I'm torn. (need advice)

[Hige Unari 5]

Okay way back when in December of 09, I was googling something and in history it said sextube. I immediately got angry because I had been baby sitting my three little siblings a lot and he had to go upstairs and "work" and and then I knew my step dad had been looking at shit. But then the other night when I on the computer doing my science fair a window was up for webcam sex....and my mom was out of town and I got so mad i was going to yell at him and attempt to hurt him but then I cooled down a bit and just closed the window....I really want to say that I'll bring it up whenever he is being a BIG deuce to me and making me mad but i doubt im going to say anything to my him or my mom...idk what to do.

I would just tell her but first of all they talk 24/7 and if i tell her she will talk to him and he will probably say i was lying then go beat me up. ( he is violent and can't control his temper).....and I bet she would believe me but I used to lie a lot but I've been really good and earned their trust back and am like the official good kid. So i really don't know what to do please help!!!

[Sorage55 10]

Just ignore it child. Pain shouldn't be your reward for informing your mother on a small thing as this. Try to keep calm, from the sounds of it, you must have inherited your anger from him.

[Cyber Shaman 990]

WHAT THE HELLS GOING ON HERE!!!! first its VenRox's dad, then Emo's dad, and now your dad!! OMG this is horriable.

[RoxasStalker 11]

I wish I could give you good advice Hige, but I'll always be there to talk to when you need it. Maybe just lay low, I'm sure things will get better for you, karma will get your dad just wait for it.

[Zexion's_Lover_46 76]

My advice is that you tell your mother. You're mother has a right to know wiether she believes you or not. Eventually, she'll find out and if she knew that you knew and didn't tell her then she will be even more upset. And your stepfather can't beat you. My stepfather used to hit me all the time until I got fed up with it and threatened to call the police on him. You should assert your dominace and tell him that hurting you is simply unacceptable. If he doesn't listen and tries to hurt you then you should actually call the police. If you get someone in a vurnable state, then tend to listen more.

[Hige Unari 5]

Just ignore it child. Pain shouldn't be your reward for informing your mother on a small thing as this. Try to keep calm, from the sounds of it, you must have inherited your anger from him.

 

well it doesn't help being in an angry environment...but i'm not very aggressive or anything...

 

WHAT THE HELLS GOING ON HERE!!!! first its VenRox's dad, then Emo's dad, and now your dad!! OMG this is horriable.

 

yeah it is....

 

I wish I could give you good advice Hige, but I'll always be there to talk to when you need it. Maybe just lay low, I'm sure things will get better for you, karma will get your dad just wait for it.

 

yeah..thanks cali nice work thanks for all time talking to me

My advice is that you tell your mother. You're mother has a right to know wiether she believes you or not. Eventually, she'll find out and if she knew that you knew and didn't tell her then she will be even more upset. And your stepfather can't beat you. My stepfather used to hit me all the time until I got fed up with it and threatened to call the police on him. You should assert your dominace and tell him that hurting you is simply unacceptable. If he doesn't listen and tries to hurt you then you should actually call the police. If you get someone in a vurnable state, then tend to listen more.

 

yeah i would but i don't know becuase it's not a super big deal i mean a guy will be a guy.....i guess

[LionheartXIII 6]

Here is what I can tell you. I'm the end your father will get what he deserves, but that does not mean you should put up with it for the time being! Tell your mom in privet what he has been doing (working me butt!) and If she dose not believe you tell her not to say anything to him. Let me tell you from my own situation like this don't push it off! I did and it hurt my Family even more so don't make the same mistake I did tell her! P.S You are do a good job a keeping your anger in check and A real man don't look at that crap epically when he is married!! I'm here If you need to talk any time.

[Antrium 10]

he is a douchebag and needs to be brought to justice so you have to tell your mom about this. For him hitting you I say you show dominience no matter what and if this continues I want you to call me cause I willl kick his ass for you and tie him up and then throw him in a coset then I will make him apologize to you after 2 days of being in the closet then let you hit him a little. But seriously your mom needs to know what is going on. Always here for ya

[Lightning 0]

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

[LionheartXIII 6]

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

 

That doesn't matter I thought that at first but when CPS was at my door that all changed!

[Antrium 10]

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

 

You can go to hell if you think that you can brush off abuse and lieing and cheating. Those who stand by and say it's nothing about something that is wrong are sickening. If Martin Luther King did not stand and fight for African American rights then this nation would not be the same. If we stood by and let Socialism control our nation then we would be nothing. Those who do what is right fight for the ones under oppresion of the sick and the twisted. So if you have the audacity to come and say that to this person then I have the right to tell you that you are nothing more than a helper to the wrong in the world. You either fight and aid the innocent or stand by and help the wrong doers.

