Does she like me more than a friend?

[Auxon 1]

This is long sorry.

 

I've known this girl for 4 years now, pretty much all throughout high school and my feelings for her just keep growing throughout the years. Shes never really told me anything of what she feels towards me.

 

I decided to go visit my old town and visit her as well. Shes at university atm, and we went and hung out with her friends and etc. Next day she wanted to go with me to visit my old town, but it didn't work out because the buses don't go there on weekends. We went downtown instead to go shopping because I wanted to buy her something. Later on in the mall when we were going to eat, I went to the atm and she was with me. I wanted to see how much I had left from spending all of it days before. I had about 100 dollars left. I told her i'll spend all that on her. She flipped and said she'll hit me if I do anything like that.

 

After a we ate and went shopping she had some stuff in her hand that she liked and looked cute on her. I was trying stuff on and showing her. She was talking about if she should get the clothes or not. I didn't want to say anything but as we walked towards the cashier I told her i'll pay for them. She got upset and said I wasn't allowed. After a few minutes of arguing I looked at her straight in the eyes and told her.

 

"I want to make you happy anyway I can. If it means buying this then whatever, money isn't an issue for me I'll just work again and have more money. What matters is making you happy and smile You think I came on this trip just to go visit my old town. Most of this trip was to come see you."

 

*I pretty much made her let me buy the stuff*

 

Then she caved in and let me buy it, but she looked/felt horrible. She told me when she visits me, I HAVE to let her buy me something. And then we went walking around downtown some more. and at one point stopped looking at a parade near by. I told her how much she means to me, and that i'd miss her when I go back home. She told me not to be upset that i'll see her soon.

 

We hung out some more and then went to a coffee shop and sat down. After some talking I told her that I wanted to do something with her next summer (2011), just the two of us. She said okay. I told her I wanted to go on a trip anywhere with her. I made it clear I wanted it to be just us. She said she was fine with it. I asked her again today she said she was seriously fine with it. But we'll make up our minds later on as to where to go.

 

My question to you guys is: Does she really like me more then a good friend, or not? I'm just really confused. I keep doing everything but say those words that ' I really like you" I think i'm close to loving this girl.

 

But I never know if she likes me back the same way. I mean do you go on a trip to anywhere with you're good friend thats opp sex? Either way i'll probably admit the truth on the trip.

 

This is long sorry.

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I've also asked her if she likes any guys or has BFs, She said no that there are no guys in her UNI she likes atm. And that shes not gonna look for it but if it comes to her then let it come. So I assume she doesn't like me that way.

But =/ idk.

[Amon 4,279]

Its entirely possible. I say that she is close to liking you more than a friend but isn't quite there yet.

[Venterrqua 85]

yh it is possible cause you can never actually know what is going through thir minds, i mean about 6 years ago i moved to Spain, thats when i found out a girl i knew for 4 years had a crush on me and kissed me goodbye, a year ago i came back and she nearly forgot my name and said she lives on the opposite site of the city, but last month i got a text off her saying (exact words) 'pls com 2 mine 2morrow, i have somethin important 2 say :)' so i get too her house at 2pm, im walking down the road and she runs up to me, hugs me and says 'im sorry and i love you'. i was shoked and didnt even know about it sooo yh, it depends, just tell her how you feel and ask her do u feel the same way?

[Auxon 1]

@Fred. Yeah it is possible thats what I think but just hard to tell.

 

@Ven I envy you. Yeah I would tell her my feelings but I don't want to make friendship awkward.

 

I'll hopefully figures out.

[DChiuch 5,773]

You could.. you know.. ask her?