xion---424 51 Posted August 4, 2011 ok so heres the deal i have three moms and three dads the reason i wanna say this is im a little... uhh confused i guess.....so theres my real mom michelle my real dad (biological at least).... uhhh i honestly dont know his name or much about him.. my dad that really adopted me when i was still in moms tummy... mani... my step mom kristy my step dad jeff and my dads new girlfreind jodi....uhhh i need a way to orginie my thoughts...ok ill start with the ones who came first then ill go on.. my BIOLOGICAL moms name is michelle she was dateing my ADOPTED father mani before i was even thought of i guess you could say mom had a miscarage she got really upset or something they decided they needed a break from eachother which gets to my biological dad who she started dateing during that break mani was dateing someone else too now heres ALL i know about my "real" father he was verry nice and carismatic mom says (she also said that was funny considering he was a car sales man) he had adhd too (most likely mom thinks he did he was adopted his parents were pretty young verry artsy concert something(mom said pianist she didnt know for shure) he never knew his real parents he was verry close to his adopted family didnt want to know them.. he thought he was infertle (but yeah that clearly is wrong cause well.. i here i wasnt planned not like i wasnt wanted my mom was thrilled mani was too.. they decided they were going to get back together my real dad didnt want to overcomplicate my life or something he didnt think id want to know him since he didnt want to know his real parents... mom still got contact details from him... i could meat him if i wanted to.. i think i want too) my dad mani adopted me then and.. yeah... i didnt know about my biological dad till i was uhhh 16 15?.... sometime around there i really shoulda guessed i mean mani isnt really my skin tone but hes all i really known i never thought anything of it... and if my freinds brought it to my attintion when i was little id make a claim about there being white tigers with orange mommys (i was little it doesnt make any sence anyhoo) i found out about dad due to mom and dad fighting i saw one of the emails dad sent to mom like " i claimed her for so and so years" claim? that not a normal word i tryed to ask mom she pushed it away i kept asking and then i found out about my biodad basicly that mani wasnt my real dad and mom has my real dads contact info... when i was 18 i learned the rest of what i posted... but yeah that was a...BIT of a shock.. MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMBER which brings me toooooooo KRISTY my step mom since i was 5 shes practicly a second mom to me i mean i have known her for as long as i can rember. she treats me like im her own daughter too shes taught me how to sew actually as well we make my halloween coustume each year she gardens she sews she does alot of creative stuff shes back in college trying to be a teacher kristy and daddys divorce was really hard actulally JEFF not near as close i known him just as long as kristy but we have our rough patches huge fights alot i tend to annoy him i think but when i really need him hes there for me AFTER DAD AND KRISTYS DIVORCE came jodi now u can count her and you cant... im not verry close to her... we kinda had a rocky start which i shall not go into but shes nice enough i guess,... >> THE THING IM CONFUSED ABOUT is... what is "real" parents is it truely biologicalness because my bio dad feels less reall then mani or jeff is it a matter of closeness... hes never been here my biodad i didnt even know he existed till now...what does parents mean whats haveing only 2 like what are reall parents its complicated and im confused Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VENROXAS 152 Posted August 4, 2011 Oh wow Just more familey then I hope you meet your real biological dad one day sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
darklunatic 81 Posted August 4, 2011 i cant gave in answer for that little one Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaiso 2,764 Posted August 4, 2011 Your true parents are the ones that you feel have raised you how a parent should and that have treated you like their own daughter in your view. They don't have to be biological. Your biological father has less of a right to be called "dad" by you than the other men that have been there for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