[Giginha 22]

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

[Antrium 10]

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

Dramatic? No I am being passionate, Gizelita. We all sould be passionate towards something. For me it's justice and freedom, for others freedom fo expression. So this is me being me, telling people that they should not hide and be quiet but that they should speak and never fall under the oppresion.

[Protoman 1,974]

It's not nice to damn people to hell, kids.

 

Its your choice. I mean either way could cause problems, eventually it will all come crashing down on everyone and shit happens. Of course you can tell now, or you can hide it. Of course your mom could possibly find out on her own. You can talk about this more calmly and in a more reasonable way instead of getting tied up in a knot with stupid, rushed movements. Try and solve this problem so that the worst possible outcome doesn't happen. What I'm saying is you should think on this first instead of just rushing out there. Talk to your mom and your dad and figure out how you can help with the advice that was already given to you by previous persons.

[Antrium 10]

It's not nice to damn people to hell, kids.

 

Its your choice. I mean either way could cause problems, eventually it will all come crashing down on everyone and shit happens. Of course you can tell now, or you can hide it. Of course your mom could possibly find out on her own. You can talk about this more calmly and in a more reasonable way instead of getting tied up in a knot with stupid, rushed movements. Try and solve this problem so that the worst possible outcome doesn't happen. What I'm saying is you should think on this first instead of just rushing out there. Talk to your mom and your dad and figure out how you can help with the advice that was already given to you by previous persons.

 

I know it's not nice but I had to

[Hige Unari 5]

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

yeah thats right

but the funny thing is he expects me to not get angry or do anything when he is being purposely rude and trying to antagonize me.

 

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

Dramatic? No I am being passionate, Gizelita. We all sould be passionate towards something. For me it's justice and freedom, for others freedom fo expression. So this is me being me, telling people that they should not hide and be quiet but that they should speak and never fall under the oppresion.

 

please don't fight and argue...it's not a big deal...

 

It's not nice to damn people to hell, kids.

 

Its your choice. I mean either way could cause problems, eventually it will all come crashing down on everyone and shit happens. Of course you can tell now, or you can hide it. Of course your mom could possibly find out on her own. You can talk about this more calmly and in a more reasonable way instead of getting tied up in a knot with stupid, rushed movements. Try and solve this problem so that the worst possible outcome doesn't happen. What I'm saying is you should think on this first instead of just rushing out there. Talk to your mom and your dad and figure out how you can help with the advice that was already given to you by previous persons.

 

i thought about her finding out which she may have because last year i got in trouble for going on the internet when i wasn't supposed too and have been practically banned from the internet...so i get on at school...but anyways she went and searched all the cookies and such and saw everything ive been on and may have seen what he looked at....idk

but i can't tell her right now because she's on her business trip to work in conn. And i'm not going to burst in with a bunch of accusations im thinking it all out and trying to find the best scenarion and worst case...so dont worry aboout me rushing in cause it won't happen

[Lightning 0]

 

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

 

You can go to hell if you think that you can brush off abuse and lieing and cheating. Those who stand by and say it's nothing about something that is wrong are sickening. If Martin Luther King did not stand and fight for African American rights then this nation would not be the same. If we stood by and let Socialism control our nation then we would be nothing. Those who do what is right fight for the ones under oppresion of the sick and the twisted. So if you have the audacity to come and say that to this person then I have the right to tell you that you are nothing more than a helper to the wrong in the world. You either fight and aid the innocent or stand by and help the wrong doers.

 

Correct me if I am wrong, she said he would only hit her if she told, and she didn't tell yet...

[Antrium 10]

 

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

yeah thats right

but the funny thing is he expects me to not get angry or do anything when he is being purposely rude and trying to antagonize me.

 

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

Dramatic? No I am being passionate, Gizelita. We all sould be passionate towards something. For me it's justice and freedom, for others freedom fo expression. So this is me being me, telling people that they should not hide and be quiet but that they should speak and never fall under the oppresion.

 

please don't fight and argue...it's not a big deal...

 

It's not nice to damn people to hell, kids.

 

Its your choice. I mean either way could cause problems, eventually it will all come crashing down on everyone and shit happens. Of course you can tell now, or you can hide it. Of course your mom could possibly find out on her own. You can talk about this more calmly and in a more reasonable way instead of getting tied up in a knot with stupid, rushed movements. Try and solve this problem so that the worst possible outcome doesn't happen. What I'm saying is you should think on this first instead of just rushing out there. Talk to your mom and your dad and figure out how you can help with the advice that was already given to you by previous persons.

