. What you need to do is tell someone, right away. I know it sounds like someone will be fighting your own battle if you do that, but you have to. Tell a principal exactly what they did, and guaranteed they'll get suspended. Better yet, tell the police. What they did was an act of assault, and they can most definitely get charged for it.

 

I was having a similar problem with a guy on my bus who was sexually harrassing me. When I didn't do anything about it, he saw that I was defenseless, so he made his advances on me, and a few weeks ago, I was raped.

I told someone right away, and my problem was solved almost immediately. They knew not to mess with me after their friend was expelled.

Just know that you can trust your elders and you shouldn't fear life because of a group of people.

[khff7fan23 0]

People have called me that but I usually know when they joke and when their not and usually they play around....but that!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why are they calling you gay?Is it your appearance?The way you act?Well people aren't mean to me a lot so therefore people joke around...But when you go back to those people don't do things that I have done because after what they did to you...YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO JOKE AROUND!Were they nerdy?Were they jock(ish)?Strong?You inbox me sometime and I will help you!Show you the way!

 

well. they think i am that because well.. i have (used) to have a high voice, and well.. (now its getting deeper) dont ask and well.. one time i was being nice to this new kid but well.. he tried to kiss me... i cussed him out and i firetrucking was peesed off at him, because i am thinking it was him who caused me to go through this! i never talked to him AGAIN. i feel really embarrased for saying that.. because everyone bullied me after that.. and i never wanted him to do that.. he was just sitting next to me at lunch and then he tryied to. grrr

[Kirie 3,489]

Hey. I have been dealing with this FOREVER!!! i have been getting bullied by some people because that they think i am a "fa*" and that i am "gay" when i am NOT!! and i will NEVER be! So.. 3 days ago i was walking home from school and this is what happend:

(2 kids from my school)

Hey! look! theres the Fa*!! hey gay person!

(Me)

Shut Up! I am not that !

(2 Kids)

Hahaha (talks to other kid)

did you know he always dates the skinny and ugly girls??

and that he has NO FRIENDS??

(Me)

Yes, i Do have friends!

(2 Kids)

Name them!

(Me)

Ok.

(then i named alot of my friends)

then they were like saying all my friends were fa*s and they said i will never have a girlfriend, never be popular, and i am a wannabe and i will always be left behind..

Then they asked me this.

"do you have a big one or small one"

(srry idk if this is ok to right just writing what they said)

(me)

(i didnt answer because that is not thier buisness)

then they started screaming,

SMALL ONE SMALL ONE!!!

and i went home, went in my room, and cried (I never cry that much as that day)

and then TODAY.

I went to hang out with a friend and some of his friends..

and 5 mins later..

he shows up with a diffrent second person.

I wasnt gonna leave my friend cuz i just got there. and then when my friend and i started walking towards my house they pushed me off my bike, called me Homosexual.. and tried to throw my bike over a fence into a ditch... and soon later... they threw me against a steel fence that was around the ditch and punched me across the face a few times.

My friend, who is one of my Best Friends, backed me up and told them to "BACK OFFF" and then i went home. my friend called me halfway before i was home and asked me if i was ok. and lieing, i said yes. i didnt want to say no, because .. well hes my friend. and i dont want him to join them. (he wont ever probably)

i didnt cry on my way home, i just felt bad inside.. thinking people just hate me for no reason...

I hate this!! Help Me!

 

ughh i hate those kind of people, i kinda had the same problem but since im a girl its a diffrent story (if you know what i mean)

yeah im still dealing with these problems

all you have to do is just aviod them, and walk away like nothing happens,but it kinda bugs me alot!!

soo just try to hide from those bastards, and if they keep buging you just tell some one or beat them up

thier probably jelous since they dont have a life

[Silvia Kuroi 1,480]

From what your saying, they are assaulting you. And thats against the law. Don't bother ignoring them, they're reaching the point in bullying when they're using force. Tell an adult. Preferably your Parent or a teacher. That way, the adult can deal with them as they see fit.

