VENROXAS 152 Posted January 17, 2011 I don't really have any advice for this, But You do have to choose someone having 2 relationships won't turn out well, and when you do decide let the one down easy, I hope all goes well for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CardCaptorDeadpool 386 Posted January 17, 2011 So 2 girls and you wanns go down to one? Howd it become 2 anyway? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 18, 2011 the way it got to 2 was, the one got me hooked up with the other and after about 78 days the one that got us together well we somehow got together Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rue 3 Posted January 18, 2011 Quote That's not right at all. :// Eventually, they both WILL find out. They'll dump you, and both be pretty heart-broken. If the girl's feelings aren't enough, you'll still be marked a cheater, which is a definate turn off. You shouldn't be doing this to those girls--just think of how sad they'll be because you lied to them. Yep, People who do what your doing get cast with a horibe mark. Cursed! Meaning No girl in her right mind would go out with you. So take a cuple breathers, and Just pick one. I have to defantly Agree with Butterflylexi she's 100% right. Besides its wrong and you look like a pig. Nobody likes a pig. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CardCaptorDeadpool 386 Posted January 18, 2011 I gotta tell you wat you've done to these girls is gonna be so cruel on them wen they find out! Especially depending on how much they like you. I should tell you there is gonna be some serious stigma in store for you if this gets out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 19, 2011 ok it doesnt matter ones taking a break from me cuz of bullshit she heard so im now with the 9th grader Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guillus 3 Posted January 19, 2011 Oh well, now it's settled. Now don't go messing up with this one! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FireStorm 162 23 Posted January 19, 2011 ......so does that mean you're going out with the first one you were going out with, or the second? (and don't mess that relationship, and don't go out with 2 girls at the same ever again) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 20, 2011 i got her to agree that we needed space and out of the 2 its the first one Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CardCaptorDeadpool 386 Posted January 22, 2011 Ah so you're manipulating them now, you convinced her a break was in order. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 23, 2011 Its ok CCDP me and her are just friends now and i still dating the first one b4 all this happened. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rue 3 Posted January 25, 2011 Quote Ah so you're manipulating them now, you convinced her a break was in order. I have to agree with CCDP, it does seem like you maniputlated her. and that is bad. But good luck on this relaltionship. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Antrium 10 Posted January 25, 2011 If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 26, 2011 hey to let you know the one girl wanted to date me and she knew i was with the other girl and yes i done stupid things like cutting myself and trying to kill myself, yes im a lil suicidal, but for some ppl i mostly say nvr say no, and i nvr wanted this to happen so yeah call me wat ever ya want and if im a ass then im a huge one for all this so who really wants a ass like me on this site, so cya!!!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FireStorm 162 23 Posted January 26, 2011 Quote If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you. um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rue 3 Posted January 26, 2011 Don;t be sucicdle man, you learn form your mistake. So go on to move in the here and now, present. But remember this lesson, for years to come, you an always say no, you have that opption. But you earn form your mistake, I hope all goes well for you nick, thats all i can say. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rosie 3 Posted January 26, 2011 Quote Quote If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you. um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting...... There's also a harsh truth. It might sound insulting, but it needs to be said. Jerking girls around is NO way to form any kind of stable relationship, or expectations for relationships in the future. And Antrium is right. Nick IS treating them with a total disregard to their feelings- asshole-ish behaviour. I'm not saying he IS one, strictly, but he's being one hell of a jerk about them. They're not possessions. They're people. And yet he talks about them like they're just there to please him, and that it doesn't MATTER if he dates more than one. He doesn't NEED "constructive critisism". He needs someone to tell it like it is, and put him in his place. And, Nick... I really don't get how being suicidal affects how you treat your girlfriends. Surely if you're feeling that way, you would want some genuine support...? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 26, 2011 thank you all for treating me like shit, i asked for help and this is wat i get back, heres the damn truth i just wanted one the other one barged into having me, but i broke up with her and im still with the other one i been with for about 3 months so go ahead give me crap with my 2nd girlfriend when my ex broke up with me sometime b4 we got together, i nvr wanted any of this crap, and i betcha you all are or were the same way in life, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Antrium 10 Posted January 26, 2011 Quote Quote Quote If I called you an asshole would you be offended? Cause' right now I think you are. I mean I know that Morals do not apply to you but you know sometimes... you need to be put in your place Two girls are a NO NO. Manipulating one of them... A HELL NO!!! That is like emotional abuse! I am ashamed of you. um, too far, way too far...... that's not helpful at all, that's just insulting and demeaning, look at what you posted, and see you went too far, there's constructive criticism, and then there's just plain insulting...... There's also a harsh truth. It might sound insulting, but it needs to be said. Jerking girls around is NO way to form any kind of stable relationship, or expectations for relationships in the future. And Antrium is right. Nick IS treating them with a total disregard to their feelings- asshole-ish behaviour. I'm not saying he IS one, strictly, but he's being one hell of a jerk about them. They're not possessions. They're people. And yet he talks about them like they're just there to please him, and that it doesn't MATTER if he dates more than one. He doesn't NEED "constructive critisism". He needs someone to tell it like it is, and put him in his place. And, Nick... I really don't get how being suicidal affects how you treat your girlfriends. Surely if you're feeling that way, you would want some genuine support...? Thank you, Rosie. See I say it how it is. I am not gonna sit here and let someone jerk off with women. It is just plain wrong. How can I give constructive criticism when there nothing to appreciate? There is wrong and there is right. No middle road here people. So I don't care if I come across insulting, it is a fool who does not reproof the wrong. I state my opinion and now you know it. So, agree with me or don't. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guillus 3 Posted January 26, 2011 Ok guys now please just cool off a bit. He just wanted some help and advice to not do it again. No need to be offensive. Besides he already apologized and he already broke up with one of them. So lay off his back, I think he has had enough. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nick 103 Posted January 27, 2011 thank you guillus, i have had enough and i have done apoligizing, it just shows by the looks of it here that no one really can be trusted or nicely asked for personal stuff again, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Koko 3,944 Posted January 27, 2011 you guys, Personal threads are made because the person wants to be given advice and wants to feel better, not be brought down and ect. If you don't have any help to give, then just don't post. Closed. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
