But this time I need some help pretty bad.
Ok I will not give you any names for private reasons as you probably will understand.
I live near Amsterdam and I am a 17 years old boy/guy.
Party like every weekend on saturday on Amsterdam.
In my life I never really liked a girl (this is pretty important in my situation).
Had a couple of girlfriend, but never something serieus.
Also never talked about girls to my parents ever.
Normally I went out with a good friend of mine who is a guy model.
I am not ugly at all, but as you have already guessed he gets all the girls and I am his wingman.
Not a bad job to be his wingman though met some pretty hot girls.
But I always had bad luck
Until I was going out with an other friend of mine.
I wasn't even in the club for 5 minutes and caught the eye of a beautiful Vodka (Codeword for blond girl
).I was like ok nice, but didn't expect anything, because of my bad luck.
She walked past me and her hand went over my belly.
I went after her and asked her if she wanted a drink.
she said no
But turned and blinked at me.
So went after her (and stupid me) 'asked' if she wanted to dance ((like a loser) tip: never ask a girl that just do it).
she said maybe later, I thought that I screwed it up and didn't saw her for a while.
later I was having a drink and I saw her leaving with her friend.
I went up to her and asked her why are you leaving.
She said I am going to the next bar and begon to stand really close to me.
She asked if came with her and I said ok.
She nearly kissed me, but then said we will do that in the next club.
I will see you at the next squar she said, because you still have to pick up your jacket and she gave me her number.
I rushed to my jacket and stood out side in a splitsecond.
Called and she said go to the square I will meet you there.
I waited there for like an hour still no sign so I called her a bit mad and she said go in a club and I will come to that club.
I went to a club not a second later I got a text that she was in a different club.
I went to that club and I didn't came in the club cause it was 18plus.
She came outside and we stood against eachother again.
It was very nice, but still she didn't kiss me.
and after a half of an hour she went back in.
In the beginning I thought that that would never work out and didn't had feelings for her.
Later we still text a bit and everything became better.
We had a date like 3 weeks later.
This date was steaming hot (no details
)I fell in love for the first time that day. (not because it was hot in the beginning everything was relaxed).
later things went down south and I said to her that I never fell in love like this.
She found me too sweet.
After our first date we only kissed 2 times.
And she began to talk about other guys (a lot of guys were interested in her).
She told me she wanted to be young and free and didn't want a relationship.
I could live with that, but I knew it wasn't true.
Now she friendzoned me.
And I payed for everything I did with her (took her out for dinner everytime) I have spend like 400 euros in 3 months on her.
Even told my parents about her and they were shocked and think we have something.
My friends think I am crazy that I still go after her and become friends.
So I have no one to talk to.
I just can't get her out of my head.
And that is not a big problem, but I have final school exams in one week and I just can't learn because of this.
PLEASE HELP ME!
I am a good guy that is my problem.
She is the 12th girl who friendzoned me in one year.
All the other 11 times didn't bother me though.
sorry for the long post hope you can help me
Thanks for your time.
Daniel Chiuchiarelli