[Imoore4 687]

well. they think i am that because well.. i have (used) to have a high voice, and well.. (now its getting deeper) dont ask and well.. one time i was being nice to this new kid but well.. he tried to kiss me... i cussed him out and i firetrucking was peesed off at him, because i am thinking it was him who caused me to go through this! i never talked to him AGAIN. i feel really embarrased for saying that.. because everyone bullied me after that.. and i never wanted him to do that.. he was just sitting next to me at lunch and then he tryied to. grrr

 

Then tell other people that and WOAH its not everyday you hear about a guy trying to kiss you in High school or Middle Scholl or whatever grade you are in.

[RoxaSoraXIII 40]

well. they think i am that because well.. i have (used) to have a high voice, and well.. (now its getting deeper) dont ask and well.. one time i was being nice to this new kid but well.. he tried to kiss me... i cussed him out and i firetrucking was peesed off at him, because i am thinking it was him who caused me to go through this! i never talked to him AGAIN. i feel really embarrased for saying that.. because everyone bullied me after that.. and i never wanted him to do that.. he was just sitting next to me at lunch and then he tryied to. grrr

 

Oh... It's because he tried to kiss you then...

 

I have a friend that says to me that I'm a very important person to him and he's frequently saying to me that he wishes to kiss me and one time he tried to do that. In the next day, some idiots in my class were saying that me and my friend was having a relationship. The whole class was saying that, with exception of some girls. Thanks God this happened in the time I was in love with a girl and the whole school knew it... So everybody stoped with this stupid rumor... ¬¬'

 

What I did during the weeks this nightmare happened? I ignored the idiots who started with all this. I ignored then until the point one of them said: "STOP IGNORING ME B****!". I just pushed him to the wall and he fell on the floor. I laughed at him and I calmly left the place with all of his friends laughing at him But don't do what I did. Don't push them, don't fight with them. In your case is more serious. Call the police, tell your parents, it'll be better.

[Ace326 79]

I wouldnt take that sh-t. They try to hit you grab their earlobe and pull. It will scare the hell out of them if it rips. Telling people isnt going to get you out of this situation because its already to major physical violence. Id tell you to talk yourself out of situations, but obviously that option isnt available.

[Always 309]

Yes, like everyone else has been saying, tell an authority. Don't let anyone convince you that it's "unmanly" or "wimpy." If it's for self-defense, it's worth it. Seriously, bullies will sometimes kill people who they think are homosexuals, even if the person keeps trying to tell them that s/he is straight. Trying to be strong and bare the burden on your own is not worth you losing your life over. What these people are doing to you sounds like legitimate physical assault and battery, which are both against the law. If school counselors prove to be ineffective, consult the police. Once you get the police involved, it will be their job to stop the bullies, and hopefully deal with the school faculty who aren't making an effort to stop the bullying themselves (if indeed that's what ends up happening).

But DON'T try to hit them back or anything. People have a way of turning to the last person to pull a punch, and that last person ends up in more trouble than the ones who are truly in the wrong. You want to be completely innocent in this situation. That way, the bullies get into the maximum trouble possible. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-cool.png

[khff7fan23 0]

Then tell other people that and WOAH its not everyday you hear about a guy trying to kiss you in High school or Middle Scholl or whatever grade you are in.

 

i am in middlee school 6th grade and they are too.

[Koko 3,944]

well. they think i am that because well.. i have (used) to have a high voice, and well.. (now its getting deeper) dont ask and well.. one time i was being nice to this new kid but well.. he tried to kiss me... i cussed him out and i firetrucking was peesed off at him, because i am thinking it was him who caused me to go through this! i never talked to him AGAIN. i feel really embarrased for saying that.. because everyone bullied me after that.. and i never wanted him to do that.. he was just sitting next to me at lunch and then he tryied to. grrr

 

Not to sound rude or anything but you were kind of an asshole for reacting that way from a guy trying to kiss you.

