deplanet08 74 Posted February 22, 2017 So there is this girl that I have very strong feelings for at my school. She just got her heart broken by this guy she was in a relationship with for 6 months. I really like her and we're really good friends right now but I know it's not right to try and be in a relationship with her yet. But I don't wanna be friend zoned either. How much of a waiting period should I give her until I ask her out? Thoughts? 1 The Transcendent Key reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rosco258 212 Posted February 22, 2017 thats a tough one man. i been thru this and let me tell you wait. if you ask her out to soon you may hear her still having her feelings for this other guy. it all depends how she feels. did she have a strong relationship with him or was it just meh. it all depends on her it could be a week it could be 6 months 1 Mystics Apprentice reacted to this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DoDo4869 301 Posted February 22, 2017 Let me say this first: I am no expert with relationships, never been in one (an probably never will be ), but i think that the best you can do for now is to be there for her and comfort her. A broken heart needs time to heal. Try to distract her a bit. It is impossible to say, when the best time is to ask her. You just have to wait and see when she feels better. like I said, try being there for her and help her until the time is right Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A e r o b l a s t 2 Posted February 22, 2017 From experience: be sure the "smog" from her ex is cleared, then have your turn. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deplanet08 74 Posted February 22, 2017 Let me say this first: I am no expert with relationships, never been in one (an probably never will be ), but i think that the best you can do for now is to be there for her and comfort her. A broken heart needs time to heal. Try to distract her a bit. It is impossible to say, when the best time is to ask her. You just have to wait and see when she feels better. like I said, try being there for her and help her until the time is right She had some pretty strong feelings for this guy. They would hang out every night Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dustin Lübbers 933 Posted February 22, 2017 dont ask me I am not good with this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VisitJoan 2,713 Posted February 22, 2017 There's no exact answer to your question, but there's one thing you can do for her - be her friend. Listen to her, offer her a shoulder to cry on if that's what she wants, and let her know that you're there for her. Give it some time and things may just work out for you guys. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Transcendent Key 12,109 Posted February 23, 2017 Well my boy, the way I see it, the best advice that I can give to you is that you be there and offer yourself as a person whom she can confide in. Let her express her dismay, her thoughts, let her express how she feels so she doesn't have to bottle it up, and in you, she'll find a kindred spirit with whom she'll be happy to talk to. Things will progress naturally, and hopefully, you'll get the results you're searching for! Obviously, don't rush into things, just let everything flow organically! May your heart be your guiding key! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
