Kaiminechan 3 Posted August 7, 2011 Umm...sometimes I wanted to talk to the other people or my classmate....I little get nervous....but when I am talk to the boys or when he talk to me....I really really get nervous....my heartbeat...beats so fast...I wonder why? I'm shy girl...so I have a few friends only... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rob 5,571 Posted August 7, 2011 Just try to talk to them about anything. Talking will break you out of that shy shell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaiminechan 3 Posted August 7, 2011 Umm...okay...I try. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AnsemTheWise 1,114 Posted August 7, 2011 Start with a joke. That's how I get out of being nervous with people. It doesn't even have to be a good one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oishii 3,987 Posted August 7, 2011 I'm a shy girl too and, odd as it is, speech class helped me break out of my shyness. I'll always be shy but I'm getting better at it. It also helps to try and talk to only a few people instead of talking in a big group. Lots of people always make me clam up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shiv 6 Posted August 7, 2011 u just gotta break down that barrier cuz i used to b the same way but i just decide to not let anyone not b my frend Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
*Rikku* 90 Posted August 7, 2011 AWWW just try to talk more You have to talk till its normal OH and you only need to brake your self I know its like a chain that you cant brake it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rikunobodyxiii 700 Posted August 7, 2011 I think most importantly, be yourself. Being able to talk to people isn't worth much if people can't see the real you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aubreyloveskh 16 Posted August 7, 2011 I used to be really shy, I'm still a little shy sometimes. You just have to start talking more and not worry about what people think, and don't get afraid of saying something stupid. Eventually after you start talking more, even if you sound weird at first, you will feel more comfortable talking to people. Also as the person above said, just be yourself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OblivionRider 50 Posted August 8, 2011 Start with a joke. That's how I get out of being nervous with people. It doesn't even have to be a good one. Awkward laughs are great to break the silence. Being shy too, sometimes the best thing to do is to go out on a limb and try something new. If I hadn't pushed myself off the metaphoric ledge, I never would have written and produced the school play, which turned out to be the greatest moment of my life. Also try to join some clubs, especially music. I've met most of my friends through rocking solos on the saxophone in jazz band. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Weedanort 8,786 Posted August 8, 2011 Just be yourself. Awkward laughs are great to break the silence. Being shy too, sometimes the best thing to do is to go out on a limb and try something new. If I hadn't pushed myself off the metaphoric ledge, I never would have written and produced the school play, which turned out to be the greatest moment of my life. Also try to join some clubs, especially music. I've met most of my friends through rocking solos on the saxophone in jazz band. I have to agree with you. Music groups are a good thing to try out. I even managed to win the song festival of my school on my first year there Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaiminechan 3 Posted August 28, 2011 Thank you everyone... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites