So called friends.

[terraxaqua34 98]

Okay, so at school, some of my friends are avoiding me. They aren't talking to me, looking at me, or even eating lunch with me. They are moving around so I can't find them. It's been happening for the past few days, but I didn't know why until yesterday. One of my other friends was told why they were doing it and she told me. They said I'm annoying, makes scenes, and only want to talk about Yugioh and Yuri. None of these things are true! So today, I figured there are more reasons why they are avoiding me. I tryed to ask one of them, but they just said.' Get away and leave me alone.' I was so heartbroken. I almost cryed in my spanish class, but the urge not to. Now, they will walk away if I even get to them. Do any of you have any ideas how to solve this problem? This is the first time this is happening to me.

[Sora's Baby 729]

Oww idk um.... O.o ask a teacher.~nayn

[Iamkingdomhearts1000 1,170]

Personally i think screw them and don't worry about a situatation involving people who don't even matter when they think you don't even matter, Sorry if that doesn't help and only makes things worse but i am serious about this and don't worry you will eventually at least one trust worthy friend in this world even if it takes time as long as your willing to make that time and even if this does sound like something you would hear usually out of a anime or something i am definately speaking the truth in my opinion, Also out of safety for your own concern i don't think you should talk about these kind of things on the internet unless you can really depend on someone you know on the internet and also you shouldn't post this kind of thing especially on forums unless your willing to get your heart broken even more by people who may speak negatively of this but this only advice im giving and i don't really care if you trust me or not im just giving my opinion on this matter.

 

P.S

 

Sorry for making this a long reply.

[rikunobodyxiii 700]

Well, first step is figuring out what their problem with you is. Since they are avoiding you, getting that info from them directly doesn't look like a plausible opinion. You could use another friend and/or someone you trust to ask them on your behave.

I think you should at least try to figure out what's going on. If you make an effort to fix or whatever what's wrong and they don't, then don't worry about them. They made their decisions. Like Iamkingdomhearts1000 said, it might take time to find trustworthy friends, but you will find some.

[Miku Hatsune 636]

When I was younger (maybe about 11 or 12), I was avoided because I was a blatant weeaboo. I was loud, obnoxious, embarrassing, and just generally not a very good person to be around. All of my other friends were either just like me, or only hung out with me because my behavior amused them. So, before you get too upset over it, you must first question yourself: "am I really like that?"

 

If the answer is yes, perhaps it's time to change something about yourself. Let them know you are sincere about changing yourself. Even if you aren't really like how they're perceiving you to be, just an "I'm sorry" could work. Show them that you have the ability to make other friends, socialize, and look like a happy person without them.

 

If the answer is no, then obviously these people aren't your friends. They're just overreacting and you deserve better than them.

[Silvia Kuroi 1,480]

If there was any way for me to help, i would. Besides, i talk to my friends incessantly about Kingdom Hearts, and most of the time, the just tune me out. If these 'friends' keep avoiding you, find ones that have more similar interests as you do.

[4Everbee 1,365]

if they where your real friends they wouldn't do that to you so you should just go and make new friends i know it hurt to lose friends but i'm sure you'll make new ones!

[DTD 33]

get new friends and be like fuk it like cholo adventures if you know what I mean, and if you don't well... fuk it.

[Kinode 3,056]

Wow, the exact thing has been happening to me. She was a good friend, but she got a boyfriend and new friends and won't ever talk to me again...

[Aqua7KH 5,395]

Screw them. You dont need them and you will find that one person in life who completes you.

[TheApprenticeofKingMickey 3,689]

It depends to be honest. Some people, like myself, have Asperger's Syndrome or autism and we can't help but talk about the things we like and for some Aspies and autistics things that don't concern them are uninteresting. People who don't know they have autism or Asperger's often avoid them because they're not aware the autistic or Aspie can't control themselves. Ask your friends if they can give you a second chance. If they say yes, refrain from mentioning any of the things you like for a while. Promise you won't say anything about Yugioh and yuri. Say, for two weeks at the least? If they don't agree, don't give you the time of day, then I believe they aren't your true friends.

[Ai Enma 7]

You can't change nobody else but you can change yourself thought. They were being fake first of all and you were being yourself, also keeping it real. No matter what, you will always have friends. Friends come and go. They can't be mad at you for being yourself so be the bigger person.

[Lu Xun 2,069]

If they do not want to be your friends, then forget them.

 

They must like for what you are inside, and not for what you do.

 

With time, you will find more and better friends to replace them, I'm sure

[Zexion's_Lover_46 76]

If they're doing that to you, they're not your friends and never were your friends. Friends don't do that to you. Friends stick by you no matter what. Are you sure someone didn't start a rumor about you? Beacuse something similar happened to me in middle school only it didn't get that out of hand and we resolved the whole situations. This is why it's hard for me to trust people in real life because one minute they say they're your "friends" and then the next thing you know, they've up and left just like that I don't look back. Honestly, I don't think you need people like that in your life. You can make more friends. It takes time but it's still possible for you to make more friends. You're not a bad guy.

[Leaxel 178]

WHAT ARE THOSE GUYS KIDS?!

WHY CAN'T THEY JUST SAY IT YOU KNOW! YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW WHY THEY ARE AVOIDING YOU! YOU SHOULD JUST GO UP TO THEM AND SAY "WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM?"

And when your done, f*ck those guys and get some real friends!

[shadowblade 31]

ok heres what you do.stop and think about it for a minute if there was any time where you mightve done any of the things they said you did.whether its true or not forget them.if true then yes stop what youre doin otherwise you'll just wind up repeatin yourself with new friends.if not true than yes forget them.they were just lookin for a reason to ditch you.you'll find out who your true friends were one day friend.

[shadowblade 31]

If they're doing that to you, they're not your friends and never were your friends. Friends don't do that to you. Friends stick by you no matter what. Are you sure someone didn't start a rumor about you? Beacuse something similar happened to me in middle school only it didn't get that out of hand and we resolved the whole situations. This is why it's hard for me to trust people in real life because one minute they say they're your "friends" and then the next thing you know, they've up and left just like that I don't look back. Honestly, I don't think you need people like that in your life. You can make more friends. It takes time but it's still possible for you to make more friends. You're not a bad guy.

 

quoting this persons post here.

[heartless101 83]

Ask a teacher for help and/or try to reason with your friends. If you can't reason with your friends, screw them. Just find some new friends. If you can reason with your friends, that's great.