Hige Unari 5 Posted December 3, 2010 So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lightning 0 Posted December 3, 2010 I'm not a girl, gay, or ETERNA, but I reccomend you get someone to ask him, if he is gay, and if he is, move on from there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ObsidianEagle 103 Posted December 3, 2010 same, i'm none he doesn't sound gay, just nice. he probably likes you, but depends on if he acts the same around other people Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amon 4,279 Posted December 3, 2010 Why don't you ask a girl to ask him if he's gay. That way it seems perfectly normal. But make sure he has no feelings for the girl because it may backfire terribly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sota9 4 Posted December 3, 2010 Why would somehow being nice make you gay, I just think he like you alot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoxasStalker 11 Posted December 4, 2010 I'm a little confused by the first post, do you know if he's into guys or girls? If he's into guys then go for it! Ask him out. If he's not friendship is good too. If you don't know ask one of your friends(that's a girl) to ask him if he's gay for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eterna 274 Posted December 4, 2010 So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do?? What does he do that makes you think he's Gay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ObsidianEagle 103 Posted December 4, 2010 So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do?? What does he do that makes you think he's Gay? thats what i was thinking like i said, he just seems nice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chaosx 113 Posted December 4, 2010 I'm only bi, so i can only half post. I say you-HALF POST RESTRICTION REACHED lolzxno, you should just leave it be, don't ask him, but if he comes onto ya, punch him in the mouf Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Think Pink 1,967 Posted December 4, 2010 ^ ._. That sounds tough, but I honestly wouldn't do anything. You're becoming really close friends, I think, which doesn't nessecarily mean he's coming on to you, lol. If you eventually are convinced enough, though, you should ask him. If you're too afraid, you could always get someone to ask for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eterna 274 Posted December 5, 2010 So I was curious to see what you guys think. There is a guy in my spanish class class who is very cute and funny. We are always hanging out now at lunch and are always talking and together. It seems like he has been flirting with me...but i'm not sure. Let's see we always sit next to each other at lunch and always end up rsquished all on top of each other. He playfully jokes with me and punches me. (He does like 3 martial arts ) But I'm afraid to ask him out or if he is gay/likes guys cause iv'e done that before and ruined a friendship. Like i'm not totally blunt about it but I still ask. What should i do?? What does he do that makes you think he's Gay? thats what i was thinking like i said, he just seems nice I was more asking about how he behaves around him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zexion's_Lover_46 76 Posted December 5, 2010 Even though I'm anihuman I know the human nature about dating. You should just try and joke about it at first. As in get him in a laughing mood and just through out the question. Or you can email him or call him on the phone. If he doesn't date you or if he's not gay then it was never meant to be. I really hope it works out for you guys Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartless101 83 Posted December 6, 2010 What makes you think that he's gay? I recommend that first, you should ask him out of curiosity if he likes any girls and stuff like that and move forward after that, depending on the answer he gives. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hige Unari 5 Posted December 6, 2010 It kinda seems like he flirts with me but idk I just got a feeling sorry not very explanatory Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eterna 274 Posted December 7, 2010 It kinda seems like he flirts with me but idk I just got a feeling sorry not very explanatory Next time you talk to him look straight into His eyes, if you notice his pupils dilating it may mean he like's you. Thats what my boyfriend did, I found it quite odd. Also try to pay attention as to how he carries himself, if you really study him you should be able to determine if he's gay or not. Or you could just ask. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites