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[Koko]

I haven't been able to trust anyone for a long time, I've been alone for longer than I care to remember. How am I not alone? Who would care about some sad, loser like me? Even my friends, my family, I know they love my, but somehow I can't bring myself to confide in them. I'm just too distant from my parents to trust them, I'm a black sheep in my family.

You're not alone because there are many people who have gone through the same thing. It seems like you can't trust your parents, trust me, I didn't trust mine ever, but the first step towards feeling better is to reach out for help

[King Demise]

I don't have any problems currently at the time, but i would help someone if I can. You can just PM me and I'll try to help in any way i can.

[4Everbee]

I wanted to post this sooner but I didn't know how to.
I tried ranting to help me out a bit.
It only made things worse



I don't know why. But I'm going crazy. I'm eating right. I'm walking on my feet. But my head hurts me to much. And my heart it hearts.
And I don't know what to do.
My little sis won't leave me the firetruck alone. She can't clean for shit and I have to do it.
I feel bad for my dad now cause he mad cause I love my mom more. I tried being with him and talking but when I do.
There's a voice in my head that says. "That asshole left you for dead. I firetrucking hate this man." And now it happening with almost everybody on his side of the family.
I can't sleep then when I do fall sleep my sis put on the TV,
I want to fight with Luan again and I want take my nails and put them in my skin.
I want to fight with everybody. There a boy I liked but he hurt me so bad and I can't forget that and he keep talking about the person he likes and then I hurt even more and I feel like my "Friends." Are not my friends and I'm just losing it.
I'm sorry but I really just need help.

[Koko]

First of all, about your sister.
Being a big sister is hard, I know.
My little sister is constantly annoying me too, but what can you do?
Try to bond with her at least. Don't have an awkward hateful relationship with her, she's your sister after all. She looks up to you. You need to teach her to do things for herself.
What did your dad do to you? If you don't mind sharing? :/ If you really feel you can't have a good relationship with him, don't try. It might make things worse. Maybe when you're older you can try to talk about whatever happened? But do what you feel comfortable with.
Try to find a way to vent your anger. You like to write, right? Write more. Express your feelings in your writing. Write an angry poem, scream, yell, cry even, anything to get your negative emotions out.
I don't know what else to say but I hope things look up for you <3

[4Everbee]

First of all, about your sister.
Being a big sister is hard, I know.
My little sister is constantly annoying me too, but what can you do?
Try to bond with her at least. Don't have an awkward hateful relationship with her, she's your sister after all. She looks up to you. You need to teach her to do things for herself.
What did your dad do to you? If you don't mind sharing? :/ If you really feel you can't have a good relationship with him, don't try. It might make things worse. Maybe when you're older you can try to talk about whatever happened? But do what you feel comfortable with.
Try to find a way to vent your anger. You like to write, right? Write more. Express your feelings in your writing. Write an angry poem, scream, yell, cry even, anything to get your negative emotions out.
I don't know what else to say but I hope things look up for you <3

Thanks.

[marinaAxel56]

its not a big problem compared to some stuff posted here.... btw, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being homosexual or bisexual.
but recently, ive become aware that lots of people at school who barely know me, if at all, instantly hate me. a bunch of 'popular' people, in particular, but just in general i seem to give off a bad impression without trying to. i don't act deliberately unfriendly and my friends like me, it's just the people i don't know who have problems with me. most of them are horrible anyway, but that doesn't mean im okay with being judged so much like this.

[Madotsuki]

its not a big problem compared to some stuff posted here.... btw, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being homosexual or bisexual.
but recently, ive become aware that lots of people at school who barely know me, if at all, instantly hate me. a bunch of 'popular' people, in particular, but just in general i seem to give off a bad impression without trying to. i don't act deliberately unfriendly and my friends like me, it's just the people i don't know who have problems with me. most of them are horrible anyway, but that doesn't mean im okay with being judged so much like this.

firetruck them. If they aren't willing to get to know you better before judging you, then they aren't worth you even thinking about them.

[marinaAxel56]

firetruck them. If they aren't willing to get to know you better before judging you, then they aren't worth you even thinking about them.

thank you, i like that answer )

[khfanXIII]

Ok... I'm kind of in a chain of unrequited love. I'm gay and have been in love with my childhood friend for over 6 years now. He's homophobic and he knows that I'm gay and in love with him and he's been avoiding me ever sinse I came out. He's my first love and I feel like I can't breath without him. I love him so much... Meanwhile my best friend who is a girl and knows im gay is in love with me. And I feel bad because i don't want to hurt her the same way my crush has been hurting me but... I'm gay! What can I do? I can't date her because then I'd feel like I'd be lying to her and myself. What do I do...?

[Koko]

Ok... I'm kind of in a chain of unrequited love. I'm gay and have been in love with my childhood friend for over 6 years now. He's homophobic and he knows that I'm gay and in love with him and he's been avoiding me ever sinse I came out. He's my first love and I feel like I can't breath without him. I love him so much... Meanwhile my best friend who is a girl and knows im gay is in love with me. And I feel bad because i don't want to hurt her the same way my crush has been hurting me but... I'm gay! What can I do? I can't date her because then I'd feel like I'd be lying to her and myself. What do I do...?

Okay first of all, it's okay
You'll be fine, trust me
I know what it's like to fall for a friend that's straight
It's hard, and I fortunately didn't have the problem where she was homophobic, so i don't know how to help you out there
My best advice is to move on.
He's homophobic and it's really hard to get someone out of that state of mind.
He's avoiding you and that might mean he doesn't care about you as a friend enough to stick by your side no matter what
So I think you need to move on, as hard as it may be.

Make it clear to your friend that you are not interested. That you are gay and she needs to move on because it won't happen. It might be harsh but it's what she needs. She can't chase someone that won't chase back

[FireRubies1]

I'm bi and there's this guy I like. Sometimes he does things that make me feel like he likes me too. But he's a Christian extremist and doesn't support that.

But my problem is that he seems to have control over my emotions.... he can do something to either make me the happiest person alive, but if I go a day feeling ignored or I don't see him I just feel really ill emotionally and I start to wonder if the future is really worth it.

[Madotsuki]

I'm bi and there's this guy I like. Sometimes he does things that make me feel like he likes me too. But he's a Christian extremist and doesn't support that.

But my problem is that he seems to have control over my emotions.... he can do something to either make me the happiest person alive, but if I go a day feeling ignored or I don't see him I just feel really ill emotionally and I start to wonder if the future is really worth it.

gah, I have the same exact problem (minus the Christian extremist thing). like literally the exact same. There's no real advice I can give except to just kind of grin and bear it. ;_; if you ever want to talk, just PM me~ .3.

[Think Pink]

I'm bi and there's this guy I like. Sometimes he does things that make me feel like he likes me too. But he's a Christian extremist and doesn't support that.

But my problem is that he seems to have control over my emotions.... he can do something to either make me the happiest person alive, but if I go a day feeling ignored or I don't see him I just feel really ill emotionally and I start to wonder if the future is really worth it.

He doesn't have to be an extremist to not support it. :// Just sayin'. It's not an exclusively extremist thing.

But if he's making you feel bad, then you might not want to hang out with him anymore. And there's nothing you can do to make him like you--that goes for everybody. If someone doesn't feel that way about you, then there really isn't much to be done, especially if they have a different sexual orientation. If he can really make you feel that miserable, then maybe you should stop hanging out with him?

[FireRubies1]

He doesn't have to be an extremist to not support it. :// Just sayin'. It's not an exclusively extremist thing.

But if he's making you feel bad, then you might not want to hang out with him anymore. And there's nothing you can do to make him like you--that goes for everybody. If someone doesn't feel that way about you, then there really isn't much to be done, especially if they have a different sexual orientation. If he can really make you feel that miserable, then maybe you should stop hanging out with him?

I know, but he personally told me he doesn't support it. I would stop hanging out with him but when he does make me happy.... I feel like the luckiest person alive.

[Think Pink]

I know, but he personally told me he doesn't support it. I would stop hanging out with him but when he does make me happy.... I feel like the luckiest person alive.

Well you can't fault him for what he believes. But what is most important here is you, and if he can screw with your emotions this much, then he has far too much control over your life.

[Koko]

Well you can't fault him for what he believes. But what is most important here is you, and if he can screw with your emotions this much, then he has far too much control over your life.

This this this

Do not let a single person control how you feel
You are in control of your emotions
You are in control of yourself

@Austin

You need to get over him. I'm sorry I'm so blunt, but it's true. He doesn't support it, there's nothing you can do. You just need to move on, as hard as it may be. But do not let this one thing control your emotions and your life.

[FireRubies1]

This this this

Do not let a single person control how you feel
You are in control of your emotions
You are in control of yourself

@Austin

You need to get over him. I'm sorry I'm so blunt, but it's true. He doesn't support it, there's nothing you can do. You just need to move on, as hard as it may be. But do not let this one thing control your emotions and your life.

For some reason this made me stop thinking of him as much... I still enjoy talking to him but I don't feel that sad without him. I guess this site was so much fun he kinda popped out of my head

[SummerRain]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too :/
well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.
my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.
My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.
I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

[Madotsuki]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too :/
well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.
my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.
My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.
I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

Please think before you run away. You already said you have nowhere to go; how would running away and ending up on the streets make your life any better? You have a family (even if you don't like some of them), you have a home, don't throw that away so easily.

[Koko]

Ok so I know I posted a thread but I have other problems too :/
well two weeks ago my bf for a year and a half ignored me, broke up with me, and won't tell me why. I still miss him and care about him even though he flirts with other girls, and called me a bipolar pms-ing bitch.
my dad got re-married to his gf who I always fight with, and I fight with her spoiled kids. They got married in a courtroom and didn't tell me about it. That doesn't bug me. The part that pissed me off is my dad always wanted a church wedding. He even criticized my sister who's not having a catholic wedding. The he does this.
My mom is dating a guy who cares about her, but thinks my sister is a slacker cuz she had to pay for community college but had to drop out cuz she ran out of money.
I try talking to my friends but they don't understand. I have nowhere to go and my heart hurts. im considering running away

honestly
you are just whining

your ex boyfriend is nothing but an ex.
what good is a guy who won't tell you why he acted in such a way and calls you horrible things.
get over him.
he's not a good guy.
he wasn't worth your time.
and definitely is not worth running away for

your dad can do what he wants. if he decided to have a courtroom wedding that is his own choice. i'd be more worried about the fact that he married someone you didn't approve of. that's something you need to talk to him about. but as long as she isn't abusing you, then really, there's nothing to complain about :/

and whatever is going between your mom and sister has nothing to do with you, so move on.

sorry to be so blunt.

there's no reason to run away
there's itty bitty baby problems :/