You're not gay, yeah, but that does not give you a right to cuss someone out. You should of been nicer and said something like 'Sorry, I'm not gay.' instead of cussing the guy out. Seriously. Jesus Christ.

 

Anyways, just tell the authorities since it will escalate into something where they'll seriously hurt you and you don't want to get to that point

[Kirie 3,489]

well. they think i am that because well.. i have (used) to have a high voice, and well.. (now its getting deeper) dont ask and well.. one time i was being nice to this new kid but well.. he tried to kiss me... i cussed him out and i firetrucking was peesed off at him, because i am thinking it was him who caused me to go through this! i never talked to him AGAIN. i feel really embarrased for saying that.. because everyone bullied me after that.. and i never wanted him to do that.. he was just sitting next to me at lunch and then he tryied to. grrr

 

look, just get a lawer and sue those bastards!!

[khff7fan23 0]

well, i ..... was mad at him for it...and i just said f u.

[Rizzyy 736]

i think pretty sure everyone up above me said it all ready so im be a little different with my aproach ima tell u recent stuff so it doesnt get to long

 

ok so when i was bullied i would cry and all that to but that was becuase i would try to be like the "cool kid" u no but then in 8th grade i started being my self and sure i got bullied still but i didn't give up in fact 2 days ago on Facebook this guy i know was trying to get to me thinking that i was trying to be cool by being a anarchist but i laughed it off then i told him "if u think anarchy's gay then what in ur opinion is it?" and he did respond cuz he's ingorant like these ppl that r bullying u!

 

so what im saying is (ima rip off something i saw on a music vid) BE WHO U WANT TO BE AND IF HATERS COME LAUGH AT THEIR PATHETIC ATEMPTS TO GET TO U!!!

but if they r assaulting u then tell a adult!

 

ps if the skool doesn't have a investigation then ur parents can sue the county

[Sora's Baby 729]

Yea tell an adult.

[P50L 610]

if the skool doesn't have a investigation then ur parents can sue the county

 

This is what you should do if they DON'T do anything.

 

Seriously, there are girls that were sexually abused and threatened by school mates and since their own school didn't take action, they take it to court.

[Robbie the Wise 5,050]

Hey. I have been dealing with this FOREVER!!! i have been getting bullied by some people because that they think i am a "fa*" and that i am "gay" when i am NOT!! and i will NEVER be! So.. 3 days ago i was walking home from school and this is what happend:

(2 kids from my school)

Hey! look! theres the Fa*!! hey gay person!

(Me)

Shut Up! I am not that !

(2 Kids)

Hahaha (talks to other kid)

did you know he always dates the skinny and ugly girls??

and that he has NO FRIENDS??

(Me)

Yes, i Do have friends!

(2 Kids)

Name them!

(Me)

Ok.

(then i named alot of my friends)

then they were like saying all my friends were fa*s and they said i will never have a girlfriend, never be popular, and i am a wannabe and i will always be left behind..

Then they asked me this.

"do you have a big one or small one"

(srry idk if this is ok to right just writing what they said)

(me)

(i didnt answer because that is not thier buisness)

then they started screaming,

SMALL ONE SMALL ONE!!!

and i went home, went in my room, and cried (I never cry that much as that day)

and then TODAY.

I went to hang out with a friend and some of his friends..

and 5 mins later..

he shows up with a diffrent second person.

I wasnt gonna leave my friend cuz i just got there. and then when my friend and i started walking towards my house they pushed me off my bike, called me Homosexual.. and tried to throw my bike over a fence into a ditch... and soon later... they threw me against a steel fence that was around the ditch and punched me across the face a few times.

My friend, who is one of my Best Friends, backed me up and told them to "BACK OFFF" and then i went home. my friend called me halfway before i was home and asked me if i was ok. and lieing, i said yes. i didnt want to say no, because .. well hes my friend. and i dont want him to join them. (he wont ever probably)

i didnt cry on my way home, i just felt bad inside.. thinking people just hate me for no reason...