 

i thought about her finding out which she may have because last year i got in trouble for going on the internet when i wasn't supposed too and have been practically banned from the internet...so i get on at school...but anyways she went and searched all the cookies and such and saw everything ive been on and may have seen what he looked at....idk

but i can't tell her right now because she's on her business trip to work in conn. And i'm not going to burst in with a bunch of accusations im thinking it all out and trying to find the best scenarion and worst case...so dont worry aboout me rushing in cause it won't happen

 

 

 

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

 

You can go to hell if you think that you can brush off abuse and lieing and cheating. Those who stand by and say it's nothing about something that is wrong are sickening. If Martin Luther King did not stand and fight for African American rights then this nation would not be the same. If we stood by and let Socialism control our nation then we would be nothing. Those who do what is right fight for the ones under oppresion of the sick and the twisted. So if you have the audacity to come and say that to this person then I have the right to tell you that you are nothing more than a helper to the wrong in the world. You either fight and aid the innocent or stand by and help the wrong doers.

 

Correct me if I am wrong, she said he would only hit her if she told, and she didn't tell yet...

 

I understand that I was wrong I really misunderstood this one and I am sorry for what I ssaid. I was not purposel trying to antoagonize you or anything like that. I am really sorry for this I totally just sped read it and then commented which you should never do. If you would like I would like to start this over because of my actions and try to do this in a more mature way. So, Lightning, Hige Unari, I'm sorry And after re-reading you were trying to say and i agree with you. It would be better.

[Lightning 0]

 

 

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

yeah thats right

but the funny thing is he expects me to not get angry or do anything when he is being purposely rude and trying to antagonize me.

 

Antrium is being dramatic like my sister but... he has a point. You should discuss the problems with him and get to an agreement, just without shouting or any physical agression, just showing your point of view isn't a crime and they ought to let you do that.

 

Dramatic? No I am being passionate, Gizelita. We all sould be passionate towards something. For me it's justice and freedom, for others freedom fo expression. So this is me being me, telling people that they should not hide and be quiet but that they should speak and never fall under the oppresion.

 

please don't fight and argue...it's not a big deal...

 

It's not nice to damn people to hell, kids.

 

Its your choice. I mean either way could cause problems, eventually it will all come crashing down on everyone and shit happens. Of course you can tell now, or you can hide it. Of course your mom could possibly find out on her own. You can talk about this more calmly and in a more reasonable way instead of getting tied up in a knot with stupid, rushed movements. Try and solve this problem so that the worst possible outcome doesn't happen. What I'm saying is you should think on this first instead of just rushing out there. Talk to your mom and your dad and figure out how you can help with the advice that was already given to you by previous persons.

 

i thought about her finding out which she may have because last year i got in trouble for going on the internet when i wasn't supposed too and have been practically banned from the internet...so i get on at school...but anyways she went and searched all the cookies and such and saw everything ive been on and may have seen what he looked at....idk

but i can't tell her right now because she's on her business trip to work in conn. And i'm not going to burst in with a bunch of accusations im thinking it all out and trying to find the best scenarion and worst case...so dont worry aboout me rushing in cause it won't happen

 

 

 

Umm... It really isn't that big of a deal. Just don't tell anyone. Most guys do that...

 

You can go to hell if you think that you can brush off abuse and lieing and cheating. Those who stand by and say it's nothing about something that is wrong are sickening. If Martin Luther King did not stand and fight for African American rights then this nation would not be the same. If we stood by and let Socialism control our nation then we would be nothing. Those who do what is right fight for the ones under oppresion of the sick and the twisted. So if you have the audacity to come and say that to this person then I have the right to tell you that you are nothing more than a helper to the wrong in the world. You either fight and aid the innocent or stand by and help the wrong doers.

 

Correct me if I am wrong, she said he would only hit her if she told, and she didn't tell yet...

 

I understand that I was wrong I really misunderstood this one and I am sorry for what I ssaid. I was not purposel trying to antoagonize you or anything like that. I am really sorry for this I totally just sped read it and then commented which you should never do. If you would like I would like to start this over because of my actions and try to do this in a more mature way. So, Lightning, Hige Unari, I'm sorry And after re-reading you were trying to say and i agree with you. It would be better.

 

its ok. w all have those moments. you were standing up for somthing you thought was right. were cool

[Lightning 0]

Sorry computer double posted.