KH General Chat

[RengokuXHummus 0]

I do gotta say tho Simon kinda did that too

[Muki 0]

And went hand to hand with anti spiral

[Muki 0]

Don’t compare him to that

[RengokuXHummus 0]

And beat depression 😎

[Muki 0]

Well

[raiden94 1]

If i hear one more person say "mommy/daddy" issues as a criticism when in real life that shit is detrimental to peoples cognition, I'm gonna start punching children

[Muki 0]

# FRAHD

[RengokuXHummus 0]

That’s definitely dumb when people attack characters for that

[RengokuXHummus 0]

It’s compelling and relatable to a lot of people.

[RengokuXHummus 0]

Much more so than like whole clan was slaughtered or some other trope

[RengokuXHummus 0]

I still find those compelling, but not as realistic.

[raiden94 1]

I think people that say "mommy/daddy issues" don't understand a thing about trauma and are privileged in a way.

[RengokuXHummus 0]

Could also be projecting bitterness

[RengokuXHummus 0]

People are complicated

[raiden94 1]

I have a good relationship with my folks but, Dad had a bad Dad, Mom had a bad Mom- that shit stays with you man

[raiden94 1]

It really does

[RengokuXHummus 0]

Yeah… very sad. I guess it’s tough to really understand from the outside looking in.

[Evi98 15]

what if I admit I have mommy and daddy issues

[Evi98 15]

what then

[raiden94 1]

I think context matters

The issue is not the acknowledgment that the issues stem from problems with a mother or father

The issue is the label(s) is often used as a dismissal- in a tone or cadence that implies they aren't "real" problems.

[raiden94 1]

I have no problem with the terms in a self-refferential context. But when others use them to describe someone else it is almost always dismissive or apathetical.

[Evi98 15]

True, I agree with that

[keyblademaster26 0]

# HELP ME

[Muki 0]

With what

[keyblademaster26 0]

ROXAS!