I hate this!! Help Me!

 

Well first of all they proved themselves to be ignorant moron's right off the bat they call you gay but they say you only date skinny ugly girls( http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/sleep.png face palm). The best thing to do in this situation is to tell an adult and that's only for your own personal safety I'd hate to hear you got seriously hurt because a couple of kids are so insecure about themselves that feel the need build themselves by bullying you.Also while violence should never be the first means in which use I would recomend taking up karate or take a self- defense class it never hurts to know how to defend yourself. If none of that works I'm sure we could all take them I could use a new punching bag.

[Deadshot 666]

Maybe this helps you....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wh1jNAZHKIw

[shadowblade 31]

Hey. I have been dealing with this FOREVER!!! i have been getting bullied by some people because that they think i am a "fa*" and that i am "gay" when i am NOT!! and i will NEVER be! So.. 3 days ago i was walking home from school and this is what happend:

(2 kids from my school)

Hey! look! theres the Fa*!! hey gay person!

(Me)

Shut Up! I am not that !

(2 Kids)

Hahaha (talks to other kid)

did you know he always dates the skinny and ugly girls??

and that he has NO FRIENDS??

(Me)

Yes, i Do have friends!

(2 Kids)

Name them!

(Me)

Ok.

(then i named alot of my friends)

then they were like saying all my friends were fa*s and they said i will never have a girlfriend, never be popular, and i am a wannabe and i will always be left behind..

Then they asked me this.

"do you have a big one or small one"

(srry idk if this is ok to right just writing what they said)

(me)

(i didnt answer because that is not thier buisness)

then they started screaming,

SMALL ONE SMALL ONE!!!

and i went home, went in my room, and cried (I never cry that much as that day)

and then TODAY.

I went to hang out with a friend and some of his friends..

and 5 mins later..

he shows up with a diffrent second person.

I wasnt gonna leave my friend cuz i just got there. and then when my friend and i started walking towards my house they pushed me off my bike, called me Homosexual.. and tried to throw my bike over a fence into a ditch... and soon later... they threw me against a steel fence that was around the ditch and punched me across the face a few times.

My friend, who is one of my Best Friends, backed me up and told them to "BACK OFFF" and then i went home. my friend called me halfway before i was home and asked me if i was ok. and lieing, i said yes. i didnt want to say no, because .. well hes my friend. and i dont want him to join them. (he wont ever probably)

i didnt cry on my way home, i just felt bad inside.. thinking people just hate me for no reason...

I hate this!! Help Me!

 

 

 

You can't let them get to you dude.Trust me my friends still give me crap for being a virgin while they all went out and lost it,well for them karma will be a bi***. But anyway don't let em get to you they're not going anywhere in life and will forever be losers.But as everyone else said that's assault. Call the police or get an authority figure involved.Plus karma.If society refuses to make them pay for this trust me karma will,this I promise you. As for your friend dude,that is messed up. I don't care if it was a simple F.U or a full on cussing out,you owe him an apology.O.k you don't swing that way but you could've just told him that instead putting him out there like that,because that's the first step towards becoming just what those guys are:bullies. Trust me though hes gay he could become the best friend you could ever have.I know because my best friend is an arrogant,narcissistic loudmouth know-it-all lol

[Kaiso 2,764]

Don't let them get to you! Wherever this is happening you need to get an adult involved to help you if they keep on bothering you. They're nothing but bullies that are only there because they think you're easy to pick on. Try to prove them wrong! Avoid them if you can, but if you have to cross their path, ignore their petty little insults and don't give them any real answer or show that you're offended by it. But seriously though, get someone else involved whether it's a teacher, principal, parent, etc. to help you deal with this. It's really stupid that they're using something like that as an insult when it really isn't... But regardless of whatever insult they're doing you shouldn't have to deal with this by yourself. D: