Koko 3,944 Posted June 17, 2011 Lolita fashion is something I've taken an interest in and this is a thread for anyone else interested in Lolita fashion and to give each other tips for creating outfits and building wardrobes. What is Lolita? Lolita is a very hard style to define, but in my opinion what really defines it is it's childlike innocence and old-fashioned elegance. It's distinctive style is most obviously from the Victorian and Rococo eras, but you will see a lot of influence from the Edwardian period and even some 40s and 50s American clothing styles - any time period in which fashion was elegant and beautiful. The bell-shaped skirt provides the typical silhouette, but it is neither what makes something lolita nor is it required of all lolitas. There is no one item of clothing or a color or trim that embodies all that is lolita - it is a unique aesthetic that's hard to perfect. To some there's a lifestyle attached - not only wearing the clothes as often as possible but also taking part in lolita activities and following a certain code of etiquette - but to others it is merely a clothing style. Lolita can be an escape from the mundane, or an attempt to return to a more innocent time in life. It's something a little bit different to everyone, but what lolitas have in common is a shared desire to wear really awesome clothes. There are several different types of lolita, gothic lolita, sweet lolita, punk lolita, etc. I'm more drawn to sweet lolita. Some of the major DONTs in Lolita that I know are 1) using fabrics like satin. 2) BAD LACE. i.e. Raschel 3) cat ears. THAT IS NOT LOLITA. 4) DON'T GET ANYTHING FROM MILANOO 5) HOT TOPIC IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA. IT IS CHEAP AND ITA LOOKING. DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT 6) MAXI PAD HEADDRESSES USUALLY DON'T WORK ANYMORE 7) Don't buy on ebay unless you're experienced. ALWAYS look at reviews on egl and such. http://kh13.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/smiley-cool.png Stay away from lace monster dresses. There is a thing called too much lace. Some Lolita DOs: 1) ACCESSORIZE. Just don't go overboard. 2) Bodyline is the a great place to get lolita stuff from. 3) Qutieland has quite an assortment of brands and replicas. They get positive reviews and I would recommend them. 4) Taobao is good (same brands as on Qutieland, sometimes cheaper even), but you will have to use a shopping service such as this. 5) Themed coords are adorable. Such as Doctor Who lolita, Harry Potter lolita, circus lolita, etc. 6) Do something cute with your hair! Elegant curls, braids, etc. If you have short hair, maybe wear a cute hat, or a appropriately sized bow! (Big bows with short hair look slightly odd). You can even use a bunch of cute hair clips if you're doing OTT Sweet! If you have anymore, feel free to add on. Also, wigs are another topic. Two tone wigs are cute, soft curls, and etc., work for sweet lolita on other types. Simple things like that can keep you from being called an ita, which is, well, a BAD lolita. Some BAD examples of Lolita (ita basically): some GOOD examples of Lolita: I will add more to this post as anyone else gives me some Lolita tips or I come up with more. If you have any pictures or yourself in Lolita, feel free to post. Also if you have any questions about whether something is either ita or lolita, you can ask here as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cellar Door 652 Posted June 18, 2011 y wuld u no get anythn from milaanoo day r da best plaec 2 ggett lolita && cosplayyy shit dey giv u errythin on tiem && perfectly maed y u no liek millanooooooo i like lolita. i enjoy the country one and punk one. >: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 18, 2011 i can has? ;X lolita is loveeee it's really cute and i like cute clothes i want to be cute : x 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HelpMeRan-Sama 141 Posted June 19, 2011 Frills. Lots and lots of frills, and ribbons. Touhou is your best refrence. I like Gothic lolita btw, its nice and lacey (I don't get why laces are DON'T) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 20, 2011 By lace being a DONT I mean like, BAD LACE. Lace is great. But you have to be careful. That's what I meant. 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Godot 513 Posted June 21, 2011 http://www.fyeahlolita.com/ This is a really great lolita blog, if anyone's interested~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stardustblade358 806 Posted June 22, 2011 I adore Punk/Gothic Lolita. I love them. Especially the Kimonos. Or just Punk/Gothic Lolita in perse. 1 waytothexdawnx reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoxAs Is Wise 7 Posted June 22, 2011 I didn't like lolita until I see this thread 8D turns out what I considered lolita all these long was bad lolita 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 22, 2011 Turning people to the lolita side, one cake at a time ((yescake... cakeiscuteshhh)) I plan to be ordering some things from bodyline soon as well as getting a wig or two to go with my dresses. 83 i would like some help though trying to decide what accessories i should get as well, as well as things like socks and shoes. lemme put the things i want/going to get under a spoiler http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=4817&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_8&noSubType=N i want this necklace http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=6171&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_1&noSubType=N and these shoes (inwhiteorpink) to go with these dresses/skirts http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=6212&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_2&noSubType=N http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=5433&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_10&noSubType=N http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=5913&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_6&noSubType=N http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=5618&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_5&noSubType=N http://www.bodyline.co.jp/bodyline/showProduct.asp?id=5435&pageNumber=1&pageStop=stop_7&noSubType=N ((thisoneinblue)) so yes, no? