General Chat

[Sam N 10]

I mean yes. All I’m saying is the first step to being seen as normal is to act normal.

[GoldenDrummer730#4323 24]

give it time

[LuciaBlu 0]

I had to convinced them it was a one time thing and they let it go

You say that

[LuciaBlu 0]

But not everyone see it as normal

[LuciaBlu 0]

Especially if they're really religious

Not everyone responds differently to it

[Sam N 10]

firetruck them then. Who cares what they think?

[LuciaBlu 0]

And this is when I was 13

[LuciaBlu 0]

And 25 now

[LuciaBlu 0]

I know, I'm just saying it ain't black and white as you think

[LuciaBlu 0]

People do care

And there's people who don't

But if you say it to the wrong people, it can affect you

[Snakeskin94 13]

Unfortunately there's bad and good people who, they only see the descriptors.

[LuciaBlu 0]

Yes and don't forget there's people who see us as predators

[Snakeskin94 13]

It's like, you said you're bi, right? Well, to some people, you stop being "Oh this is my friend Lucia", and now it's "Oh this my bi friend, Lucia". Stuff like that

[Sam N 10]

You know what I learned in high school? Trying to fit in isn’t worth it. I’m not normal, I will NEVER be normal. And that’s okay. I don’t want other people’s approval; I just want to be left alone.

[LuciaBlu 0]

Yes just like that

[Snakeskin94 13]

Way I see it though, more often than not, other people will make it a bigger deal then it has to be; no matter how lowkey you are

Tl;dr people suck no matter what lmao

[Sam N 10]

I stay out of society’s way and it stays out of mine. Recipe for success.

Honestly the world would be a better place if everyone just left each other alone

[inari_sune 0]

I think it would be better if people understand and acknowledged others perspectives

[LuciaBlu 0]

Imo, I think there's some freedom in that but it can also make you a slave

[Sam N 10]

That’s not going to happen

[inari_sune 0]

Yeah, it never will

[LuciaBlu 0]

It does happen

Maybe not to a grander scale people want it to, but it does happen

[Sam N 10]

We’ve been in existence for thousands of years. Don’t you think that if we were capable of understanding each other we’d have done it by now?

[inari_sune 0]

Yee

[LuciaBlu 0]

It depends on what you mean by it