Baka, you DO have a life, YOUR life obviously, that's the one thing that he can never copy, you yourself, what he does is what he does and if this is just some way of getting to you in order to just piss off then he's pathetic can't he hasn't got anything better to do in his very own life except copy yours, remember that fact and that way you will be able to put up with him as long as you want to that is.
Thats the most beautiful thing i heard so far...
If what makes you special isnt inimitable enough that you are easily threatened, then it probably wasnt so special to begin with.
How about you let the kid live his own life and you can live yours?
Its not like i don't want him to live his life..
Come on man, don't you think its a little harsh? isn't he your friend? maybe he's just trying to get closer to you and trying out the things you like? and what do you do, call him gay and rant about him across a site? ok he might be gay, and he might like you, but whats wrong with that even if he was? the fact that you, yourself are getting annoyed by it just shows your insecurity.
You aren't a good friend if your acting like that, my advice would be to the guy, and to just stop idolising you but since i can't speak to him, nor i know who he is, my other advise to you, is to grow up, and just let him do what he wants.
from what i read, i personally think he admires you as a friend, and is what you call "copying" but rather, hes just trying to have fun, and do the things YOU like to do, FOR YOU, i mean, he said he hated it right? well maybe hes just trying to get your attention more OR maybe he actually got a interest in it, after seeing you do it, or w/e. Maybe you should try out things he likes to do, other than criticising him. because if you don't let him have a chance, then your not even a decent enough to be HIS friend.
Maybe you are right...
I was a harsh
Okay, I have been in this exact same situation about four different times, so I completely understand what this is like. (Not trying to say that I'm like a God and people always copy me but yeah, has happened a lot.)
First of all, to people who are saying that he's overreacting and that he should be nice about it and everything; you guys have obviously never had this happened to you! It is bloody annoying as hell! And what's worst, if you try to be his friend; he'll continue to do it and hang on your every word, copying your jokes, playing on them in the worst fashion and following you EVERYWHERE. Even if you tell him to leave you alone or make it abundantly clear without being precise you don't like him; he'll probably still do it. Because people like this can't get a hint. Even when you make it very very clear to them (shouting "I hate you. Leave me alone you pathetic little...." seems to work very well) they will either still do it; cry to a teacher and get you in trouble or best case scenario; tell their parents who will forbid their child from going near 'a bad influence.'
Now for the advice. First of all; check for sure he's copying you. He could just see you doing all this stuff and think he might like to try. Not exactly copying but still kinda annoying. Just sort of make up a very elaborate story that you're quitting music and dance (don't really, of course) and see how he reacts. Obviously if he says something similar; he's copying you.
Then, (now this part gets complicated because it depends how liked the person is and how much you care what other people think of you) you interrogate him. Ask him straight out why's he copying you, if he's really gay (which I doubt he is) and so on. Make sure he doesn't slip up the questions somehow. I'll leave that up to you, since the way I did it was...well...I never said I was a nice person...
After that, you should be able to sort it out, even if you have to go to the teachers and tell them that the kid is stalking you.
Thank you... Really
I dont HATE him it is just annoying like you said...
Oh and about the gay part.. Well i think it was just my imagination...
I don't like hating people.... I thought about the quitting dance and music and i told it to him and he was like WTF? Why?
Well with other words he didn't like the idea...
Next thing you know, he kills you, then takes your face, then lives in your house, then takes all your friends, then......you get it.
Identity theft at its finest.
He once "joked" about stealing my voice and spying on me...
I really creeped out...
you remind me of a friend I used to have who would freak out if someone got the same cellphone/haircut/backpack/shoes/whatever as her and pretend they were copying her.
you're not a speshul snowflake; stop being so self-centered. liking the same thing you do doesn't mean he's copying you, and even if he his, so what? it's not hurting you in any way.
and so what if he's gay? that has nothing to do with your "problem", lol.
Read my previous replies
And FWI i said that i don't want to take them apart of him because maybe he likes them
Edited by SoraKH, 01 May 2012 - 03:29 AM.