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kinode 3,056 Posted June 23, 2011 Still... WHo would wear that? lol... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 23, 2011 I would obviously. 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted June 29, 2011 so guys, bumping this thread because well i got my stuff from bodyline today (: this is the dress and blouse i got unfortunately the skirt i got has a broken zipper, but i will be getting it fixed! but no picture of the skirt i got some jewelry too. the prettiest one was this one isn't it gorgeous! i tried on my dress as well this is me in it (: 3 Setting Sun<3, XxBlossomingNobodyxX and Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stardustblade358 806 Posted June 29, 2011 You look so pretty in the dress Koko. 8D I am so jelouse,I can't buy online. DX The necklace is so beautiful...8'( Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted July 9, 2011 so i had an excuse to wear lolita in public (OMNICON~) and I have some pictures I took c: i took off the white knee highs and white flats i had on when i took this picture so which is why i cropped out my legs okay so the things i had on Dress: Soft Cream JSk from Bodyline Accessories: Claire's, Hot Topic and some I already had Hair Bow: The bow came with the dress, I just slipped it onto a headband Shoes: Thrifted Knee Highs: I had them lying around somewhere Petticoat: Handmade (of course you can see the petticoat, but it's the reason for the poof in my dress) Make up: Foundation, powder, blush, light colored lipgloss, minimal eyeliner, a bunch of mascara. All from clinique. Not perfect, but I really liked it, and so many people complimented me on dress and everything c: 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cellar Door 652 Posted July 12, 2011 @koko the dress is gorgeous. i showed some dresses on bodyline to my mum and dad and they were like " NO. BETCH. " ): Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted July 27, 2011 updating!~ Hi guys, so I got a wig to with the JSK I'm wearing up there look at it it's lovely anyways mintymix.com awesome site for wigs and other stuff. 1 narutopins reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aubreyloveskh 16 Posted July 28, 2011 Lolita fashion is cool, I'm not super into it, but I love fashion in general. @Lady Koko- That dress you got is really cute! I really love the necklace too! 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted July 29, 2011 i decided to try on what i'm going to wear for sanjapan here are some pictures Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted August 16, 2011 hi, it's me again. I'm planning my next coord, because I'm getting my dream dress for Christmas! I'm getting it from qutieland, which has LOVELY dresses and a bunch of brands. Unlike bodyline, their dresses are ordered to be made and they take a while (a month or more) but the reviews are good. They also have several different brands and different size options for all the dresses! Anyways, this is the coord I'm planning. The dress is $70, the wig is $60, shoes are $37, and the socks are $6. Plus shipping, I'm gonna spend about $200 on everything, which is pretty good (seeing as $200 would only get me one dress from Angelic Pretty). 1 waytothexdawnx reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sunny 0 Posted August 16, 2011 Your coords are amazing. :> When I did brolita, I ordered my shit from taobao because I was an ass. Looking at this stuff makes me jelly and want to start lolita'ing again. :'< Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted August 16, 2011 ;3; oh thank you. i don't think my coords are that good aaaa i'm really flattered. i heard taobao was good too tho? just depends i guess? Idk i need to look into it. you should! o: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miku 0 Posted August 22, 2011 I adore Punk/Gothic Lolita. I love them. Especially the Kimonos. Or just Punk/Gothic Lolita in perse. where can i get that awesome gothic lolita dress in the end D: i want it so bad and i have looked everywhere but i cant find it x( Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted August 24, 2011 where can i get that awesome gothic lolita dress in the end D: i want it so bad and i have looked everywhere but i cant find it x( that's fanplus friend! their dresses are a bit pricier than bodyline AND quitieland I couldn't find that specific dress, but i found one much like it, right over here http://www.fanplusfriend.com/servlet/the-809/Gothic-Lolita-Elegant-Short/Detail the material looks weird to me so i dont like and would definitely not get it myself,,,, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Godot 513 Posted August 29, 2011 so pretty~ not a dress, but still hnnnng why did I click that link now I'm going to spend all day looking at clothes I can't afford ;A; 1 Anonn0000 reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Think Pink 1,967 Posted August 30, 2011 GAH I WANT, LIKE, EVERYTHING. I begged my dad to buy me this one skirt from Bodyline, and he was like, "D8< WHO WOULD WEAR THAT CRAP? IT LOOKS STUPID. I WOULD MAKE FUN OF YOU. NO. IT'S TOO EXPENSIVE FOR SOMETHING SO STUPID." ;~; Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites