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How would you feel if ur friend or family memeber died?

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How would you feel if your best friend of if your brother or sisters died?

I know i would feel so devastated and never gunna wanna do anything and i know i would never get over it. :(

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Idk how I would feel, I've never lost someone dear to me, and I don't even know if I have someone so dear that I would miss this much. But I guess that if I ever lost somebody I really loved I'd be really bad, and even though me or anybody didn't want to get over it life would force us to do so, there is no way to live in a lost memory.

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I've lost my grandpa. But I didn't feel sad or anything.

Maybe because I knew he was in a better place and my mom wouldn't suffer from hearing he's sick all the time.

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I've lost my grandpa, but his death didn't really sink in until his funeral. When I got back from it, I cried my eyes out. Other than that, I haven't lost any human family members.

 

I've lost quite a few pets though. My family tends to take in animals that no one really wants. It kind of started when we took in a dog from an animal shelter that was about to be put down. Then we just started taking in other dogs that people didn't want, and we also took in cats we found off the street. Originally, we had eleven pets. We're down to seven. Before those eleven pets we just had one dog. Most of them were put down due to an inability to walk or because of tumors. We lost one of our cats due to a seizure it had one morning. Then we had a bird that died of unknown reasons (she wasn't old, showed no signs of illnesses, nothing).

 

The death of one of my pets hits me the same as a family member's death does. To me, my pets are part of my family. Seeing them pass away, or be put down, is heartbreaking. Sometimes, if I still think about them too much, I start to break down again.

 

If one of my brothers, my friends, my parents --or any other family member-- were to die, I'd react the same way: have their death sink in, and just find a way to vent about it, whether it be writing or just talking to someone about them.

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I lost a family friend when I was really young, say 4? I didn't understand what happened back then, all I knew was that he went to hospital and left. I missed him heaps though. /:

 

I lost an uncle too, a few years ago. However, that was the first time I heard about him. So I didn't really feel sad.

 

I've lost heaps of pets though. Some to old age, being put down, unknown reasons..

 

If I lost a friend or close family member, I'd be devastated. Like, my Granddad. He's my only grandparent alive, and the only one I got to see. So he means a lot to me. He lives about 400km's away from me though.

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depends how close i am to them.

 

if it's one of my distant unknown family members, i would feel sorry for the people who were close to them.

if it's one of my friends, i'll pretty much always be really sad.

one of my close family and i get REALLY REALLY sad.

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Actaully, my Grandma just died say two days ago(I'm awful with time, it could be thursday for all know) And I've lost serval other people close to me, Dan, John, Gigi(had to go to her funeral on my 12th birthday >.<) and some otthers. But meh, I wasn't really sad.

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It emotionally and mentally scars me for life. This is why I get scared when I meet people in real life beause I've been through so many deaths....Everyone I love is dying. Dealing with death for so long, it scares the hell out of me to get close to someone because I'm afraid I'll get too attached and either I'll die or they'll die.

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Actually, I haven't lost anyone important to me yet. My great-grandmother's day is coming, and coming soon, so I don't know what it will feel like. Can't imagine how it feels for anyone who has, though.

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My life would be black, no different to being blind since I can never see them again.

Yes, that's how I would feel. I hate losing my friends/family, and I actually hate to be alone :C

I never cried at my grandma's (Father side) and grandpa's (Mother side) funeral, because I believe that they wouldn't like to see us crying just because they couldn't be with us.

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If Chaosx died I would jump for joy, And then piss on the ashes! =) =) =) 8D =D

 

I'm glad you would decide to uphold your promise. =') I feel so loved. =')

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I Recently lost my grandmother, Just be full of sadness,and some pent up rage. But Just take a step back re-examine My Life, My thoughsts, Myself. Then move on, wll try to. I was really close to my grandmother... SO it still hurts. Heck I kinda like it when soemone i'm close to passess away, I start to cry and take a deep look in the mirrior, it makes me know i'm still human. I still have feelings,a dn know that theres more to life. then life itself.

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if my brother died I would go into such a deep depression and most likely become a living nightmare, having a filthy mouth and not a care for anyones feelings :(

 

As for my best friend..... Yeah no more Antrium if that happened.

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Depends on who in my family died. I'm sorry, I sound terrible for saying this, but some people in family, I wouldn't give a shit if they died :/ Friends I'd probably cry for days and never really get over it.

What would hurt me most is if my aunt died. I'm really scared for her even now, living so far away from us and if she were to die not only would it devastate me, her two daughters would be orphaned and alone ;A;

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Depends on who in my family died. I'm sorry, I sound terrible for saying this, but some people in family, I wouldn't give a shit if they died :/ Friends I'd probably cry for days and never really get over it.

What would hurt me most is if my aunt died. I'm really scared for her even now, living so far away from us and if she were to die not only would it devastate me, her two daughters would be orphaned and alone ;A;

 

I don't think you are being mean at all. I totally get what you are saying and as for your Aunt. I think we all get your concern. If you love somebody then we are concerned for their well being. If they died we would be devastated and you would cry for days just like you said.

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Depends on who in my family died. I'm sorry, I sound terrible for saying this, but some people in family, I wouldn't give a shit if they died :/ Friends I'd probably cry for days and never really get over it.

What would hurt me most is if my aunt died. I'm really scared for her even now, living so far away from us and if she were to die not only would it devastate me, her two daughters would be orphaned and alone ;A;

 

I don't think you are being mean at all. I totally get what you are saying and as for your Aunt. I think we all get your concern. If you love somebody then we are concerned for their well being. If they died we would be devastated and you would cry for days just like you said.

 

Yep aso I think its how close you are. For example I lsot my dad at a really young age, and was a jerk for aobut five years, iI was on autio pliot, not really "there". , For my grandmother cried like a baby. I think its different for everyone.

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if my brother died I would go into such a deep depression and most likely become a living nightmare, having a filthy mouth and not a care for anyones feelings :(

 

As for my best friend..... Yeah no more Antrium if that happened.

 

Wow, it amazes me that you could care for another person that much.

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